posted November 18, 2018 01:11 PM
Hi Ymmi… You've been asking at LL, all over the place, for years now. {{ }}(music) It Must Be Him; All The Time (Vikki Carr) [7:05] http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=U9S3-Aish8U
You might want to begin to examine the 'type and character' of the men you have already been attracting to yourself, in real life, if you want a clue to the 'vibe' and magnet you have BEEN using to "attract" them unconsciously.
The amount of 'neediness' and gripping desperation for perfection you might be putting 'out there' could perhaps be a factor repelling some? .. so, without realizing it, you may be missing some connections with really good ones that might have already been coming around?
Gently, you might want to take inventory of your OWN character first.
Really dig in deep to find out WHO you are, what you stand for. What Values in life do you hold within you, in your mind, in your Heart.
When you know who YOU are, then you will see a Proper Reflection of what kind of mate you will draw towards you.
Be the bright candle and the attracting flame.
Clarify who you are.
Learn to cultivate your Inner Beauty (Venus), and handle any of that mild neuroticism and nervous~anxiety over knowing who 'he' could be.
BE Yourself. Be your own innerQueen, respecting who you are. Really really really 'be' who you are. Your King will respond in-Kind, and expect same for himself?
Sure up your OWN sense of innerSecurity, the best you can. Be sure you could deal with someone possessive, or your own possessiveness?
Also examine your own sense of loyalty and an ability to truly be 'committed' as far as finances and sex are concerned.
Are you an impulsive spendthrift?
How would a partner (you would have) respond to that, in joint-finances? ..
Work on how to manage your money …
Do you expect him to be faithful?
Then, how faithful are YOU? …
What qualities do you have 'right now' in your life, inside of YOU?
How much longevity do you have?
I wish you the VERY VERY Best!!
Know Yourself first.
Don't worry about him before you'd meet anyone.
First, BE the Best Person you can be.
Ground and surround yourself in Love (spiritual).
It will be like a Bouquet around you. (aura)
Do things for Others.
Be spiritually attractive.
Work on yourself.
Again, BEST Wishes.
Interpret this song to fit your own belief system.
Venus Leo trine Neptune Sag
(music) Charm is Deceitful (Kim Hill, lyrics) [2:18] http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=6ZYV1t8zyws