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missblyss
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posted June 07, 2017 09:23 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for missblyss     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
My abusive ex husband fired his lawyer, 15 hours before our court case tomorrow.

this gives us a chance to be able to complete the hearing TOMORROW if the judge decides!

please I have been shaking for the past 15 min. all the years of his abuse and control could be over tomorrow....

any insights? Will GLADLY exchange

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missblyss
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posted June 07, 2017 09:33 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for missblyss     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
i had an energetic reaction of uncontrollable shaking for almost 15 minutes, I've never experienced this before... this is so intense for me you guys!

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Jazabel
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posted June 07, 2017 10:40 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Jazabel     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
hey sweets,

I don't think anything will be done tomorrow, it will be postponed.

take some rest and don't think too much into it because you are going to be more nervous that way

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missblyss
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posted June 07, 2017 11:06 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for missblyss     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I'm actually not nervous at all! The shaking was a weird physical response but wasn't related to emotions. I think it was a release of RELIEF because he's losing his **** ..

My lawyer thinks there is now a good chance the case may go on tomorrow! Prior to this, there was almost no chance.

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Jazabel
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posted June 08, 2017 04:23 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Jazabel     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
What happened ?

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missblyss
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posted June 08, 2017 05:42 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for missblyss     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Omg! it went really well... Slightly complicated to explain, but I will..

Basically, my ex was initially intending to go in today to request an evidentiary hearing; which is a hearing that has to be scheduled months in advanced and is a full day hearing where we have to pay thousands for all of our doctors, therapists, etc, to come testify... It's very tedious, expensive, and would draw things out and potentially prevent me from moving on August 1st.

SO, as you guys know, he fired his lawyer. My ex did not show up, but he called in. Because he was representing himself today, my ex asked for a continuance instead of an evidentiary hearing, which just pushes the 20 minute hearing back a week or two. The judge told him this is the ONLY time he will be able to push the case back- meaning he is now unable to request an evidentiary hearing (great news!)

The judge also gave me permission to move! Which almost makes the case obsolete (how is he gonna have visits if he is 2 states away?) I also know that the judge is on my side, she was very kind and accommodating and even apologized for having to push to case back.

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Jazabel
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posted June 08, 2017 06:09 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Jazabel     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
oh that's great. Its in your favour, I am glad for you

so, it was postponed, like me and FurryBunny thought...that's good to know as a feedback

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posted June 08, 2017 07:57 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for furrybunny     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
hey im glad it worked in yoyur favor. the spread showed someone trying to help you so im really glad its the judge!! thanks for the update!

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Randall
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posted June 12, 2017 03:24 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Randall     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Good news!

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posted June 15, 2017 10:08 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Randall     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Any updates?

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Randall
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posted June 16, 2017 02:44 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Randall     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Bump!

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