posted January 09, 2017 09:22 AM            

My question is, -(Don't quote please)

posted January 09, 2017 09:55 AM            

I'm trying to understand your question some. Are you saying that when you ask about you and him to other people they seem to pick up different things? Is that what you're saying? I don't think I can really ask that because people can pick up different things regarding a connection.

posted January 09, 2017 11:02 AM            

I'm doing the "Relationship problem" spread.. may be this will help some.

Problems;

6 of swords (Science) - The Moon - The Tower

With the 6 of swords starting off, I do think that someone is trying to escape something.. I think because it is difficult for them to actually confront it, but instead they are trying to get away from it. You know how someone can't really be in a situation because it's hard on them or their depression is something that they want to move on from? Well in this case, I think someone is trying to get away. The moon can mean secrets that they are keeping from someone.. that they may not want someone to know of.. it can also mean fear, someone could be afraid of the unknown or may be they are afraid of what they may fear of and that is why they are not wanting to face what they are fearful of. The Tower in this situation could be that things might fall apart or crash suddenly.. unexpectedly. I think someone is fearful that if they do tell their secret or fears, to even be able to face it, someone is afraid that things will fall apart.. someone is afraid that things won't go in a good direction.. Someone will think that the buildings will fall.

The Solutions;

Knight of wands (The Rock Star) - 4 of wands (Completion) - 9 of cups (happiness)

On this Knight of wands, there a band playing, but the image mostly focused on the singer that is a rock star. Now this rock star shows that he is passionate about what he does. He has this energy that may make him last for hours. I think this card is saying that someone needs to show that their passionate about getting something done. They should should act on what they feel, no matter what it is. You know when you see something and you want it so badly? Even if it's just a job, you want to show that energy that you want it.. you want prove that this is what you want. On the 4 of wands, it shows these people graduating and going to the next level in their life... I think once someone shows that energy of wanting something so bad.. things will start to go to the next level, like a graduation. It's sorta like building a future together. The 9 of cups shows a image of a family or/an friends having a a picnic together.. but on this one table, there is a plate of food and 9 cups stacked together.. that is a bit too many cups for one person, right? But that is not the case. The thing is, once you two do everything together regarding the acting on what you're feeling, and showing this energy of wanting something.. you're passionate about it and going to the next level, the both of you will be getting what you wished for. As you may know, the 9 of cups is the wish card, and that is when you're happy and you got what you wanted.

Outcome; Ace of swords

Regarding this card, this means that the outcome will be you two communicating, and being able to speak the truth, and being able to speak what you trying feel and not being afraid of what the other person thinks. The card says speak the truth.. don't hide anything, be honest like an open book, don't try to sugarcoat anything. Because then, you two will be on the same page.

posted January 09, 2017 11:26 AM            

The little mermaids (sacrifice)/Vasilisa the brave (courage)/Hansel(survival)

It seems that he might feel like he was sacrificing something from him, would it be like having a different behavior than the one in his head, doing actions that do not resemble him in reaction to your distance? He can set aside something of himself, stop himself from doing something that would be a first impetus for him if he were going to do it naturally towards you.
It seems that it is nevertheless at the bottom of it a force that can keep it in a feeling of internal security despite everything or that it is within it of the impulses of protection towards you that it can not show as He would like to do it for you at that time, because your attitude holds him back a bit. He can try to keep calm and wisdom in him, a certain security that it will go anyway, even if he feels vascillating in his emotions. He may say that this will not always be the case and that things will come back normally after this time of trouble with you. He would have a certain maturity here.
It seems that he is trying to maintain a certain balance in the face of the insecurity he may feel. Something like "do not let me get by that," he may not want to be stupid to get carried away there and counts on some trust in your relationship, not letting himself go to fear, To be intelligent and to pass the course.

Could this make sense to you? What does he show you or not what he feels?

posted January 09, 2017 01:35 PM            

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Originally posted by ILovePoems:
Hey Awaken, I have a quick question. It's interesting you got that, but for sacrifice, I'm still trying to see how that fit in. Doesn't sacrifice mean letting something go right? On what card di you get "refraining" from?

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I think the "sacrifice" here like "sacrifice" what we are and what we feel because of someone else, so "refraining" our first impulsion in a situation, change what we are...Just think something like that about it and for this situation. But I can make a mistake, it's just what I feel about it here...
Putting our feelings, needs and desires (in my opinion)can be like making a "sacrifice". Not being able to do what we would like to do in the situation, holding back can be a difficult feeling. But it's really just a personal interpretation
What do you think about it ?

posted January 10, 2017 07:49 AM            

Yes you can, please give me your question.
I try to make it in a few hours because I must move, but all is right for me to make it for you.

posted January 10, 2017 09:27 AM            

I tried to use tarot but.. It was hard for me to realize what it was saying. I used Kipper instead.

Judication - Change - Child

I think with these cards together, he is trying to make a decision regarding you. It could be about your relationship with him and he wants to make some sort of changes.. with the child at the end, it makes me think he is trying to decide on if he wants to start over with the connection between you and him.. or to see if it should stay where it's at, at the moment.

I pulled one more card to clarify with the Child card.

Bad Health; it seems that this card indicates a break to recover from something. So if this card comes up in a connection, it means that there will a short period of not talking for a bit, but that will be fixed.. it's just a non talking period. I was also thinking that someone feels stressed right now with other things and that is why this card came up as well.. that someone needs to recover first before actually moving forward.

posted January 10, 2017 01:23 PM            

thumbelina/verte prato/the wood Maiden/the Sea Maiden.

Would anything in your conversation make him feel bad, disconcerted, a little humiliated? Or did you talk about something that was difficult for you or for him and that he could feel the heart warm and sorry for your hard experience or else you for him?
Would he have said something very thoughtful about how he feels and sees things in relation to the subject of your quick discussion? Perhaps something he regretted having said quick or you, but that had to be said?
Have you promised something important that must be held? Or is it he who made a kind of promise after your discussion to go with you in a certain sense and always bring you help, since you are in the give / receive together or you?

Reading a bit difficult with a lot of question for me here. What was it ? Why did you finish the discussion quickly?

thank you for your reading. It make sens with another reading... I am intrigued by the child card that I didn't know ...
Poor health: This remember something about him
(DNQ)

posted January 10, 2017 03:12 PM            

So..again I think the wood maiden means to trust him. The question I asked him was about his name that people call him. He told me the name and I was surprised.. I was excited but I didn't know if I should believe him.. I'm not so sure about the verde prato card since we didn't exactly talk about someone being hurt.. but may be I hurt him when I didn't believe the name he gave me. But I do totally know the wood maiden means to trust him. But promise card... I didn't promise anything, but he may want me to stick with trusting him and that may be he wants to promise that he is telling the truth?