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posted December 26, 2016 06:26 AM            

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Opening a new one 😉

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posted December 26, 2016 10:34 AM            

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we do get some long ones! LOL

Care to exchange?

So, M has once again gone silent so you are correct as I feel tomorrow will not happen. He deleted his dating profile and I have his phone number but once again, he's ignoring my texts. Will he respond and when since we never really had a time set, just tomorrow?

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posted December 26, 2016 10:39 AM            

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You keep looking at a non quick responce as going silent. He doesnt go "silent" he just takes longer than your hopes/wishes are of him replying. Its not done with intent to "ignore/go silent". It just happens do yo his life and choices, getting distracted and getting his priorities straight. He isnt a good multitasker.
When... within these 2 days, early morning/day tuesday I would say if today doesnt happen.

Wanted to ask what has been keeping A busy these days?

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posted December 26, 2016 11:04 AM            

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For your question I got flowers, hands, cat, apple, house and clarifying card man. So it looks like A is keeping somewhat close to home and family/friends and helping his family/friends more than anything lately. He is finding a certain pleasure or rightness in his life that has maybe been missing by being closer to family and also gaining some knowledge that maybe he feels he's lost somewhere along the way. His recent "bad luck" has made him want go to where he feels he doesn't have to be so careful, where he can feel secure. I feel he's more around close friends compared to family though if that makes any sense.

I say going silent since I messaged him yesterday afternoon and never got a response and then again this morning and nothing. So that to me is going silent.

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posted December 26, 2016 11:12 AM            

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I dont think you should message him so much. With doing that you are showing you will do all the effort to keep communication going and therefor he wont have to and he can go silent on you knowing you will contact again. You are not geting desired effect. Im sorry I dont mean to be harsh just wish to help you.
Best to stop giving him attention if you want the attention.

And thank you

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posted December 26, 2016 12:02 PM            

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there's been silence from me since this morning and was only the 1 text yesterday as well that he didn't respond to. But yes I do understand what you are saying and agree. You're not being harsh at all! thank you so much

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posted December 26, 2016 12:05 PM            

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Well if you have more to ask let me know 😊

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posted December 26, 2016 02:04 PM            

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why did he really delete his dating profile?

and do you have more questions?

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posted December 26, 2016 02:33 PM            

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For some time he felt bored and saw nothing new there and after a bit of time he did also feel some guilt as he did see that he has started something with you.
It did start with him feel bored there and didnt talk to others also in some time.

My Q - what does A miss about me most?

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posted December 26, 2016 03:04 PM            

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for your question I got package, toad, bridge, lock, eggs and clarifying card cherries. A misses several things about you but he misses your inner beauty, honesty and sweetness the most. He knows he could always count on your honesty no matter what the situation was and that helped him out of a lot of obstacles and problems but he also knew when he was having a really bad day, he could count on you to be there for him no matter what, you never gave false flattery/answers. That is part of the inner beauty and sweetness that he has not found elsewhere and what will always draw him back to you. You also were able to help him solve problems with your creative mind, ideas and resources. I asked what he missed the most and all of these popped up....so he misses a lot about you! I hope this resonates

Yes M did mention that the dating site was worth a laugh so I can see him deleting it for that reason. I honestly can't see him deleting it for anything to do with me since he is still silent....I do hope we meet tomorrow but not holding my breath at this point with his silence. I will definitely let you know what happens!

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posted December 26, 2016 03:20 PM            

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Thank you yes this makes a lot of sense.

I think for you its the best to detach from any outcome so you feel less sad if not as expected.

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posted December 26, 2016 03:22 PM            

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I am pretty detached right now and don't expect to hear from him or actually meet him since he's gone silent. To me that says he's not interested....

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posted December 26, 2016 03:23 PM            

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Thats best mindframe to have 😊

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posted December 26, 2016 03:29 PM            

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so are you thinking I won't actually meet him then?

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posted December 26, 2016 03:53 PM            

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No like I said you will.
Its just good to be detached

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posted December 27, 2016 10:46 AM            

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Hi.

May I ask another q please?

Is there any chance A and L will make up again?

Leave me yours

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posted December 27, 2016 12:01 PM            

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I got devil, wave, bottle, ladder, hammer and clarifying card angel. No L makes A feel empty and drained and he is done. He is aware of what she is and has the strength/drive to stay away. Now, she would like to get back with him and has been quite forceful but he is in control and has no intention of getting back with her. The angel card is even showing the message of good news will be coming soon....I do see that as being the complete end of her being in his life altogether which is what he wants.

I have no question right now. Still silence from M so I'm really thinking tonight will not happen as no time was set or anything and he's not messaged me at all regarding it.

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posted December 27, 2016 02:11 PM            

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Thank you. This helped as I have a strange feeling like something may happen soon so wast sure if its fear based.

Im so sorry dear. I wish I was right.
If you need anything let me know

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posted December 27, 2016 02:31 PM            

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the crazy thing is, everyone saw us meeting today so really confused on how so many people could get that wrong.....

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posted December 27, 2016 02:39 PM            

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He changed his mind possibly. The intent was there but a change of mind

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posted December 27, 2016 02:56 PM            

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do you think he will try to reach out to me at all and offer any kind of excuse?

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posted December 27, 2016 03:02 PM            

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Yes he will. The excuse may not feel suficient to you and it may seem like he should give a better one. But yes he will and I get it be before thursday well even more before the week is over. There will be conversation about this between you.

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posted December 27, 2016 03:18 PM            

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Thank you. Also wanted to let you know, I did get a call for a 2nd interview for the job I interviewed for on Friday. Nothing yet from the one on last Monday but they are on plant shut down this week.

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posted December 27, 2016 03:55 PM            

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Good luck

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posted December 29, 2016 01:20 PM            

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Been thinking about you. Hope you are well
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