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Topic: feeling lonely
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Infatuation423
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posted July 04, 2017 06:41 PM
  
anybody ever felt so lonely? you feel like you dont have anybody? you do have friends but they are either busy or with their significant other?i want to know, how would you cope with this?  IP: Logged |
Magikaal
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Registered: Apr 2016
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posted July 05, 2017 09:33 AM
Sorry to hear it. This has happened to me and the answer is to go out and find new friends. (I am speaking from experience). Go to meetings. I especially recommend anything to do with your hobbies, you have to make the time, even though it seems hard. It may be that your current friends have pressing matters in their lives. You don't have to 'cope' - just think of all the new friends just waiting to come into your life. IP: Logged |
AwakenSky16
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posted July 05, 2017 12:03 PM
Hello Infatuation423... Yes there may be times like this.
Where is your saturn transit right now? It can explain what you describe.
So what I do ... well I look better my needs. For example, I devote myself to a new hobby, I have given myself the possibility to carry out a project that I had for some time.
I take advantage of my friends, when they are free and I do more things for me. I spend a lot of time outdoors and there are people around and sometimes meetings are possible.Take stock of your needs, your desires, some may also be easier than others to concretize even if you are alone. Loneliness can be heavy if you don't make it productive for yourself ... It doesn't make everything, but it's already a good thing. You just have to do what you can until the wheel turns for something better. And if you aren't optimistic, accept it too and keep some energy, some days are better than others, use the best when they are there!
With best wishes Please do not quote IP: Logged |
DannyCappy
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posted July 05, 2017 12:54 PM
I know pretty well that feeling.The only difference is that I have friends that are there for me if I want to yet I feel more alone than ever.What I mean is that having people there or not having,sometimes isn't the issue you know? Hope you get better 💙 IP: Logged |
DannyCappy
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posted July 05, 2017 01:08 PM
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You do have friends but they are either busy or with their significant other?
I agree with others here,find new friends! Fresh start! 2 of my friends are married and I can see the difference between them pretty clear.One when is with her husband is another person,she is awesome to me supports me but I don't spend too much time with her anymore because of it.The other one remains the same on the company of her husband.. 
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Infatuation423
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posted July 05, 2017 01:10 PM
Thank you guys for answering! You know, when I was younger, I was more outgoing. Nowadays, all I do is work. Sometimes I even go to a bar by myself. I have hit this lonely road before but for some reason this time it's hitting me twice as hard.
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Infatuation423
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posted July 05, 2017 01:11 PM
Dannycappy, do you read Lenormand?IP: Logged |
DannyCappy
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posted July 05, 2017 01:17 PM
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Originally posted by Infatuation423:
Dannycappy, do you read Lenormand?
No.Sometimes I try with tarot but I'm not really good.Besides the fact that I always need help from people here to read the cards because I don't understand what it is trying to say 
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DannyCappy
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posted July 05, 2017 01:22 PM
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Sometimes I even go to a bar by myself
That is a good thing.You should be proud of yourself! Some people can't spend 2 seconds alone on their own company without freaking out (myself inclued lol).They say is very healthy to spend some time alone,try to have fun alone. IP: Logged |
Infatuation423
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posted July 05, 2017 01:26 PM
DannyCappy, haha i totally understand! i asked you cus i always found lenormand to be accurate for me so ive been thinking of getting a deck. maybe later on.yes, about the bar. i remember i told some people i went to a bar by myself and people were like what?? at first i had shame towards it, now i just go in, have my drink and leave. IP: Logged |
DannyCappy
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posted July 05, 2017 01:41 PM
That is because we have a codependant society,is hard to move on from that lol but just because they don't understand doesn't mean you are doing wrong Buy that deck! Lenormand seems pretty cool and seems to give us answers that are more clear than tarot. IP: Logged |
Infatuation423
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posted July 05, 2017 01:44 PM
Totally agree!Yes I noticed with lenormand it's straight forward answers. do you recommend a specific deck to start with? IP: Logged |
mirage29
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Registered: May 2012
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posted July 05, 2017 02:02 PM
Infatuation!... {{  }}Yes, I think some of us are feeling that energy very ACUTELY right now. I myself have been feeling as though I'm in a hollow cylinder, or, some kind of isolation-tube. There ARE astrology transits TO my chart directly that I can connect this surreal sense to, right now. Of course, I have no idea what yours are but THANK YOU for posting and creating your thread.
(You and some others are modeling how real things are, and how to rightly express your feelings and directly seek out feedback and support from other. You ROCK!! *thumbsup*) All you posters.... are soooo Wonderful!!!
Great great support and advices. 
Many of you here probably aren't as aware of some other threads in forums here at LL....
But, suffice it to say, you are DEFINITELY not alone feeling this way right now. And I thank the people with Courage to say so.
I've coped by cognitively reminding myself (with my head) of 'facts' to the contrary. I remind self that my feelings (emotions) can be 'faking' me out--- with false information, with fake-news!! LOL.
Big too-- is that we're energetically beginning to gear up for an INTENSE Full Moon in Capricorn July 8-9. Pluto is CONJUNCT Moon, while opposing the Sun Cancer. t Chiron in last degrees of Pisces just spun-around to go backwards and revisit degrees. Also-- some strong eclipses a month from now. So!!!  Going to bars, hmmmm??? Love it !!!!! Sending you WARM hugs with appreciation, and thanks... and some Sinatra, as you swish and swig your glass!! LOL Cheers! (music) One For My Baby, and One For The Road (Frank Sinatra, Only The Lonely) [4:26] http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=F1DmNf_tavg IP: Logged |
Infatuation423
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posted July 05, 2017 02:16 PM
Mirage, you are so cute! thank you for your post. ill have a listen to that song can you read my chart? i never had anyone do so IP: Logged |
mirage29
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posted July 05, 2017 02:27 PM
Not a pro here.... There are so many people with a LOT more knowledge and experience than I have.. But I'd love to try, if you'd want. I notice you started a chart thread.
Please include the main asteroid goddesses. add 60 Echo, 15230 Alona, and 13226 Soulie. 60,15230,13226 Lots of Love to you!  IP: Logged |
Infatuation423
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posted July 05, 2017 02:42 PM
http://imgur.com/a/1lYfY i think i did it right lol. please let me know and anybody else is welcome to read into it. just anything in general is fine IP: Logged |
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