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Topic: Too many squares!!
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Bluebelle
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Registered: Aug 2016
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posted January 10, 2017 12:54 PM
  
As you can see from my chart, the fire side of my chart has some nice receptions and aspects, whereas the chart ruler has square after square. I've spoke to people online with similar placements, but I've yet to speak to somebody with venus squaring Moon, Saturn and Uranus, and with it as chart ruler as well. The people I have spoke to have had similar frustrations, and different difficult placements like Saturn in the 7th. The 7th house is where I get some positivity in my chart, but still, all those venus squares are surely going to haunt me forever. How can you possibly get over so many squares coming at you with the strength they do!? I feel I should be realistic and not idealistic about my future. The people I spoke to are older than me and haven't had luck in love and marriage.  IP: Logged |
Randall
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posted January 11, 2017 03:48 PM
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browncoat
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From: Phoenix, AZ USA
Registered: Sep 2015
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posted January 11, 2017 04:03 PM
Hi Bluebell,I'm no expert, but I believe Saturn is there to be a teacher...not a sentence or a curse. Learning our Saturn lessons, so to speak, is truly the case of "a rising tide raises all boats." Also, Venus is more of a personality aspect, kind of like your ascendant. So, how you project the passionate part of yourself is not going to be in line with what you want emotionally. For example, someone with a late Pisces Sun will fall completely head over heels in love with you (Venus conjunct Sun is a nice, powerful synastry aspect). But you would emotionally find them too wishy-washy and bring too much drama for your adventurous Sag Moon. But, maybe it could be balanced out with someone with a late Aries Moon...someone who shares your sense of adventure. Squares are certainly tough, but like Saturn, they have so much they can teach us.
Another example, for me personally, my Mercury is opposite my Moon. I've always struggled to connect my Aq mind and my emotional Cancer Moon. They kinda hate each other. So, I'm currently dating someone with a Mars perfectly square my Mercury and Moon. What I think and how I feel puts her in attack mode. Yeah, it's really tough and likely won't last. But this hard square has brought me to a space of awareness I could never have achieved on my own.
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Bluebelle
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posted January 13, 2017 09:20 PM
Hey Browncoat, thanks for your response. Much appreciated. Yes I agree Saturn is there to teach us. I do have a tendency to shirk responsibilities, but feel obligated by them at the same time, just restricted by them. I mustn't have been learning many lessons then, as my life has seriously been a bit too stressful to enjoy fully, coupled with self-imposed seclusion and crippling insecurity. The stress of it all has caused health problems. It makes sense the venus squares affect my personality only, but that's been enough to impact my life. Like, Venus squaring moon and Saturn, and Neptune in 4th on the ac...my family (and lack of support) has been the cause of stress. I will pick up soon but I'm definetely not living a normal, engaging life. It's funny you said about a late Pisces Sun...one guy in particular seems to be besotted with me, but couldn't tell the truth to save himself. That must be the drama I don't like! Aries moon would be interesting, I always seem to meet Scorpio moon's for some reason! Good luck with your argumentative rship but watch it doesn't take the wind out of you!! Nothing wrong with a good argument though, just obviously not at the expense of your self-esteem! IP: Logged | |
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