posted January 22, 2017 10:56 PM            

My question is what does want E.L.W. from me? (Me and him are friends) I used to ask about him to you xD

posted January 22, 2017 11:32 PM            

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Originally posted by ILovePoems:

My question is what does want E.L.W. from me? (Me and him are friends) I used to ask about him to you xD

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Cloud + Scythe + Ship + Clover + Ring (w/ clarifier Mice)

This is a weird spread, and in fact, I've been sitting here for a few minutes trying to figure out wtf the Ship + Mice is really doing. It's awkward and is making me doubt myself... which makes me think that's what he's feeling himself right now. The Ship signals movement, change, energy in the waves, but the Mice are all about anxiety and stress. He's unsettled.

Past/present/future: in the past, things got clearer between you two (Clouds + Scythe). You set boundaries and figured out you were friends, and this seemed to be good for you both. I think there was a sense of accomplishment that maybe you were "adults" about the situation, if I can use that term.

But now things are shifting; there's this really effed up push and pull going on with this Ship; I kind of hate it, honestly. Like seasickness. That dread you feel before you vomit everywhere.

I think because of whatever that is, he's being nicer to you and will continue to be (Clover -- short term boon, good luck), but I don't think this friend cycle is going to change. He's just going to go back to doing what he does, which is go around in circles and being confusing (Ring).

What can't be see/influences
He's changing; the Scythe is cutting into his luck... did he do something bad at work? Or something that will land him in hot water if someone finds out? I feel like he's gonna lean on you, because something's gonna go haywire for him. Again, I feel that dread before seasickness, but there's guilt/shame/anxiety there too, because of the Mice.

What is being done/can be seen
That confusion (clouds) is just coming right back (ring). God, he is so frustrating, and it's gonna kick those Mice into overdrive for you! Haha! How do you stand this? I think I would have strangled him

So... to answer you question, what does he want from you. I think he sees you as a lifeboat in a rocky time, and I think he's going to fall on those old habits to get you to help him through something tough.

posted January 22, 2017 11:49 PM            

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Originally posted by ILovePoems:
Thank you Becca! I want to ask, what do you mean you feel dread? Are you saying the cards make you feel that way or is it just the cards saying that to you?

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posted January 23, 2017 12:32 AM            

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Originally posted by Jazabel:
Becca,

can we exchange ? I like your spread above

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Sure! But I will have to do yours tomorrow. I gotta hit the hay now. My question would be: I am going to publish my project?

posted January 23, 2017 12:49 AM            

Are you open to exchange with others as well?

posted January 23, 2017 08:35 AM            

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Originally posted by beccathelion:
Cloud + Scythe + Ship + Clover + Ring (w/ clarifier Mice)

This is a weird spread, and in fact, I've been sitting here for a few minutes trying to figure out wtf the Ship + Mice is really doing. It's awkward and is making me doubt myself... which makes me think that's what he's feeling himself right now. The Ship signals movement, change, energy in the waves, but the Mice are all about anxiety and stress. He's unsettled.

[b]Past/present/future: in the past, things got clearer between you two (Clouds + Scythe). You set boundaries and figured out you were friends, and this seemed to be good for you both. I think there was a sense of accomplishment that maybe you were "adults" about the situation, if I can use that term.

But now things are shifting; there's this really effed up push and pull going on with this Ship; I kind of hate it, honestly. Like seasickness. That dread you feel before you vomit everywhere.

I think because of whatever that is, he's being nicer to you and will continue to be (Clover -- short term boon, good luck), but I don't think this friend cycle is going to change. He's just going to go back to doing what he does, which is go around in circles and being confusing (Ring).

What can't be see/influences
He's changing; the Scythe is cutting into his luck... did he do something bad at work? Or something that will land him in hot water if someone finds out? I feel like he's gonna lean on you, because something's gonna go haywire for him. Again, I feel that dread before seasickness, but there's guilt/shame/anxiety there too, because of the Mice.

What is being done/can be seen
That confusion (clouds) is just coming right back (ring). God, he is so frustrating, and it's gonna kick those Mice into overdrive for you! Haha! How do you stand this? I think I would have strangled him

So... to answer you question, what does he want from you. I think he sees you as a lifeboat in a rocky time, and I think he's going to fall on those old habits to get you to help him through something tough.

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The feedback: I had to think on this reading. I'm not so sure if I can give the feedback that you want from this..

The only thing that mostly make sense is the mice. This could be related to me, that he is worried that I stopped talking to him. But again I'm not so sure since letter is not in the reading..but when I stopped talking to him for some time I felt he was worried, I think he didn't like that I do that..

The clouds + Scythe.. hmm well.. for me the confusion is still there. I want the confusion to be cleared for me so maybe it means he wants to clear the confusion. But another meaning is that he probably was confused on why our communication was cut/shortened and that is where the mice came in. He was worried.

