posted June 27, 2017 07:02 AM
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Originally posted by Sagical:
I met a Scorpio man last year and we got into a relationship. It lasted maybe nine or ten months.I got fed up with being mistreated and moved out if his place in April 25 of this year. That morning it was the cold shoulder and silent treatment.....I have not spoken with him since and he didn't stop me as I was leaving.... just let me go.
He tried texting me a few times last month and then again yesterday and tonight.
I have gone completely no contact with him whatsoever. Honestly, I still love him with the depths of my heart but refuse to be abused any more.
I'm not sure what is going on here.....
Maybe a card being pulled would be appreciated.
Thanks in advance......
I'm going to be my Aries self and push forward here
Cards aside and just sit and think for awhile on why you left. If you left because you think the guy was abusive then why entertain this person any longer, it is still a form of them trying to have control over you. The text that he is sending you, he wants you to come back? Just wants to contact you or did it by mistake? Personally me, I would change my number and go out with someone new. They would be dead to me.
I dated a few guys who were mentally and verbally abusive in my past, when I broke up with them I hurt for sometime. The best thing that I could realize is that their actions had nothing to do with me, they just weren't really good people who handled things very well then took that out on me. Not that I am a victim because I think you save yourself. I think this is where you are in a growth lesson, save yourself. NO one can do that for you but you.
I have this saying that I use from time to time when someone ask me about why a person did this and that to them. ( I still even ask when I already know) You can love someone but it doesn't mean they are going to love you back or to know how to love you back . Two people can love each other but it doesn't mean that they are good for one another.