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downtomars
Knowflake

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From: NY
Registered: Apr 2009

posted July 06, 2017 02:08 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for downtomars     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Hello all,

I had a date last Saturday with this guy. We have a lot in common - not just generational things like favorite movies and music - but our overall attitudes and dispositions. I am not sure how I feel about him. I usually go back and forth when I start dating/talking to someone and the smallest thing can make me change my mind. I don't know if I feel a romantic feel about this man yet. I think he's nice, but I don't know.

On the date he mentioned how he "enjoys solitude" when he comes home and how vacationing with his ex-girlfriend was a nightmare because she wanted to do stuff that he didn't want to do...

As a person with a full 7th house, I sigh...I don't know...

Todd has graciously done a composite reading in another thread that was posted before I met the man (I met him online and then in real life)...

How does it look? His birth data is correct!


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Kannon McAfee
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From: Portland, OR - USA
Registered: Oct 2011

posted July 06, 2017 11:47 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Kannon McAfee     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
There is a majority of positive aspects (planets and nodes counted only) in both synastry and composite. However, because his Saturn and Pluto are both parallel your N.Node, I'm willing to bet you will pass. This figure indicates to me that he may present too much change and control in how the relationship affects your sense of your future. With his Mars also squaring your Nodes, I'm willing to bet you'll sense underlying conflicts between personalities will play out in your relationship.

Being a person whose chart is strong in fixity (Sun in Leo, 5 in fixed signs) I don't think you'd be willing to accomodate him that much. Not necessarily a bad thing here.

But are you incompatible? No. I just don't think this fits your current sense of "compatible." Look at his Jupiter conjunct/parallel your Sun. That should dissolve your 7th house worries that you mentioned. He will likely find your notion of going and doing of more interest than his exes -- if he were to decide to get out of his head and live more. I think you present that opportunity to him -- seen in your Mars square his Nodes, but who knows if you'll take the bait together.

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downtomars
Knowflake

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From: NY
Registered: Apr 2009

posted July 09, 2017 10:55 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for downtomars     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
quote:
Originally posted by Kannon McAfee:
There is a majority of positive aspects (planets and nodes counted only) in both synastry and composite. [b]However, because his Saturn and Pluto are both parallel your N.Node, I'm willing to bet you will pass. This figure indicates to me that he may present too much change and control in how the relationship affects your sense of your future. With his Mars also squaring your Nodes, I'm willing to bet you'll sense underlying conflicts between personalities will play out in your relationship.

Being a person whose chart is strong in fixity (Sun in Leo, 5 in fixed signs) I don't think you'd be willing to accomodate him that much. Not necessarily a bad thing here.

But are you incompatible? No. I just don't think this fits your current sense of "compatible." Look at his Jupiter conjunct/parallel your Sun. That should dissolve your 7th house worries that you mentioned. He will likely find your notion of going and doing of more interest than his exes -- if he were to decide to get out of his head and live more. I think you present that opportunity to him -- seen in your Mars square his Nodes, but who knows if you'll take the bait together.

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Thank you Kannon! This doesn't matter now. I tried to see past what he told me and try to talk to him anyway, but I was shot down. He told me that he's got a lot of personal stuff going on and he wants to continue chatting - if I want - but not dating.

Oh well. This is the second time in a matter of weeks that his has happened to me! Same EXACT situation - internet meeting, I had mixed feelings about it and voiced it, I stayed positive, I got shot down. They even used similar wording, a long text message, to "let me down easy", even though I am the one who voiced my doubts (I called them both out on their lack of attentiveness, nicely, I am pretty diplomatic!). I don't know.

I think maybe tSaturn opposite my nMars (in the 5th house, of dating!) has something to do with this. It's kinda crappy. This might be the worst transit I've ever experienced.

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