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ProxyxBlue
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posted March 15, 2017 09:46 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for ProxyxBlue     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Has anyone gotten a reading and regretted it? Or gotten a reading and it turned out to be the complete opposite prediction/outcome? For example, say you get a reading from a psychic and realize automatically that something they are saying is off?

Today I had spoken with two readers from Bitwine. One reader I had spoken to previously and had given me predictions for the very next day or short term predictions. But for some reason when I entered the chat to ask a question for next week, this person told me that it was too short term to answer. It surprised me considering this particular reader has always given me short term readings with no problem before, so I couldn't understand what happened today. I must add I didn't get a paid session with this reader because after that there was no use of moving forward.

The second reader I spoke with didn't really connect, but at the same time the reader did. It was like. 50/50 thing. Last time something like this happened with my boyfriend last year, I spoke with a reader and they told me stuff about my boyfriend that was making me doubt him. Instead of allowing it to stress me out, I went to the source and asked, he confirmed to me that what the readers had told me was false.

Has anyone ever encountered situations like this before? It makes me question myself and wonder why I waste my money. Sometimes when it came to my boyfriend I would just go straight to him and ask and he would tell me.

Just curious of people's experiences with psyhics that have been negative (turned out to be false) or a waste of time. Or readers pretending to be connected to you and your situation.

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ProxyxBlue
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posted March 15, 2017 10:56 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for ProxyxBlue     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
If anyone is interested in replying, I think it would be an interesting topic to discuss. But I have noticed replies are empty here lately, lol, depending on what the topic is.

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MillyX
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posted March 15, 2017 03:36 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for MillyX     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I have. I spent alot of money on Bitwine. And to be quite honest alot of the readings have not come true. Free will is always at play. Not only your free will but the other person's too and it definitely changes the outcome. I think readings are great to see what the other person is feeling but then again feelings are not permanent they change constantly. Also, getting a reading will sometimes change the outcome since you'll do things a bit differently.

I have had made the mistake of getting readings to calm my anxiety which is not a good coping mechanism. Also, sometimes you rely so much on a readers prediction that you become stressed when it doesn't happen.

All this to say that I am staying far away from readings now. It's best to live life moment by moment and enjoy everything and quit worrying because it just makes things worse and you start overthinking.

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posted March 15, 2017 08:36 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for ProxyxBlue     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by MillyX:
I have. I spent alot of money on Bitwine. And to be quite honest alot of the readings have not come true. Free will is always at play. Not only your free will but the other person's too and it definitely changes the outcome. I think readings are great to see what the other person is feeling but then again feelings are not permanent they change constantly. Also, getting a reading will sometimes change the outcome since you'll do things a bit differently.

I have had made the mistake of getting readings to calm my anxiety which is not a good coping mechanism. Also, sometimes you rely so much on a readers prediction that you become stressed when it doesn't happen.

All this to say that I am staying far away from readings now. It's best to live life moment by moment and enjoy everything and quit worrying because it just makes things worse and you start overthinking.


That's true. Free will can change a lot of things. I know sometimes when a reader advises me against doing something (like contacting someone or something of the sort), I may go against what they say and do it anyways. It may have changed their outcome by making it worse, or better. I know years ago when I first started getting readings, which was in 2014, mostly everyone I spoke to was wrong about my situation. It took almost a year in a half to discover they were wrong. I've spent a lot of money on Bitwine as well and I regret it every single time, especially when I think back to how much money I could have saved right now.

I was doing so well with not getting readings, until something happened and I started getting them once again. :/ I have trigger moments I've come to noticed, unfortunately. Readings aren't helpful, but sometimes can offer insight to other things, which may turn out to be true.

I want to stop getting them, but currently my trigger moment is still lingering. I just have to force myself to stay away in order to save my pockets.

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posted March 16, 2017 01:29 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for ymmi     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Yes I agree a lot of readings and astrology things not come true. Yesterday I invited my cusian for dinner so I pulled my cards for yes no ,i asked will he come for dinner tonight? and I got "the chariot" which mean yes but he did not come for dinner.

With out that there are many readings and horary astrology which never come true for me!

Though astrology based on Natal chart and solar return its work for me than horary.

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colorful butterfly
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posted March 18, 2017 01:33 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for colorful butterfly     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
LOl, I had a reading done on a relationship as to how things would go in the future because he was acting weird, distant etc, they pulled the sun card and told me that things would go well....... He ran off and married another girl!!!!!

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posted March 18, 2017 02:21 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for intuitivefish     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Nearly 99.9% of Bitwine readings were off for me, I never went back to them again. Such a bunch of fakes.

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posted March 19, 2017 10:53 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for ProxyxBlue     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by colorful butterfly:
LOl, I had a reading done on a relationship as to how things would go in the future because he was acting weird, distant etc, they pulled the sun card and told me that things would go well....... He ran off and married another girl!!!!!

Oh wow! Yeah that happened with me when I used to get readings on a guy a couple years ago (he was the link that started me talking with readers). And they all told me that we would last and things would be good, soulmate, and all that jazz. Almost one and half year later I discovered he had a girlfriend all that time, lol. He was a two timer and liar. A few picked up on it but the majority of my readings were all positive about him.

