posted March 22, 2017 05:19 PM
"
acting in your own self-interest
setting aside the concerns of others
looking out for number one
thinking of your own needs
knowing you must concentrate on yourself
encountering selfishness
indulging in power plays
gloating
going for the win-lose resultexperiencing discord
being in a hostile environment
feeling people are set against each other
choosing to battle
having an "us-against-them" mentality
creating ill will
experiencing conflict
witnessing open dishonor
losing your moral compass
letting ends justify means
sacrificing integrity
losing sight of what is right
achieving a dubious victory
knowing of criminal activity "
How do you figure out whether this card describes you (reader) or the other person? Let's take 'acting in your own self-interest' and 'experiencing discord'. I feel like the other person is acting in their self-interest and I am the one who suffers - experiencing discord, being in a hostile environment. SO, how do I know if I understand it correct? What if it's the other way round? I did the reading for myself so I'm the querent.