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Topic: Anyone wanna do a quick exchange?
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missblyss Knowflake Posts: 1294 From: Registered: May 2016
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posted May 24, 2017 09:26 PM
Hey guys.I've been around here for a while, so some of you may know my awful saga as far as my crazy ex husband. Well, I'm in a new (serious) relationship, engaged, and expecting a child. My partner is amazing and hasn't showed a single bad trait yet, we've never even fought! However, I have this lingering fear that he is lying to me secretly. I am unsure if this is paranoia due to past experiences with my ex or valid. Today he was driving for Uber and was gone 6 hours. He said he only made 2 ride and $10!! He went to his moms house 20 min away and gave her a massage and visited with them for a bit, but still 6 hours seems kinda excessive... It seems like he must have done something he isn't telling me about? Should I be concerned or am I just being paranoid? Glad to exchange right now! IP: Logged |
Jazabel Knowflake Posts: 584 From: Registered: Apr 2013
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posted May 24, 2017 09:37 PM
I am going to pull for your question now.IP: Logged |
Jazabel Knowflake Posts: 584 From: Registered: Apr 2013
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posted May 24, 2017 09:46 PM
Miss, my cards say he didn't lie or hide something serious. He is simply in an escapist mood where he prefers to not deal with the realty but rater do his own stuff and fantasize. He wants to make money, too, and he wants to buy you a ring, I have no idea what that means, thou, its just the message I'm receiving. He also feels kinda lost right now with no goals or a certain path to follow, just wandering his way thru life at the moment. IP: Logged |
missblyss Knowflake Posts: 1294 From: Registered: May 2016
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posted May 24, 2017 09:57 PM
I see that yes he was jealous. He tells himself you are doing things and telling him to make him jealous.. although he is really just saying that to make himself feel better and really feels a bit intimidated by it. I'm not sure why, but I just feel him being untrusting of your intentions behind your behaviors.. but you definitely arouse emotion in him and I would say yes he definitely was jealous! IP: Logged |
missblyss Knowflake Posts: 1294 From: Registered: May 2016
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posted May 24, 2017 09:59 PM
quote: Originally posted by Jazabel: Miss, my cards say he didn't lie or hide something serious. He is simply in an escapist mood where he prefers to not deal with the realty but rater do his own stuff and fantasize. He wants to make money, too, and he wants to buy you a ring, I have no idea what that means, thou, its just the message I'm receiving. He also feels kinda lost right now with no goals or a certain path to follow, just wandering his way thru life at the moment.
Thank you love! He does wanna buy me a ring, he's said so a few times. After writing I sort of had a vision of him actually just hanging out and relaxing at his mom's house for a while (he used to live there and I think he is quite comfortable there, being in his own space)... so what you say definitely resonates! Thanks again
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Jazabel Knowflake Posts: 584 From: Registered: Apr 2013
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posted May 24, 2017 10:08 PM
ah, good it resonated...I was pretty sure I got the right message for you. IP: Logged |
missblyss Knowflake Posts: 1294 From: Registered: May 2016
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posted May 24, 2017 10:35 PM
quote: Originally posted by Jazabel: ah, good it resonated...I was pretty sure I got the right message for you.Can you, please, unquote my own question from your post above, I was going to delete my post. So you think he was jealous, huh? I do not want to make him that, I actually try to avoid any occasion that makes him feeling that way, because he gets grouchy. But the lunch was great. How does he feel tonight, I mean, right now? Any pleasant thought about me? lol
Yeah I do think so. He just seems really hyper-sensitive when it comes to you. Sort of threatened by you connecting with other people because he can never be TOTALLY positive about what level it's on. Not a reflection of you, but of his insecurities. I feel he thinks about you a lot and often has a gentle longing for you, and that goes for tonight as well.
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Jazabel Knowflake Posts: 584 From: Registered: Apr 2013
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posted May 24, 2017 10:36 PM
))))) Thanks so much You are very correct. IP: Logged |