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furrybunny
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posted May 24, 2017 04:40 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for furrybunny     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
anyone on to exchange?
my q is would it be to concious benefit if I gave JG his stuff today vs next week?or mail it in the mail

i just want to know what outcome each choice would create

and what would he think if i ask for the gift back

thanks!

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intuitivefish
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posted May 24, 2017 04:58 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for intuitivefish     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
mailing it, I feel would make him feel its a cold way of asking for closure or not wanting to talk to him again, I get a sense if you mail it he would shut down and think about it why you would mail it, if it is your way of now wanting to communicate with him again.

Today or next week

I get a feeling next week could be a little better for both of you, I dont feel anything particularly bad with today, I just get a better sense of next week and it going better, more calm and more positive.

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furrybunny
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posted May 24, 2017 06:53 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for furrybunny     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
thank you!! i guess we decided on next week.

fish if u need some q answer asap just post on this thread since i get alerts.

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intuitivefish
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posted May 24, 2017 07:02 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for intuitivefish     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
nothing atm
thanks

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furrybunny
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posted May 24, 2017 07:23 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for furrybunny     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote

anyone can answer.

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intuitivefish
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posted May 25, 2017 03:38 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for intuitivefish     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I do have one. Its a lot on my mind ofc.
What will A chose in regards to L?

(She is very manipulative so I get scared he will chose to be with her out of guilt)

So basically wondering if he will chose to have a relationship with her (be with her) or chose to co parent with her but not be together with her?

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posted May 25, 2017 03:41 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for intuitivefish     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
quote:
Originally posted by furrybunny:
im suppose to go to miami and he keeps mentioning it. is JG worried i would meet some guys this weekend?does he want me to meet a guy to get over him?


anyone can answer.


He is very posesive over you and wants to consider you as being his even if not with you. So he in no way wants you to meet anyone however he will want to seem cool and detached at times so he may try to show it does not bother him what you do. My feeling is that he would be very bothered if you do meet anyone and he would try to find someone quickly also if you did.

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posted May 25, 2017 08:10 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for furrybunny     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote

What will A chose in regards to L?


I'm getting he is not really with her because he wants a relationship based on love etc. Just dont get anything romantic between them at least from his side. his main focus will just be co-parenting and contribute in finances and other duties. so i will say no hes not going to be with her but only have whatever relationship they have right now because of the kid.

let me know if this makes sense

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posted May 25, 2017 08:12 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for furrybunny     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
so i am curious JG said our break up is final but hes giving me 2 months to change. IE my listening skills need to improve.. is he being genuine? like is he actually giving me a chance?

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posted May 25, 2017 10:36 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for furrybunny     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
bump* the last post is for anyone . will exchange in 1 hour.

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HappyNinja
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posted May 25, 2017 10:45 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for HappyNinja     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Hi FB! I'll exchange with you.

My question/s are: I'm going to partner with Mr. RS in business.

1) How can I make our partnership successful and fruitful?

2) Please describe him in terms of how he works, his mindset.. or anything that I need to know about his business style maybe? I don't know how to put it in words. Maybe just general guidance. Thanks in advance.

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posted May 25, 2017 11:18 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for HappyNinja     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Is JG giving Furrybunny another chance?

Yes, he will give you another chance. But first, he’s going to give you a hard time. Things will move slow. He is going to hold back, almost as if he is protecting himself. The connection between you will remain, but you will feel as if there’s a wall.
You have to be patient because a time of healing will come, though it’s going to be very very slow due to emotional blockage. I think you have to keep the communication lines open, and keep every interaction positive and uplifting. Avoid doing/saying whatever it was that caused many fights or disagreements in the past.
Try to be busy with your life so you won’t notice the slow passing of time. Rest assured that the feelings are there to stay.

What does JG want Furrybunny to do?

Is there a plan or a project that you are supposed work on? I think he wants you to focus on that. If you have a shared goal that is connected to your relationship, you have to continue that, so that in the event that you get back together you are on track to getting that goal or plan completed or at least underway. Whatever problems you had in the past, he wants to close that chapter. He feels that the root cause of the problem, whatever it is, is seriously harming the love between you. Like I said above, there will come a time of healing and the wall between you will come down. So think deeply about whatever the serious problem is between you and take steps to resolve it. Like I said above, don’t close the communication channel. There might be an invitation to attend a gathering or do something at or maybe visit a huge building or establishment. Maybe you two will celebrate something and it will be in that building.

Hope this resonates.

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posted May 25, 2017 11:58 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for intuitivefish     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Hi Furry,
sorry I just got home, I had a long work day.
thank you on the reading, it does resonate.

did you want to ask another question or the same one?

