posted December 31, 2016 11:17 AM            

Here is my Q and reading for your question :

Maybe you can ask for me please whats keeping him from contacting?/if he will

posted December 31, 2016 04:34 PM            

I appreciate your reading and addressing things for me.
I don't have as much experience reading but am intuitive also so will do your reading later.

As far as what you said for me, we were together 7 years so it may take a lot longer than expected. I'm also mostly water in my chart so I suppose this plays into things being a lot more difficult to let go of. I've also had a health condition since 2011 which has changed my life and she was understanding of this, so I feel alone on that. It's been a lot longer than a month for me of grieving. I've been experiencing depression steadily but am talking to a therapist since the breakup.
She said she "needed to focus on her future," so you were right in the sense that she never gave me a specific or definitive answer.

The job issue was a point in our relationship because I was out of work for a time after taking longer to graduate college (from the health issue things got delayed). She grew tired of waiting. I moved to where she lives this past year but wasn't ready/didn't have a good feeling about it. It was an ultimatum to move so I did, but I the time of living together it seemed she was on her own path anyway with not making me as much of a priority as I made her. I've learned a great deal and feel humbled daily from this. I blame myself for things being delayed, not finding a job in time. In your reading, I meant if I had a job in the past with the question, not now.

I know all good things come to an end in life, the logical side of me reiterates that to myself everyday. The emotional, family oriented person I am can't let go because it feels like a deep wound, like you become part of each other and then that piece of you dies. Not to sound dramatic but that's how it's been for me the past 6 months.

posted January 04, 2017 10:08 PM            

I pulled 3 cards in regards to your question: Five of Cups (in the Past position), Six of Cups (Present), and Temperance (Future).

It would be nice if someone could lead the way, however in the end we need to take action for ourselves and not be afraid of what is in store for the future.

I think you cannot wait around for him to contact you ultimately. Maybe you want to feel happy or safe, like a sense of nostalgia and perhaps you feel vulnerable now in this area of your life. This could apply to you or him.

The reading also urges you to create more balance in all areas of life. If you have any bad habits, make note of them and just use repetition to try and replace them with constructive, positive ones.

The reading also says there may be something in your past that causes a feeling of loss or regret, but if you take action now you will be better off.

I think he may contact you, there's a chance, but that your future or present hope doesn't and shouldn't depend on it.

posted January 05, 2017 04:23 AM            

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Originally posted by intuitivefish:
Yes we have a long history but its positive.

Its ok no worries

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Even if it was positive, if you were close at one time and deeply understood one another this can cause someone to not automatically reach out due to that lingering nostalgia. Not sure if that's you or the other person experiencing that from the reading.

posted January 08, 2017 06:20 AM            

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Originally posted by intuitivefish:
I told you I wont do such "should I " questions. I will never tell anyone what to do

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