posted May 25, 2017 11:55 AM            

So I'm back after a previous post a month or so back about meeting a guy I thought could be the one! My optimism sounds pretty funny now reflecting back and considering my track record with relationships.

It didn't work out as he said he wasn't ready to enter a relationship with me this weekend.
I spent the afternoon today painting and having a good cry as I'm feeling pretty down about it all... it honestly feels like I run from one burning building into another and I can never catch a break.

I've never had a serious relationship in my life or met a man who has actually said I love you or even I really like you. It just seems I'm a bit of fun to guys. I just want the feeling everyone around me seems to have when they're in love.

Can you see anything in my chart that would reflect why I'm so unlucky?

posted May 25, 2017 11:58 AM            

Thanks

posted May 25, 2017 12:42 PM            

What immediately caught my eye was Moon/Pluto in 4th,Uranus/Neptune in 5th. Saturn in 7th.

Venus is contra-parallel Neptune
Venus is contra-parallel Uranus(just over 1 degree orb)

Pluto in the 4th makes the emotional mind (4 th) distrusting and suspicious. Whilst Moon in 4th is a changeable position that suggest that emotional security is something that you may struggle with.

When Saturn is in the 7th, relationships are often taken very seriously. And this could be intimidating for young people who are just looking to have fun.

One with this placement, is often drawn to older/ mature types in love. Or atleast those with strong Saturn/Cap placements. Because they seem secure

At the same time,Uranus in 5th and in aspect to Venus may encourage attractions to short lived romantic attachments. Or those who have an "open ended" approach to dating.

It could also suggest that you are not the type who wants to be rushed to any type of romantic attachment

Neptune in 5th and in aspect to Venus adds idealism to to the mix. Seeing things from a fantastic point of view and even being very sketchy in your choice of suitors.

You may have to accept that things in your romantic life are subject to surprises and changes. Neptune there may reveal things that you didn't see initially. So decisions made may have to be reversed(hence Uranus also there)

posted May 25, 2017 01:05 PM            

There's also Venus trine Saturn. I didn't check the orb before writing this post, but maybe you seem a bit serious to potential partners and they have trouble giving you the commitment you want.