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posted May 16, 2017 11:26 PM            

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So i met this guy a while ago and we just started talking. Anyway, months into us becoming friends and sometimes more than that with convo's (nothing physical) he starts acting annoying. He started bringing up other girls to see if he could get under my skin. Or in his words he would ask "are you jealous? I bet you're jealous? I would always say no because neither of us would talk about getting serious. It went from him telling about all of these girls wanting him or him finding them hot and still wouldn't get under me. So then he goes and brings up one of his hs friends that is a girl and they've hooked up a few times. Constantly would bring her up and then proceed to ask his jealous questions. After a few days of him first mentioning them, I would ask "whatever happen to (whatever girl he brought up) and he would always say how it didn't work out with none of them. So, because this became a regular thing for him to say to me, i finally played along. And I told him i had a date coming up that weekend. And I could tell he was mad. He started asking where did we meet, what race was he, am i going to have sex with him, etc. Clearly he was jealous of his own game he constantly played. So I told him he was just someone I met (he wasn't real). And he was short with me for the rest of the day, up until sunday. Then he started to say he could never see himself dating me and said his type was completely different than me. I became mad and hurt and stopped talking to him. All of this because i played your same little game? I knew his comments were to hurt me because he thought they're was another guy. But it was fine when he brought up different girls? Im not your type but you approached me first and started a conversation with me?

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posted May 17, 2017 02:31 AM            

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Sounds like he has Sun,likely you had bad synastry with either or. I would let it go and be grateful that you do not need to untangle yourself further. Be clear about what you want and need in a relationship and start the process of actively looking for what you have defined. Good luck and please do not quote.

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posted May 17, 2017 04:18 AM            

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I don't get anything good coming out of this, even if you had progressed to something more with him it would have been toxic to the core and you wouldn't be truly happy at all. He does want you but only mainly for his selfish purposes and to validate his ego. You have seen his true colors right now so its up to you how you want to proceed next.

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