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Brendan34
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From: Albany, NY, USA
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posted December 07, 2016 01:37 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Brendan34     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Wondering if anyone would care to exchange. I have been going through a turbulent time after the end of a 7 year relationship in July. Bringing up a lot of self doubt in recent months. I have not felt like myself in a while and am confused. I feel heartache, intense sorrow everyday. I'm trying to stay positive about the future but living back in my childhood home is probably not helping. Don't mean to give too much info. here but every time I look in the mirror I wonder how I am going to make it on my own.

I am planning to find a job and relocate to move ahead and focus on my future. I am wondering if I will be ok and if I will move in time?

Also, is my relationship with A (A & B are our two first name initials) truly over?

Really appreciate someone taking the time!

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Brendan34
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posted December 07, 2016 03:59 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Brendan34     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Anyone like to exchange? Thanks for the consideration.

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Astro keen
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posted December 07, 2016 04:21 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Astro keen     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Hi Brendan,
Will pull cards for you. Would you clarify if you're male or female? Would hate to make the wrong judgements based upon a username.

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tphoenix5
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posted December 07, 2016 05:30 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for tphoenix5     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I would love your birth information... date, time place .... It seems your relationship and possibly you are going thru something that sounds very Saturnian. Saturn lives in a world of 7,14, 30 years. The feelings you are having clearly seem like Saturn. That heavy weighted feeling,. In which case, I am gonna say no to the getting back together for a big reason.... the relationship simply did not work or was TOO much work for one or both parties. Sorry to another downer but that is the very feeling I get.?

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cherful24
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From: chicago, il
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posted December 07, 2016 06:14 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for cherful24     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I can exchange also. I'll be right back with yours. I just started a new job a month ago and I wanted to see if I would be staying there or that would be finding something else or what. Thanks

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cherful24
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posted December 07, 2016 06:21 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for cherful24     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I didn't get that your relationship is going to reach its full closure. I see another 2 to 3 years of when it's on Solid Ground and then a little bit off and then solid and then off, etc. But the final conclusion is that you two stay together and remain. I don't know what happened in your relationship but it feels more like you to stay together because there aren't more fruitful experiences/or opportunities in those two to three years that I've mentionedm.... So what I'm saying is after 3 years is when it's finally going to be more Blissful. That and you both will be in the relationship and happy. It almost feels a little bit like someone is reluctant to think that this is the final call...like they won't have any opportunities elsewhere or they might think they have better opportunities also where in and see that they don't. It doesn't feel like you're married now is that correct? When you move would you be willing to get a roommate? You seem a bit older to me late thirties/early 40's? Is that correct? I think you will do fine if you're willing to get some assistance and I think that means a roommate. I don't know when you're planning to move out of your family's home but I don't think you should do so for another year. I don't think much is going to happen for you in a year. So why not stay at home and save some money if you can. Work on recharging Who You Are and going to the gym... You need some assistance for the upcoming year is what I'm saying but afterwards I think you'll be absolutely on path

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Brendan34
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posted December 07, 2016 07:01 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Brendan34     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I am 30, male and my birth information is: 3/6/86, 11:28 am, New York. Cancer Ascendant, Pisces Sun, Capricorn Moon.

Thank you very much for the thoughtful responses and will reply more later to the posts here. If this relationship is truly over due to my Saturn return, then I feel moving and finding a job elsewhere is something I must do psychologically at this point in time.

TPhoenix, I think you are right in what you said and am having difficulty in moving forward mentally and still grieving at points everyday.

I am someone who has been too close to home throughout life and after moving this year to where my ex lives, and then having to moving back because of the break up, I finally woke up and realized it's a big world. I am in need a new start so to speak.

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Brendan34
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posted December 08, 2016 05:44 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Brendan34     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
quote:
Originally posted by cherful24:
I can exchange also. I'll be right back with yours. I just started a new job a month ago and I wanted to see if I would be staying there or that would be finding something else or what. Thanks

Hi cherful, thank you for your response to my post. I have been focusing on myself, exercising often like you suggested. Moving would also be a reason for me to have more of a social life, be in a different area, different mindset, etc. Yes, I would be living with a roommate like you said if I moved.

As far as your question, are you happy with the new job or how is it going? I sense maybe you are seeking other options.

From the cards I pulled (Magician and Strength), how you are feeling about yourself is a sense of willpower to get things done, you are thinking on your feet. With whatever you decide, it's time to believe in yourself and go for what you want because you have the stamina right now to do so. Any new enterprise in love or career shows great potential now.

What you want most right now is to find the strength to see through and achieve what you want. It's important to come from a place of tolerance though and not aggression. Put your fears aside and develop a positive attitude to keep moving forward.

If you keep pursuing different options eventually I think you will find a job better suited to what you actually want? I know it's easier said than done. But, I would be sure about your decision before making it. Keep exploring your options in the meantime because it doesn't hurt anything.

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Astro keen
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posted December 09, 2016 11:57 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Astro keen     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Brendan, sorry didn't get back to you earlier.
Re your relationship:
5 of wands, Sun, 4 of pentacles
You have come through a period of tension and strife which hindered your ability to move forward. But now there is a time of freedom, as denoted by Sun. You will indeed make it on your own. You have been making a breakthrough in understanding the patterns of a relationship. The Sun says everything is going in the right direction for you. This may relate to the relationship where a good period is about to come. It can also be a card of solitude. You can shine as you get ahead in life on your own terms, but you are alone. 4 of pentacles is asking you to be open and receptive to new experiences. Do not hold on to the past, make the most of your freedom and shine forth. This spread does not say that the relationship is over, as such. As with so many relationships, the decision lies with the people involved.

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Brendan34
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posted December 10, 2016 02:45 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Brendan34     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
astro keen... Thank you so much for taking the time and for your insightful reading! I really appreciate it.

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Brendan34
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posted December 11, 2016 04:38 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Brendan34     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
If anyone wants to do an exchange again.

Everyday since things ended in July I've been feeling tremendous guilt for things I know I should have done better in the relationship, been more practical, etc.

If we never saw each other again or spoke, there's a void in my heart that feels like it will remain there. An emptiness, all that energy/love gone. My memories mean so much to me, and knowing I did not do my best and let my own personal issues/stress/anxiety get in the way when we moved in together is what I blame myself for.

Is there any part of her (A) that sees a future with me (B) and now that I have done/worked on certain things since the breakup?

Thank you.

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