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libentia
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posted June 20, 2017 04:39 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for libentia     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I've asked about it already, but it's really hindering me. A few months ago I started talking with someone I met online, we talked for months and then we met. After that we ended up getting into an argument, sort of, that ended with them no longer talking to me (and keeping my item if ya'll have seen me groaning about that). It's been about 2 months, almost 3 since then. But I can't stop thinking about them, just when I'm finally moving on as well, I have a dream about them and then it starts all over again. I want to know if there's ever chance for reconciliation or for them to contact me again, or if I should just move on for good. I'd greatly appreciate if someone would pull some cards, and I'll gladly exchange

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harmonicvibes
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posted June 20, 2017 04:47 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for harmonicvibes     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Hi lib

I pulled for you. So it looks like you think of this person so much because you really saw felt the potential with them. That's why your having tough time moving on but slowly yet surely you will. Moving on is what you need to do I don't see this person seeking you out I see you not doing that either if you don't readjust your mindset your always going to wonder. So try move on to better prospects


Knight of coins
8 of cups
2 of coins


My question is why didn't Ivan want me to go to Ohio anymore? No quote

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NinaAria
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posted June 20, 2017 05:10 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for NinaAria     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I'll exchange with you.
My question is how will my trip to CM be?

For you I got the following:

3 of Pentacles
Lovers
4 of Cups
2 of Pentacles
5 of Swords

You guys connected through mutual interests it seems perhaps in the same line of work or same ambitions. However after sometime someone was no longer interested in the connection they didn't feel satisfied and we're contemplating leaving the connection, there's also a possibility here with one of you (but judging from how you are expressing yourself) that he was juggling more than one person. I don't see that there was honesty here so i will say no I don't see a reconciliation I am sorry. 5 of swords not a good person. Let them go, you'll be alright.

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harmonicvibes
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posted June 20, 2017 05:14 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for harmonicvibes     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Hi niņa

Would you be up to do a exchange as well?

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libentia
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posted June 20, 2017 05:17 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for libentia     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by NinaAria:
I'll exchange with you.
My question is how will my trip to CM be?

For you I got the following:

3 of Pentacles
Lovers
4 of Cups
2 of Pentacles
5 of Swords

You guys connected through mutual interests it seems perhaps in the same line of work or same ambitions. However after sometime someone was no longer interested in the connection they didn't feel satisfied and we're contemplating leaving the connection, there's also a possibility here with one of you (but judging from how you are expressing yourself) that he was juggling more than one person. I don't see that there was honesty here so i will say no I don't see a reconciliation I am sorry. 5 of swords not a good person. Let them go, you'll be alright.


Actually, it was me juggling more than one person lol. I'll do yours now..

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libentia
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posted June 20, 2017 05:25 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for libentia     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
HB

six of cups, seven of wands, eight of wands

I don't think that it's not that he doesn't want you to come, it's just not right now he doesn't. Things might be moving too fast and so he's starting to feel some doubt.

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libentia
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posted June 20, 2017 05:28 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for libentia     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Nina:

high priestess, queen of wands, six of pentacles

I think it'll be fun, but you'll have to be open to adventure to really have the full experience. You'll be happy while there and leave the trip having learned new things.

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harmonicvibes
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posted June 20, 2017 05:32 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for harmonicvibes     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Ok thank lib I'm so sad and depressed now less than 24 hours ago I told him I need to start looking for work don't have time to be waiting around...he asked if I'd like to go to stay in Ohio I said yes thibgs were stressful here for me right now, he said Ok I'm looking at a place I'll let you know. He got the place hours later he text me back he's only going be there temporary cause then he might have to move to another state maybe...so from all that I gathered he didn't want me to go....I don't know maybe it was some miscommunication. ..I just know I need someone right now I have worst luck this always happens ....to me I'm so sad angry depressed feel worthless with my life my life is worthless nothing goes right ever

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harmonicvibes
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posted June 20, 2017 05:37 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for harmonicvibes     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Thank you for all your genorsity lib 💜💜💜 I know I'm a mess but thank you for willing to do the reading exchange 💜

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FatedCinderella
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posted June 20, 2017 05:56 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for FatedCinderella     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I'm sorry for intruding just wanted to say don't feel like that @harmonic! Don't put your power on someone else's hands like this.You worth soo much and you can't measure your value on what a guy thinks or do with you.A lot of guys act weird like this anyway!Plus there's plenty of fish in the water so you can find a real man in case he's doesn't treat you like you deserve.

Everyone have struggles.The only difference is how they may handle the situation,if their self steem is good they won't pay too much attention on these "failures".I know that is difficult,well beyond than difficult I know that well cuz I struggle on my love life too but the negativity won't help us.I'm telling you this to remind you and to remind myself too because I know how hard that is.I know how hard it is when we think we are unlucky.

You can also ask yourself if you are doing something that is too much like being clingy or something else.I sabotage my relationships doing many crazy things and I'm trying to be more aware of my behaviour to change.
Behaviour isn't who you are!

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posted June 20, 2017 06:07 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for harmonicvibes     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Hi fated


I used to sabotage my relationships yes pretty often but the men were also very worthless me and IC had a bad fallout in the past I fought pretty often with him would pick fights but this time I been very different I don't even know if he realizes how sad and depressed and upset that I am. Even if he does 8f he even cares at this point I even wonder if he even likes me at all in the slightest

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FatedCinderella
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posted June 20, 2017 06:40 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for FatedCinderella     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Maybe he is just scared.It's pretty common to get scared when things get more serious.

My sister for example stopped dating a guy these days because she didn't want to fall in love lol and she's too attached to him.She's feeling pretty bad about this and she wants to reconsider now! He may think is something he did to her but is absolutely not the truth.

So what I mean is that overthinking won't help you.There's a lot of possibilities for it.Be calm and take care of yourself 💙

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libentia
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posted June 20, 2017 06:50 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for libentia     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I understand you HV I feel upset, too. Multiple people had said yeah we'll reconnect and it's really messing with me. Sorry that you're going through this.

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NinaAria
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posted June 21, 2017 10:19 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for NinaAria     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Thank you libentina.

I'm glad the reading resonated with you. Just move on you'll be ok. Since you said it was you who was juggling maybe the only reason you think back is because you feel bad/guilty you need to let that go so you can fully let go of that person. Then you'll be ok.

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