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posted June 02, 2017 03:27 PM            

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Hi

This is shitt.y to be honest and I feel like it was the persons last resort to do this and they hoped you might in some scenario understand and not take it bad. Also there feels to be not too much thought has gone into this, it feels like it was last minute and fast decision.
Ok on how they will react, I get a sense of them acting like they are surprised but I feel like they know they will cause the reaction from you.
He will try to talk down your upset, he will try to calm you down and make it seem better than it seems.
So the friend knows you will be upset and I do feel them even trying to avoid you and avoid the whole situation but I do feel some talk back and forth, possible raising of voices.. It will not be a good situation, I dont feel a definite end of friendship but I do feel a cold phase between you

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posted June 02, 2017 03:39 PM            

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Their reaction will be very passionate and charged, as it would have taken them by surprise and they will be very sharp about it, might try to fight you back if needed and it might be difficult to 'let it go' or find a compromise with this person.

I don't know if there is much at stake or what you both have to lose given the situation but perhaps you could look for a different way to approach things, to not inspire an emotional reaction from them as it looks like things may get blown out of proportion.

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posted June 02, 2017 03:55 PM            

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Thanks intuitive fish and out of ideas. I kind of already know things wouldn't be good, there is no way to handle it nicely and at the same time not be walked over like this, The betrayal just stings

Do leave your q if you have one.

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posted June 02, 2017 03:57 PM            

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I just wanna ask, what advice do the cards have to bring about what I wish for me and A in this month

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posted June 02, 2017 04:15 PM            

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The world + six of pentacles + ace of pentacles

With the world it feels like things are coming full circle in a way, things have changed and there is even healing taking place. Overall there is release and a more positive vibe. Cards are saying whatever your wish is, to release it to the Universe and to only have good intentions at heart. Whatever is meant to happen will happen. It seems there is a path towards a renewal in the connection for the better. The words "good intentions" and "heart" come off very strongly in the spread.

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posted June 02, 2017 04:24 PM            

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thank you this does really make sense

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posted June 02, 2017 05:28 PM            

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I'm wondering what are F.M.'s long-term intentions about me? Thank you

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posted June 03, 2017 12:31 AM            

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update: the friendship is over. it got very very ugly. he left me a scathing reply justifying that it was okay for him to be stealing my work, insulting all the personal issues i shared with him from before, before blocking and deleting me from everywhere.

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posted June 03, 2017 12:44 AM            

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Hi outofideas, I pulled these cards for you before my personal drama happened, sorry for the long wait.

three of wands + ten of wands + eight of cups

these seem to be quite strange cards to receive if this was an ongoing connection. this person has a lot of uncertainties and not sure if they want to continue the connecton, or has thoughts about what their intentions are in the long run. there is a certain stress here from them in keeping up.

please let me know if it makes sense!

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posted June 03, 2017 11:25 AM            

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sorry it went so bad Serene
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posted June 03, 2017 11:54 AM            

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thanks IF, I'm honestly in shock over how bad it got but this was something that had to happen

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posted June 03, 2017 12:04 PM            

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if you need to ask anything, go ahead I will be here.

Maybe for the best he showed his true face to you

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posted June 03, 2017 12:30 PM            

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appreciate it so much IF

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posted June 03, 2017 12:45 PM            

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well I think you know I cannot say when you will get over it as it is up to you and the pace you go at with healing.

On how to get some balance in your emotions.
for the beginning you need to pull inwards and control any temptations you may have, so control any need to contact again, add to what you said, or ask him why. So I feel it is best now to to let it be in a way.
Now is the time to work on other things and try and not think about this at all as difficult it will be try not to "poison" your mind any more with the mistreating that happened to you. So I feel it is best to in a way just accept what happened to be a bad thing that yes it was unfair and best to accept it is that. Also I get that he will get his karma and he will feel sorry, so there should be no worry about that.
Now is the time to embrace things that will make you smile and now is the time to see what happened as something that had to happen.
I dont feel it is the end end of the friendship, it does feel like there is the end for now but I do get a sense you 2 will connect again to try and be on civil terms

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posted June 03, 2017 01:24 PM            

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every lesson that happens comes with a reason, just that at this point im not entirely sure what it is yet. and thanks parts of your reading really resonates with me.

leave a q too if you have one

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posted June 03, 2017 01:26 PM            

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I am glad at least something made sense.

thank you,

I just wanna ask, next contact from A, what will be the energy,tone of it?

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posted June 03, 2017 01:54 PM            

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Seven of cups + page of wands + king of swords

I believe the cards are explaining how he will be the next time he contacts and where he's coming from. It will be pleasant and something that's light in tone, like dropping a message to say hi. It shows that he does want to keep things that way with you even though there may be other things going on in his life. King of swords says that he would have an emotionally detached front to him.

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posted June 03, 2017 02:05 PM            

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Hey Serene

There's no need to worry about any delays, it wasn't anything urgent

I am sorry to hear it went down really ugly with this person but at least you now know they were not the friend you thought they were and apparently were very selfish and inconsiderate. Their reaction sounds like it was very immature and not worth your worries.
It is normal for you to be very disappointed but understand not all people turn out to be nice and such is life. Don't let it get to you and be sure that these actions will be resolved one way or another by the Universe.

As for my reading yes it does seem to resonate a lot and I often get the 8 of cups as a final card for this person. Our connection is ongoing but with many pauses in between. Just a few weeks back he was also scathing towards me while justifying himself so I think I can relate to you a bit. Given that our relationship has become significantly complicated over the years it is normal for him to expect difficulties and feel like it is too much to take and just wants to move forward. He will be going away very soon so it all fits perfectly.

Many thanks for this exchange

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posted June 03, 2017 02:09 PM            

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thanks Serene.
It makes sense especially him seeming to be detached.
I wonder why though, the need to seem detached..

anyway, thank you

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posted June 04, 2017 04:03 AM            

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Serene

I just wanted to come give a hug to you. I understand you even more now as I had a good friendship fall apart last night and built it back up today.
I do have Uranus passing through my 7th house, so it happening out of nowhere makes sense.

Hope you do feel better and know that maybe such changes like you went through had to happen, it was a pushed change that maybe would have happened any way in down the line in your life.

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posted June 04, 2017 01:13 PM            

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Much love to you too IF

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