With the ship.. I'm not sure of.. I know it means traveling.. but maybe he thought I moved on.. can't ship mean moved on? Plus the mice means worried, that he thought he lost something. But if that's not it, then it also means he travels to see me.

Clover + Ring...it may mean giving another chance to the connection.. I mean I'm not sure how else to read this.

I know clouds + ring means being confused and going in circles.. that is mostly me. I am confused.. but also confused in this connection.

Scythe + Clover, with this combination I don't think I can say too much about it... I know it may mean something sudden and quick for scythe and Clover for luck or something else..

This may not be how you read the cards but this is what can to me when reading it. Mice makes sense in this case.

posted January 23, 2017 09:18 AM            

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Originally posted by beccathelion:
Sure, why not! I've been trying to do daily Lenormand meditations, and they keep bringing up "the Bear."

So, my question would be... who on earth is the Bear and/or what will they mean to my life?

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I used my Faerytale Oracle deck for this.

Water & Salt (Truth) - The Nixie of Mill Pond (Memory) - The Wood Maiden (Trust)

Water & Salt is about honesty, the plain truth about something. The card says sometimes telling the truth would be punished because it may end up getting you in trouble, but at least you are being honest with what someone or yourself had done.

The Nixie of Mill Pond is more about the past and remembering things from your past. But there is another meaning to this card.. emotional connection.. this cards says that you may be fearful of having feelings/emotions towards someone and maybe trying to avoid having any type of an emotional connection. But the card says you should face your fears and then you will be free because avoiding will not make it any better.

The Wood Maiden is more about trusting yourself and others around you. You may feel that you can't trust people or someone specific, but this card either means try trusting people more or try to trust yourself..

When I read the cards together, the cards talking about honesty, telling the truth, and this could talk about the past or the fact that you are not facing with how you are feeling emotional about someone/something. Trust and believe.

I don't know this make sense, but in a way I know bear is about staying strong and not letting anything get through you.

posted January 23, 2017 09:57 AM            

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Originally posted by ILovePoems:
The feedback: I had to think on this reading. I'm not so sure if I can give the feedback that you want from this..

The only thing that mostly make sense is the mice. This could be related to me, that he is worried that I stopped talking to him. But again I'm not so sure since letter is not in the reading..but when I stopped talking to him for some time I felt he was worried, I think he didn't like that I do that..

The clouds + Scythe.. hmm well.. for me the confusion is still there. I want the confusion to be cleared for me so maybe it means he wants to clear the confusion. But another meaning is that he probably was confused on why our communication was cut/shortened and that is where the mice came in. He was worried.

With the ship.. I'm not sure of.. I know it means traveling.. but maybe he thought I moved on.. can't ship mean moved on? Plus the mice means worried, that he thought he lost something. But if that's not it, then it also means he travels to see me.

Clover + Ring...it may mean giving another chance to the connection.. I mean I'm not sure how else to read this.

I know clouds + ring means being confused and going in circles.. that is mostly me. I am confused.. but also confused in this connection.

Scythe + Clover, with this combination I don't think I can say too much about it... I know it may mean something sudden and quick for scythe and Clover for luck or something else..

This may not be how you read the cards but this is what can to me when reading it. Mice makes sense in this case.

Now on to your reading.

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Thank you for this! I will say I did focus on him only (since it was what he wants from you), and I think since you said you stopped talking to him... that's the panic and anxiety he's feeling. I think he feels like he's lost something good in you, but also, he is not going to try to change things too much. He will be nice if you reach out, but he won't go beyond that.

posted January 23, 2017 10:00 AM            

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Originally posted by ILovePoems:
I used my Faerytale Oracle deck for this.

Water & Salt (Truth) - The Nixie of Mill Pond (Memory) - The Wood Maiden (Trust)

Water & Salt is about honesty, the plain truth about something. The card says sometimes telling the truth would be punished because it may end up getting you in trouble, but at least you are being honest with what someone or yourself had done.

The Nixie of Mill Pond is more about the past and remembering things from your past. But there is another meaning to this card.. emotional connection.. this cards says that you may be fearful of having feelings/emotions towards someone and maybe trying to avoid having any type of an emotional connection. But the card says you should face your fears and then you will be free because avoiding will not make it any better.

The Wood Maiden is more about trusting yourself and others around you. You may feel that you can't trust people or someone specific, but this card either means try trusting people more or try to trust yourself..

When I read the cards together, the cards talking about honesty, telling the truth, and this could talk about the past or the fact that you are not facing with how you are feeling emotional about someone/something. Trust and believe.

I don't know this make sense, but in a way I know bear is about staying strong and not letting anything get through you.

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posted January 23, 2017 10:14 AM            

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Originally posted by beccathelion:
Thank you! I like the name of these cards. So, because the Bear showed up as a person in my readings, does this mean it is someone from my past? Someone who is going to be honest finally?

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