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posted December 28, 2016 01:46 AM            

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Anyone up to do some exchanges? I'll do up to 3 people to exchange with

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posted December 28, 2016 02:56 AM            

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I would exchange if you are still up.

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posted December 28, 2016 03:02 AM            

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Sure...

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posted December 28, 2016 03:14 AM            

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I pulled three cards: The Lovers, Seven of Cups, and Nine of Wands.

I believe he felt positive about texting with you on Christmas, it may have brought up intimate feelings or partnership, including the act of reconciling (lovers card) from the past. But I don't think this is something that should be rushed or that you should have too many expectations about. The Seven of Cups reflects the present state of choices (marriage, other partners). He needs to reflect on his choices and have careful consideration. The other card I pulled represents order, discipline, courage, so perhaps his need to evaluate will take courage to face feelings that he needs to consider. But I would not rush the process and would give space for consideration.

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posted December 28, 2016 03:17 AM            

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what is your question?

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posted December 28, 2016 03:17 AM            

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I'm struggling everyday with memories from a long term relationship.

I would like to know, will I be ok and move on in time from AB? (AB and BT are the initials)

Thank you. Hope my reading was of use for you too.

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posted December 28, 2016 03:21 AM            

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of course you will be ok...first you will go through phase of feeling sad and think of AB quite a bit. I see you meeting someone else but nothing will come of fruitation from it. But I guess that might be part of your learning learning to be ok when relationships fall apart. In the end you will be successful getting over AB ride into a new state of accomplishment

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May I ask another. Why is this happening between Jose and I? This relationship started so amazing everyone thought this was it...the one. He Acted like he felt I was it I was the one...so why did he break up with me? Is he happy he broke up with me

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posted December 28, 2016 04:06 AM            

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Sorry I did not respond to this sooner. My intuition is telling me one or both you got "too comfortable" in some way. I don't sense that he's "happy" but that things became too routine. Maybe he broke up with you also because he knew it was a "sure thing" if that makes sense. Like he's afraid of committing to something he can have easily.

You shouldn't make yourself any more available than him.
Because you need to feel empowered, not be giving yourself away or waiting on him to decide.

Do you feel the ending indicates a sense of justice? Also, from the reading I sense you are a nurturer or a mother type figure? Unless this is someone close to you. Nurturing others helps you create a more comfortable lifestyle for yourself. In the future, you may learn something new through work, or school. Like you need a solid base right now, a sense of routine, conformity rather than impulsiveness to feel grounded.

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posted December 28, 2016 04:12 AM            

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No nothing with getting too comfortable I believe...it was not routine we both have busy schedules...he was more of the clingy one that is why all that happened occured. Thank you for the readings.

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posted December 28, 2016 04:12 AM            

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My follow up question:

The dilemma I am in is that I truly love her. And I know she truly loves me as she said this even as she broke up with me. She still reaches out to me, even though I have said I cannot talk/text for a while. She does this out of comfort, missing me, but it's unfair to me.

I knew when we moved in it wasn't going to work in February because I wasn't in the right place in my life at that time. I expressed this and looked for a compromise for what was best for both of us. She got tired of waiting, I moved in anyway because it was what she wanted (I wanted us to stay together). I sacrificed my needs for hers somewhere over the course of the 7 year relationship.

My question is, if I found a job in February where she lives would we still be together? Or was this just not meant to be?

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posted December 28, 2016 04:32 AM            

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I didn't mean routine in regards to schedules. perhaps he saw/sees you as a nurturing figure.

By the way, I empathize with your situation and hope you gain a sense of resolution. I know how hard it is and you keep looking for clarity or signs in the aftermath.

I posted a follow up too. Thank you.

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posted December 28, 2016 05:44 PM            

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Just wondering if you saw my follow up question harmonicvibes. Thank you!

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posted December 28, 2016 10:25 PM            

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Just wondering if you had feedback for my second question since I answered yours.

My question is, if I found a job in February where she lives would we still be together? Or was this just not meant to be?

Thank you.

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posted December 28, 2016 11:08 PM            

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I don't think so. I think you would reach out and attempt to lead it that way try really hard she might be receptive to trying be nice and may hangout a few times with you but the challenges will still be present

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posted December 29, 2016 12:22 AM            

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I should have been more clear, I meant February 2016.
What I asked was not about now, it was a Past question.

If I found a job last February when we moved in together would we have lasted?

But if you don't have time that's fine too.

When you do 3 cards, is it past, present and future reading?

Thanks.

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