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ymmi
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posted March 24, 2017 03:35 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for ymmi     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Since we broke up in January he still didn't unfriend me on Facebook ,we are still on friends list on Facebook I thought I will unfriend him but I could not yet I still have feelings for him or I think might he will contact me again but I don't know why he didn't unfriend me yet.

I asked "Why he didn't unfriend me on Facebook yet?" I pulled my cards ; 2 of wands + The Wheel + The Chariot.

Tow of wands he is not making the right decision yet to unfriend me or not?

I think The chariot really indicate my situation ? I see two horses not talking or facing to each other but still in one direction ( still in friend list),

The wheel of fortune also mean fated ,we stayed in each other friend list bcz of fated?


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Randall
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posted March 25, 2017 01:27 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Randall     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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ymmi
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posted April 29, 2017 12:04 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for ymmi     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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ProxyxBlue
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posted April 29, 2017 04:49 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for ProxyxBlue     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I'm not a card reader, but I don't feel that he could be thinking much about it. As sometimes when a couple breaks up, unless it's a bad break up, they normally keep them within their friends list if it's Facebook or the likes. I'm still friends with my ex from a year ago on Facebook but we no longer talk.

If you wished to talk to him, you should send him a message. But if not, just take it as a good sign he didn't unfriend you unless you wanted him to.

Since you still have feelings for him and want him to contact you, I hope it happens for you if not try to reach out to him and see what happens. Best wishes!

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colorful butterfly
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posted April 29, 2017 08:39 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for colorful butterfly     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I got this sense of you making contact. Not sure if it is he is waiting for you to delete him or for you to make whatever decision you decide with things. The other thing it could be is you should make contact.

Maybe a combination of all three, but this is what I first sensed when I saw your situation. Hope this helps hun!!!

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ymmi
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posted April 30, 2017 01:15 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for ymmi     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by ProxyxBlue:
I'm not a card reader, but I don't feel that he could be thinking much about it. As sometimes when a couple breaks up, unless it's a bad break up, they normally keep them within their friends list if it's Facebook or the likes. I'm still friends with my ex from a year ago on Facebook but we no longer talk.

If you wished to talk to him, you should send him a message. But if not, just take it as a good sign he didn't unfriend you unless you wanted him to.

Since you still have feelings for him and want him to contact you, I hope it happens for you if not try to reach out to him and see what happens. Best wishes!


Thank you, yes I know sometimes when a couple breaks up they normally keep them within their friends list but some people unfriend ,

I think its a good sign for me I'm still in his friends list ,yes I have still feeling for him but I really don't wish to make a first move I hope he do fist,if he really hate me then he would unfriend me but I'm still in his friends list so it's a good sign!

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ymmi
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posted April 30, 2017 01:26 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for ymmi     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by colorful butterfly:
I got this sense of you making contact. Not sure if it is he is waiting for you to delete him or for you to make whatever decision you decide with things. The other thing it could be is you should make contact.

Maybe a combination of all three, but this is what I first sensed when I saw your situation. Hope this helps hun!!!


Thank you, no I don't think so I'm going to contact him first if I did then later he will taunt me " that I only like him that's why I did make a contact" he is that type of man,

He make first things if he lose interest then he taunt/blame that you made that all things he is that type of man so I don't wish to make first move.:-(

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ymmi
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posted April 30, 2017 01:30 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for ymmi     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
If he still like me and waiting for me to contact him then maybe I will think about to contact him but not sure if he is waiting for me!

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colorful butterfly
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posted April 30, 2017 12:02 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for colorful butterfly     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Yea, I have been with guys who said somethings like that to me before. I just explained to them, that I don't really like to make the first contact because of immature responses like that.

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intuitivefish
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posted April 30, 2017 12:10 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for intuitivefish     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Unfriending someone is in noway connected to hating them. Thats not true.
Sometimes you unfriend a person to just try and have space and it helps you do your thing without thinking what will your ex think about it.
Why would it have to do with hate. Thats childish.
I even like my ex and wish to just keep my life seperate to not have him or me cling on to my every move. It gives a healthier relationship and a chance to stay friends but move on

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Randall
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posted May 05, 2017 09:57 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Randall     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by intuitivefish:
Unfriending someone is in noway connected to hating them. Thats not true.
Sometimes you unfriend a person to just try and have space and it helps you do your thing without thinking what will your ex think about it.
Why would it have to do with hate. Thats childish.
I even like my ex and wish to just keep my life seperate to not have him or me cling on to my every move. It gives a healthier relationship and a chance to stay friends but move on

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Randall
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posted May 10, 2017 10:34 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Randall     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
And sometimes it's nothing personal.

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Randall
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posted May 14, 2017 02:14 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Randall     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by colorful butterfly:
Yea, I have been with guys who said somethings like that to me before. I just explained to them, that I don't really like to make the first contact because of immature responses like that.


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