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posted May 25, 2017 12:28 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for furrybunny     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
hm i guess a different one. would i succeed in changing in 2 months and reconciling with JG

also thank you happy ninja! Ive been running errands all morning. so tired . will get to your questions in an hour

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posted May 25, 2017 12:35 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for intuitivefish     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Will do this now.

Can I ask another pls also.

L posted a pic of the baby and tagged A.
How come A has not liked the pic?

It just seems all so strange like he is still defensive about it.

Brb

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posted May 25, 2017 12:44 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for intuitivefish     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
quote:
Originally posted by furrybunny:
hm i guess a different one. would i succeed in changing in 2 months and reconciling with JG

also thank you happy ninja! Ive been running errands all morning. so tired . will get to your questions in an hour


okay I know this wont right away answer your question, because, at first I get that something inside you will first change in the sense of Who does he think he is, as I get some resistance from you, I know now it seems you want to do the change he wants but then I get this resistance and feeling like you will want him to change and not you and that I get you just being stubborn in a way about it. Feeling like you should both come half way.
On the change, it will actually happen more spontaneous and the change he is seeking will happen, but it will happen more as a result of the space between you and more as a result of you figuring out what you want in love.
So I dont particularly see you working on yourself to make the changes, rather the changes happening on a more flowing manner inside you

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posted May 25, 2017 12:47 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for furrybunny     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
haha always on point.
i woke up this morning angry .. like really annoyed. and actually thought who does he think he is. then i thought maybe i was irrational so decided to ask the q here. so thanks! i do think we need space. we will see.


hope u can wait an hour for the reading. im not home right now because of errands.

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posted May 25, 2017 12:50 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for intuitivefish     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
No rush 😊

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furrybunny
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posted May 25, 2017 02:46 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for furrybunny     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
@happyninja

paying attention to the details is crucial to this partnership. hes all business and will not let other matters interfere with his work ethic. he is a bit stubborn and the type who needs to be presented with facts in a non aggressive way. but your partnership would be positive. I also get the feeling someone might find the other attractive.

he values honesty. do not hide anything from him or even lie about little facts because he would take it personally and be extremely turned off. if he wants something hell go and get it. do not bring your personal life into the work . he wants to work with a respectable individual with a great work ethic. he's not super creative and a bit slow and methodical in his approach to problems.

also i might be off on this but is he somewhat sexist or known to be a loner?


i can pull some more cards if u have a particular question

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posted May 25, 2017 02:58 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for furrybunny     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
@intuitive


hmm. I frankly get the feeling he didnt do it because he didnt want to be associated as a happy functional family. I dunno if im wording it correctly. its actually a bigger issue than just liking a photo.

from the cards i pulled, he seem defiant about it. i felt like L tagging him had some hidden agenda and i felt like he knew. i also think he didnt want a third party seeing it.

if he liked the picture it would be because he felt obligated to like it because its his kid.

i hope this makes sense . i can pull a few more if need be.

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posted May 25, 2017 03:01 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for intuitivefish     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
this makes sense, you have no idea how much.
everyone keeps liking and putting hearts and what now, but him from beginning, he never even liked one pic related to it, and she keeps posting to make it seem they are together and a family and what not.

to me also, it felt like he was defensive about it.

thank you

if you wanna do more, let me know

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posted May 25, 2017 03:28 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for furrybunny     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
im glad it made sense . dont have any q now but feel freee to leavve any qs

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posted May 25, 2017 03:40 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for intuitivefish     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I just wanna ask, has A yet been or will be clear to L about not wanting a romantic relationship?

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posted May 25, 2017 04:15 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for HappyNinja     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Furrybunny, LOL on one of us finding the other attractive. That must be why he's sending me morning greetings regularly.

I met him only once so I'm not sure if he is sexist. But a common friend told me he's the "work hard, play hard type", so you must be correct. I can also sense he is a loner.

I'm glad I had this reading done because now I know how to work with him. Yes, he seems very serious about work, and his need for transparency and honesty is a good thing, because I value those things as well. I can tell he is not super creative and I think it's a positive thing in this scenario, because I just got out of a partnership where we're both creatives and we clashed a lot. So in this new setting, I get to make creative decisions. LOL. I'm glad our partnership is going to have a positive outcome. All in all, your reading sounds accurate. Thanks so much for your time and energy. Truly appreciated.

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posted May 25, 2017 04:23 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for furrybunny     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote

oh im glad it made sense haha.

forgot feedback. your reading made senese. there are a few things ive promised him over past year or two that i would do but never did them because i felt i was being inauthentic . chhanging myself for him.. but he had the best intentions. just couldnt see it at the time. i love celebrations so this will make me happy haha. thank you!!

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