posted May 25, 2017 09:14 PM            

Some might remember me. I used to roam the forum pretty heavily a few years ago. I stopped coming on and started only lurking from time to time due a change in schedule and everything actually going so well. I totally lost the desire or need to get readings. Who would've thought?!

Whelp! Here I am again. I have been dating a man for a while. We are very close. He went out of town to visit family on Tuesday. We talked when he arrived on Tuesday night. I am scheduled to meet him out of town on Saturday. Well, Tuesday night was the last I heard from him. I've been calling and texting since last night, no response. First, I became worried because it is very unlike him to disappear like this. But I just spoke with someone who confirmed he's OK. At least to their knowledge.

I don't know what the hell is going on. My mind is going crazy with all kinds of crazy thoughts. And needless to say, I'm concerned and hurt.

Can someone PLEASE look into this and see what going on with him? Is he mad at me? Cheating? What gives?

posted May 25, 2017 10:23 PM            

3 of wands flew out.

posted May 25, 2017 10:29 PM            

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Originally posted by Diogenes:
3 of cups
Justice
4 of Wands
Queen of Wands
3 of Wands

3 of wands flew out.

Is he married? shows he is focused on is home life and is having a really good time. A spunky go getter type of woman is showing up here seems he looks to the future with this woman finds he can settle down with her. Somehow I see this man is settled down like taken. Are you the queen of wands usually?

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First, thank you so much!!! I am going crazy!

YIKES! Lol. No, I am almost positive he is not married. I know his entire family. He moved to another state to be with me. So, I am pretty sure that's not the case. He is with family, at least that was the purpose of the trip. And I was supposed to be meeting with him and his family on Saturday for the holiday weekend.

I want to say that I have shown up as the Queen of Wands once in a reading... I think. But I am not sure if I am remembering what I want to think or what actually happened. :-/

For what it's worth, I am spunky and we have discussed marriage a lot. HIs mother and I have discussed marriage and family with him and I as well.

posted May 25, 2017 10:36 PM            

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Originally posted by Diogenes:
Ah so discussed marriage, have connections to his family. This is you, queen of wands (wife card). 3 of wands shows expectancy, you mentioned you were to meet his family, perhaps he sort of expected you to come. No sneaky behavior in these cards so its all good.

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posted May 25, 2017 10:47 PM            

Cards say that everything was on track for him and nothing bad happened to him. Just that things took a turn for him unexpectedly, he ran into a woman he knows or this woman contacted him. She seems like an old flame from the past he catched up with.

posted May 25, 2017 10:54 PM            

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Originally posted by SereneDaze:
Three of pentacles + eight of wands + queen of cups + queen of wands + the lovers

Cards say that everything was on track for him and nothing bad happened to him. Just that things took a turn for him unexpectedly, he ran into a woman he knows or this woman contacted him. She seems like an old flame from the past he catched up with.

Do update us once you get to the bottom of this

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Thank you so much!

Whoa... Do you get the impression that something happened with this old flame? Something romantic... I guess I am asking if you get the feeling that there is funny business going on beyond just catching up with an old flame?

I mean... to prevent him from contacting me in almost two days... There has to be.. At this point, I am debating on how I will handle this when and if we do speak again.. It's just all so weird. I think I am going to cancel my plans to meet him out of town. This is too much!

posted May 26, 2017 10:18 AM            

Do either of you offer paid readings? I would like to get a little clarification and look at how this will unfold.

posted May 26, 2017 11:27 AM            

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Originally posted by SereneDaze:
Hi blessed39, I do have paid readings but I'm not sure if I'm really connecting though.

2 years is a long time to be together and there's no reason he's not keeping you in the loop on things. What are his initials?

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posted May 26, 2017 11:45 AM            

This spread is continuing the message from the previous one I pulled. It looks like something did went down with him and it got quite physical. It's not an emotional connection but mostly based on physical attraction. I feel he would explain to you on why he pulled this disappearing act.

posted May 26, 2017 11:49 AM            

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Originally posted by SereneDaze:
Fool + the devil + seven of swords

This spread is continuing the message from the previous one I pulled. It looks like something did went down with him and it got quite physical. It's not an emotional connection but mostly based on physical attraction. I feel he would explain to you on why he pulled this disappearing act.

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Wow... He cheated on me and has been with another woman all these days and ignoring me.... I cannot believe this. Wow! I am in total shock.

posted May 26, 2017 11:51 AM            

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Originally posted by SereneDaze:

Out of curiosity, is there any of his family members you could get in touch with? I hope my cards are wrong btw, sometimes cards pick up on your worst fears because you're of the current energy you have.

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posted May 26, 2017 11:56 AM            

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Originally posted by SereneDaze:
Ah I updated my post but you were too quick lol. I wouldn't be so quick to jump to conclusions based on a reading

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posted May 27, 2017 12:18 AM            

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Originally posted by Einfühlung:
Yes, I got a bad feeling about this.. None of the cards say that his phone got lost. Perhaps an old flame or admirer started thinking of him during that time and decided to reach out and act(Venus post-shadow rx ended last Sunday on the 21st, not to mention that Merc RX was transiting during the Venus RX.. double trouble..).
Your situation sounds a lot similar to someone I know whose boyfriend(now ex) went out drinking at a party without her and met his high school crush there. Apparently the crush knew he liked her back then and used that as an advantage (for selfish reasons because after that she never talked to him). He didn't go back to town after that the party, despite the numerous calls and texts from the girlfriend telling him to come home. Then he finally came back and she kept asking and being persistent until he told her the truth. She's now with someone other than him who is a lot better for her.

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If you don't mind me asking, what did the cards that you pulled say specifically?

This is all so strange! We actually are very well suited for one another. We have a great relationship and never really have any issues. It's been two pretty good years. He made the necessary sacrifices to uproot his life to be with me. I love his family. Everything has been great. This is crazy!

posted May 27, 2017 04:12 AM            

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Originally posted by blessed39:
If you don't mind me asking, what did the cards that you pulled say specifically?

This is all so strange! We actually are very well suited for one another. We have a great relationship and never really have any issues. It's been two pretty good years. He made the necessary sacrifices to uproot his life to be with me. I love his family. Everything has been great. This is crazy!

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Oh sorry I didn't pull any cards.. Just from looking at the cards pulled from readers here(especially SereneDaze because she's a great reader) it just gave me a bad feeling. Now, I do agree with intuitivefish. Please don't let these get to you. It's best to stay level-headed when asking for a reading. Since the energy you're giving is so strong right now, it could effect the cards and not give an accurate answer and reflect what you're fearing.

I pulled some cards asking why he didn't contact you:
8 of Pentacles, 4 of Wands, 9 of Wands, 5 of Pentacles, 6 of cups. Clarified by Sun and 10 of Swords.

It looks like these cards are explaining what has happened between you two. I'm getting that he was really busy celebrating with his family that he forgot to contact you, and because of that he was on guard from you worrying so much about him not contacting you. The sun shows me that everything will be shed to light. You will get the answer, but with the 10 swords the truth might hurt(like he was happy that he was away from you to have his "me-time". There are those who enjoy being away from their partner sometimes). However, 10 of swords could possibly show you be over dramatic about this and that once you stop feeling like this, you will get clarity(sun). Another simple way to interpret 10 of swords and sun is "These cards before me is the truth(Sun) about the stop in communication(10 of swords)."

posted May 27, 2017 05:43 AM            

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Originally posted by intuitivefish:
You are letting readings meddle with your mind which is not healthy.

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