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posted December 22, 2016 09:43 AM            

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wanna x-change?

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posted December 22, 2016 10:16 AM            

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Sure. What's ur q?

Mine is what does Justin think of me? I met him several times. We work together but he's in a different office.

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posted December 22, 2016 10:28 AM            

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What does meep think of me? how will things proceed between the two of us if I'm not aggressive?

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posted December 22, 2016 10:34 AM            

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faith - harbors a secret crush on you. You're in his daydreams- I'm guessing it's sexual in nature rather than anything else.
8 of wands- putting you on a pedestal and really wanting to be able to meet you more often even when it feels the two of you are worlds apart from each other.
5 of coins- Seems like you'll be giving him some attention, and will be stingy with the attention you give him going forward.. wonder what that's about.

Short story- he likes you and def. views you more than a work mate.

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posted December 22, 2016 10:46 AM            

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Thanks 😁 he's really hot....I'm still fat so I'm surprised he's even attracted to me, but I'll take it!

I'm not sure why u have lingering doubt....unless u want it to pick the pace. Has he been divorced?

He's seems to like u...Has interest in u. I don't think u have to be aggressive...but do show plenty of signs that ur interested in him. I think if u go at ur speed, he'll pull back. He'll be uncomfortable. He seems to be wanting to build a solid base, no that he can be friends with u and then he'll take it further.

Can u hang out more with him, like getting drinks? A quick bite to eat after work? You're not intimately dating right now, correct?

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posted December 22, 2016 10:49 AM            

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No divorce with this guy. Idk, I'm a bit torn because I do have a crush on him, but know that I will have to take it slow.

Meeting him happens from time to time. I can't set anything up because my job is fairly unpredictable.

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posted December 22, 2016 10:53 AM            

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posted December 22, 2016 10:56 AM            

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A trick? I'm not 5.
lol.

She's not told me yet. It's a strange situation tbf. I'm a slow poke when it comes to committing to anything, even if I do like the person. Go figure.

Just curious- how would you let someone you're interested in them? I need all the advice I can get.

pst- could you unquote?

Pst- being fat or skinny doesn't always matter He likes you regardless.

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posted December 22, 2016 11:00 AM            

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Talk to him when u see him. Talk about his life....try to break away from anything about him and ur friend. I think he's unsure if u are or aren't being sneaky for ur friend.

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posted December 22, 2016 11:01 AM            

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Fair enough- thanks Cher

lmk if you have more qs. I'll do it in the morning- 10 hours from now. need to sleep now.

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