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posted March 19, 2017 10:57 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for ProxyxBlue     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by intuitivefish:
Nearly 99.9% of Bitwine readings were off for me, I never went back to them again. Such a bunch of fakes.

The only ones on Bitwine that seem to be more accurate for me are Rachel Marie and Toria. Although last year, Toria didn't pick up on something that was way off but other than that her predictions always happen for me. Rachel, she is very hard to get in contact with and although I have been going to her on and off since 2014, I have probably only spoken to her 6-7 times between then and now. From all of her predictions that she has made only three times was she wrong.

Other Bitwine readers I don't really care for. Either they are fake (using fake pictures) or just guessing people's problems because I'm positive at least 95% of the people that go on Bitwine are going on there for some sort of relationship problem and those psychics have problem heard it ALL and probably know what to say and how to lead people into false hope.

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posted March 19, 2017 10:59 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for ProxyxBlue     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by ymmi:
Yes I agree a lot of readings and astrology things not come true. Yesterday I invited my cusian for dinner so I pulled my cards for yes no ,i asked will he come for dinner tonight? and I got "the chariot" which mean yes but he did not come for dinner.

With out that there are many readings and horary astrology which never come true for me!

Though astrology based on Natal chart and solar return its work for me than horary.


I don't think I've ever had an horary done before, I'm not quite sure if I know what that one is. But I have had astrology, because I believe Toria from Bitwine used that plus intuition, but I could be wrong lol

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posted March 23, 2017 03:12 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for colorful butterfly     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by ProxyxBlue:
Oh wow! Yeah that happened with me when I used to get readings on a guy a couple years ago (he was the link that started me talking with readers). And they all told me that we would last and things would be good, soulmate, and all that jazz. Almost one and half year later I discovered he had a girlfriend all that time, lol. He was a two timer and liar. A few picked up on it but the majority of my readings were all positive about him.

It was so funny to me but I know to use my own judgement vs everything that I see or read. Actions always speak louder than words!!!!

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posted March 26, 2017 03:46 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for ProxyxBlue     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by colorful butterfly:
It was so funny to me but I know to use my own judgement vs everything that I see or read. Actions always speak louder than words!!!!

That's good! I'm doing the same also Sorry my reply is super late!

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Randall
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posted March 30, 2017 09:53 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Randall     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Free will can alter the future once a reading is given.

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posted April 01, 2017 07:44 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for ProxyxBlue     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Free will can alter the future once a reading is given.

That's true! Free will can change anything, if its for the best of worse.

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posted April 01, 2017 10:25 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for poochycat     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
What bothers me is that some ladies on this site will take readings so seriously that they will get upset if it is not what they wanted to hear. Sometimes the reader will become angry even and then stop asking that reader as if it's her fault. It may be somewhat in that she is not a psychic but trying to read the cards to the best of her ability.

As for Bitwine, yes I agree that most are not all that talented. What they do is work on peoples' vulnerabilities and tell you what you want to hear so they keep coming back. The same ones probably that don't get what they want to hear on LL.

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posted April 01, 2017 11:03 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for ProxyxBlue     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I think taking a reading with a grain of salt would be the better option. Sometimes people have to learn to be patient and see what happens on their own. I can honestly say that I must be patient as well. Sometimes I can become anxious/impatient and try to speed up the process myself. Regardless, I have noticed that some people can become very angry if what the reader said didn't come to pass. I've been frustrated before, but not to the point of lashing out on anyone because truthfully, regardless if the reader was a fraud, not really connected or anything else, the only person to blame is my self for wasting the money in the first place. I think a lot of people put the blame on others and not themselves.

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posted April 01, 2017 12:09 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for poochycat     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Well said!

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Randall
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posted April 07, 2017 05:03 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Randall     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by ProxyxBlue:
I think taking a reading with a grain of salt would be the better option. Sometimes people have to learn to be patient and see what happens on their own. I can honestly say that I must be patient as well. Sometimes I can become anxious/impatient and try to speed up the process myself. Regardless, I have noticed that some people can become very angry if what the reader said didn't come to pass. I've been frustrated before, but not to the point of lashing out on anyone because truthfully, regardless if the reader was a fraud, not really connected or anything else, the only person to blame is my self for wasting the money in the first place. I think a lot of people put the blame on others and not themselves.

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posted April 07, 2017 05:05 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for hallowseve     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Randall:
Free will can alter the future once a reading is given.

Thank you for posting this. I just posted this as well in another thread before reading your comment.

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posted April 07, 2017 07:12 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for EmpressMendez     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Not with the way I read. If I make a mistake, or mistakes..it has to do with what and who I am reading for. I own up to my mistakes and I don't laugh if people do get confused with my predictions that I later on have to break it down to them paragraph per paragraph. Especially if it's a long session.

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posted April 07, 2017 08:54 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for ProxyxBlue     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by hallowseve:
Thank you for posting this. I just posted this as well in another thread before reading your comment.

Yep! Free will is apart of life and everyone has it. The way I look at it, no matter what happens in life people have the choice to go left or right. Whatever happens will happen if it's meant to happen regardless what a reader says or not. It's something I have to remind myself often lol.

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posted April 12, 2017 07:03 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Randall     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
^ I concur with that.

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