posted February 20, 2017 04:29 PM            

We have been living together for the past couple of months now, and he recently left for work and said that he will come get his things tomorrow and return my spare key whenever we see each other at work.

Can anyone please give me a reading to see if this is truly over? Or will he want to get back together? If so, when? And how will tomorrow go when he comes to retrieves his things, or will he do it when I'm not at home?

posted February 20, 2017 06:02 PM            

I'd be happy to do a reading asking if you two will get back together. The other questions will be to confusing to answer as they are all tied to this mean Q.

My questions, My cat hasn't been around since saturday, and he usually comes home when I get home, ( he's an indoor otudoor cat,and hasn't been home. Can you see if he'll return? I'd appreciated intuition reading!

ANSWER to you Q

Obviously its great that tower is in the past, right now in the present with the 6 of wands there is a lot of hope on your end of you to get back together ( the 6 of wands is a victory card as well) so you also think you will get back together, but it can also mean since you are going to see him when he comes to get his stuff, it will be like a "victory"that he "came back". But now the "return" you are looking for. Because the 2 of pentacles tells me that there is a possibility for a return. Its not a no which is good, but there are things being weighted with your ex, as he tries to figure out if he's doing the right thing, whether that is breaking with you or staying with you. The 2 of pentacles also suggests, If the break up is based on something that you feel isn't a dealbreaker on either side, then there is a chance to work it out.

posted February 20, 2017 06:08 PM            

You: Ace of Wands. This indicates the recent initiation of a new course of action. The energy involved is a creative one. (I feel the need to ask if you two had a discussion about children? Ignore me if that's way off base!). This card also indicates the spark of independence - have you been displaying more independence in your actions recently? This may also be indicating that you are keen to start afresh and do things differently.

J: The Emperor. J may have been feeling like he wasn't in control, with urges to assert his authority in some way. Feeling powerful seems to be highlighted for him just now.

Between You Both: King of Cups. It may be that the relationship was moving too fast. The King of Cups is a passionate energy that lacks practicality and can spill over into fantasy. Did you guys fall into the trap of thinking love could conquer all? Perhaps you never followed through on some plans you made. Certainly, this indicates a high emotionality in the relationship, possibly crying out for clarity, decisions and structure.

Clarity Card: High Priestess. She indicates that you must be still inside and introspect. She suggests that you already know the answer to your question, and also the question of what needs to be changed for you to be together.
She is about first seeking, and then admitting the truth, first and foremost to yourself, then having *that* talk in a calm way.

posted February 20, 2017 06:11 PM            

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Originally posted by Saille:
Hi PB,

I'd be happy to do a reading asking if you two will get back together. The other questions will be to confusing to answer as they are all tied to this mean Q.

My questions, My cat hasn't been around since saturday, and he usually comes home when I get home, ( he's an indoor otudoor cat,and hasn't been home. Can you see if he'll return? I'd appreciated intuition reading!

ANSWER to you Q

Obviously its great that tower is in the past, right now in the present with the 6 of wands there is a lot of hope on your end of you to get back together ( the 6 of wands is a victory card as well) so you also think you will get back together, but it can also mean since you are going to see him when he comes to get his stuff, it will be like a "victory"that he "came back". But now the "return" you are looking for. Because the 2 of pentacles tells me that there is a possibility for a return. Its not a no which is good, but there are things being weighted with your ex, as he tries to figure out if he's doing the right thing, whether that is breaking with you or staying with you. The 2 of pentacles also suggests, If the break up is based on something that you feel isn't a dealbreaker on either side, then there is a chance to work it out.

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Thank you very much for answering my question! I didn't add above, but this is out third break-up (all for the same reason). The other two times we got back together because he was trying to see if it would work out, but he still felt the same. He says that he does love me a lot and cares about me, and doesn't want to hurt me (too late, unfortunately, lol :/). However, to reply back to your answers, I doubt I will be home when he comes to get his things. I just see him doing it while I'm at work, that way he can avoid seeing me knowing that it will make me sad and me trying to get him to stay.

We do work together, so I will be seeing him again because he said he will give me his spare key. I'm hoping that we will get back together. I am being positive, but I'm worried he won't come back at all...he told me that he doesn't want a relationship. Which I know is a deal-breaker, but he did try so hard to stay, so idk...

posted February 20, 2017 06:21 PM            

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Originally posted by Voix_de_la_Mer:
I can't answer yes or no, however I drew a card for you, a card for J and a card for what is between you.

You: Ace of Wands. This indicates the recent initiation of a new course of action. The energy involved is a creative one. (I feel the need to ask if you two had a discussion about children? Ignore me if that's way off base!). This card also indicates the spark of independence - have you been displaying more independence in your actions recently? This may also be indicating that you are keen to start afresh and do things differently.

J: The Emperor. J may have been feeling like he wasn't in control, with urges to assert his authority in some way. Feeling powerful seems to be highlighted for him just now.

