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posted January 09, 2017 01:41 PM            

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My first question is what is going on with my friend Ally

she is doing lots of drugs and slitting her wrists and being crazy... is it a mental illness? is she posessed? any wisdom from the cards?

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posted January 09, 2017 01:43 PM            

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I heard from A so I would love to!

I wanna ask how he feels abour reconnecting and how if in any way will communication go this week?

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posted January 09, 2017 01:52 PM            

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Originally posted by intuitivefish:
I heard from A so I would love to!

I wanna ask how he feels abour reconnecting and how if in any way will communication go this week?

Brb

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omg yay!

he feels good about reconnecting but seems to be wanting to do things a traditional way, there is definite pain and heartbreak for him in the past which is the root of why he is going about things this way. I do think there will be more communications this week, he is thinking about getting together to do something fun or just generally having some fun interactions between the two of you

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posted January 09, 2017 01:53 PM            

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She isnt possesed or mentally ill.
Well not mentally ill in the way you would think.
What I get here is bad depression and a huge cry for help.
She feels left out in her life. She feels like she is never good enough to others. She feels quite sad and isnt yet open to get help from others.
I get her trying to get others to see her pain but not judge her.
I also get that her cutting is a way for her to show as if noone understands her. She feels a bit invisible but is very resistant to help it feels like to me.

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posted January 09, 2017 01:56 PM            

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Thank you. Makes sense.
Would you want to do more?

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posted January 09, 2017 02:30 PM            

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Originally posted by intuitivefish:
Thank you. Makes sense.
Would you want to do more?

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Sure I'd love to see what you get in terms of my friend soheil who was telling my friend and I that we had black auras and that his was pure white even when he drinks and smokes all day long and is suicidal

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posted January 09, 2017 02:31 PM            

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posted January 09, 2017 02:34 PM            

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My Q is -
Is it best now to just let him initiate or to do it myself?

Brb

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posted January 09, 2017 02:39 PM            

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Originally posted by intuitivefish:
She isnt possesed or mentally ill.
Well not mentally ill in the way you would think.
What I get here is bad depression and a huge cry for help.
She feels left out in her life. She feels like she is never good enough to others. She feels quite sad and isnt yet open to get help from others.
I get her trying to get others to see her pain but not judge her.
I also get that her cutting is a way for her to show as if noone understands her. She feels a bit invisible but is very resistant to help it feels like to me.

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unfortunateyl i think it is a bit more than that

she has had some psychosis from shooting meth and heroin. thinking that her dad raped her when he didnt, thinking that bob dylan was her relative. punching holes in walls. she was taken to the psych ward even, and didnt even realize that she was in the psych ward.. she thought she was in an underground lair with mexicans in trench coats....

she has been showing up to my friends house and breaking into her room and hanging out there all day. calling us cussing us out because we are nannying and wont let her around the children because she is on drugs and cutting herslef

she is very suspicious and violent. she thinks we are not really working and are just trying to ditch her when we really are working all day long and are very busy

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posted January 09, 2017 02:45 PM            

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Originally posted by intuitivefish:
My Q is -
Is it best now to just let him initiate or to do it myself?

Brb

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I asked if you should initiate and am seeing only positive things coming from that

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posted January 09, 2017 02:49 PM            

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I am sorry if I am wrong I just dont get an illness on her, I get what she shows seeming worse than it is, yes the drugs make her act crazy but thats the drugs, coming out and there seems to be a sense of her starting off with lies and then just believing her own story. Ofcourse i can be totally wrong.

On the other friend, he seems to be a well read individual who uses his knowlidge to get an outcome he desires, he feels to be a very good manipulator and he feels to be not as spiritual as he wishes to show, he is actually more into being self reitious than being honest, He has a mentality of a cult leader seeing himself as god and wanting "followers" making others feel smaller/less than him and in this way controling whats going on around him.
He isnt honest either, I get his main goal is to make females feel unworthy so he can give them "love" and in this way getting them attached to him and willing to do what he wants for the sake of "love". HE isnt a nice person either.
I wouldnt asociate with him to be honest he feels quite dark, very manipulative.

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posted January 09, 2017 02:51 PM            

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I asked if you should initiate and am seeing only positive things coming from that

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I thought maybe since you said in previous post about him being traditional, that maybe he wishes to be the one to initiate and do more of the "chasing"?

I was thinking of trying to be more open with him, to try and get him to be open also this way.
Nothing big, but, like saying I missed him or things like this..

NOt sure how this might go ? being open?

sorry if I asked too much, I feel like we are at a new begining so I wish to do things well.

thank you

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posted January 09, 2017 03:26 PM            

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Originally posted by intuitivefish:
I thought maybe since you said in previous post about him being traditional, that maybe he wishes to be the one to initiate and do more of the "chasing"?

I was thinking of trying to be more open with him, to try and get him to be open also this way.
Nothing big, but, like saying I missed him or things like this..

NOt sure how this might go ? being open?

sorry if I asked too much, I feel like we are at a new begining so I wish to do things well.

thank you

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what it is showing, is to open up more slowly... just to understand that there are so many underlying emotions for him.. so I think more of a slow opening is something he will better respond to. however, of course, do what feels best to you.. but as far as what the cards are reflecting it is more that it is OK to initiate, but to also take is slowly as to not overwhelm

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posted January 09, 2017 03:29 PM            

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Thank you this makes perfect sense!!

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