Between You Both: King of Cups. It may be that the relationship was moving too fast. The King of Cups is a passionate energy that lacks practicality and can spill over into fantasy. Did you guys fall into the trap of thinking love could conquer all? Perhaps you never followed through on some plans you made. Certainly, this indicates a high emotionality in the relationship, possibly crying out for clarity, decisions and structure.

Clarity Card: High Priestess. She indicates that you must be still inside and introspect. She suggests that you already know the answer to your question, and also the question of what needs to be changed for you to be together.
She is about first seeking, and then admitting the truth, first and foremost to yourself, then having *that* talk in a calm way.

You wanna know something insane? There are two letters on the rider-waite High Priestess card, they are "B" and "J". I suggest you do some personal research into this card, it clearly has more to tell you.
I drew 4 cards from a deck of 78. The chances of me drawing this card with your initials on it is ridiculously low.

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Thank you for responding!!

Funny you asked about children. We used to talk about them in the beginning, but when I had a pregnancy scare, he started realizing that he wasn't ready for children yet and eventually I wasn't ready either after doing some deep thinking about it. Lately, I have been feeling different. I'm not sure if it's an independent feeling or not, however, he has noticed various things about me and figured it was me trying to make our relationship work, which doing things differently comes into play.

We did move somewhat fast, which could have also attributed to him feeling this way and he did agree that it could have been a reason. But eventually stated that he just didn't want a relationship (ever, at least not anytime soon) and wanted to be alone. However, considering this is the third time this has happened, I feel maybe he could be conflicted, but he did say this is what he felt deep within his heart.

I do have a question about the high priestess card. This is the second time I've been told that I already know the answer to if we are getting back together or not. The thing is, I want to believe that we will get back together, but I keep thinking about his words and how he told me he doesn't want a relationship. So, my thoughts are conflicting and I can't say for sure if I truly know the answer.

Wow, that's crazy! I did just search it and this is what it said: The card in the Advice position suggests a course of action which will harmonize what you want with what is currently possible.

posted February 20, 2017 06:27 PM            

Have you thought about whether you *should* be together? You mentioned trying very hard to keep you together, yet he has gone off seemingly without even trying.

Maybe the question you need to answer is, did this relationship truly meet *your* needs?

posted February 20, 2017 06:30 PM            

Usually when she appears you would benefit from private thought, introspection, and blunt honesty about what you find when you are in there.

posted February 20, 2017 06:34 PM            

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Originally posted by Voix_de_la_Mer:
You know, perhaps it is the question that has to change.

Have you thought about whether you *should* be together? You mentioned trying very hard to keep you together, yet he has gone off seemingly without even trying.

Maybe the question you need to answer is, did this relationship truly meet *your* needs?

If you google "high priestess" it should bring up many possible interpretations of the card. You'll recognise the spark of insight when you receive it, like an "ah ha!" moment.

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posted February 20, 2017 06:41 PM            

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Originally posted by Voix_de_la_Mer:
Hmmm. Perhaps it is too soon to properly analyse the situation. Give yourself some time, clarity will come.

It might be helpful, at some point, to post the synastry in the Interpersonal Astrology forum to see where there may have been issues with needs/compatibility, but I would warn against doing this too soon. You need to take care of *you* for now.

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posted February 20, 2017 06:45 PM            

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Originally posted by ProxyxBlue:
That's true. Thank you for responding. I'll be back to give you two an update if there is one. Considering J and I work together, I will be seeing him again soon, probably on Sunday.

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posted February 21, 2017 03:01 PM            

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Originally posted by Voix_de_la_Mer:
Well done for holding it together in the text Proxy. Do you have good friends or family around you now who can support you?

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posted February 24, 2017 03:34 PM            

So, Saille, you may have been onto something because when I spoke with J on the phone Wednesday, he did let me know that the back of his mind feels regret over the breakup, like he made a mistake. But the front part of his mind is telling him that he made the right choice. However, by telling me that, he said that he didn't want to give me any false hope.

Hearing that did make me feel better though, because it did give me some type of hope. We didn't talk all day yesterday and he text me today to let me know something about work (as we work together). When I told him that I missed him, he told me that he didn't want to talk about it and how he is drinking already (meaning that he had returned to drinking) and that he does miss me and feels terrible every time he thinks about how he hurt me. He also mentioned that he thinks that he is already starting to feel himself again, but is unaware if that's because he has been working and working on his house. But he wanted to let me know that he doesn't want me to think that he doesn't miss me because he does.

Idk why, but I felt somewhat saddened/upset by his reply. And I told him that I'm glad to hear he is starting to feel like himself again and that I wouldn't bother him anymore and I said sorry.

I left my phone in my bedroom and tried to distracted my mind. When I came back to my phone later I noticed that he did respond back to my previous text and he said for me not to be sorry and he will text me after he is finished golfing.