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Topic: I'm Pregnant!!! Reading PUHLEEEAASSSEEE!
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blessed39 Knowflake Posts: 1207 From: Registered: Feb 2012
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posted July 08, 2017 04:03 PM
Hello all! HUGE surprise! I am pregnant. This is a total shock and unplanned. As many of you might remember, my partner and I are not married. I would have preferred for this to have happened AFTER marriage, but I am learning to accept the situation and find the blessing in this all. Im no spring chicken, so I am definitely of age to have a child. Lol. That said, things have been crazy! My car has been on the fritz and I am waiting to hear back from a car dealership on financing to get a new car. Soooo much going on!!! Can anyone please, please, please, PLEASE pull a few cards for me on if I should move forward with getting this car and just a general look on how things will unfold with me, the baby, and my significant other. All of these changes are just so crazy right now!! Thank you all so much! IP: Logged |
intuitivefish Knowflake Posts: 8804 From: Europe Registered: Aug 2014
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posted July 08, 2017 04:10 PM
Congratulations!!!IP: Logged |
colorful butterfly Knowflake Posts: 1556 From: USA Registered: May 2015
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posted July 08, 2017 04:14 PM
Congratulations!!!!!!I don't use cards but I do have general intuition. Plus, I have been pregnant about 3 times. I would invest in the car, you will want to have something dependable for your baby. Although it may leave you feeling like doing less or having less is taking away from you and what you want to give your baby. The essentials are what I have learned that kids really want and need. Food, love, protection, comfort, spend time with them. All the other stuff will come in time.
As far as your boyfriend or guy, talk to him about it. I am thinking he is going to be proposing soon anyway. Not 100% but I get a feeling he is going to want to be more serious about things with you. IP: Logged |
blessed39 Knowflake Posts: 1207 From: Registered: Feb 2012
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posted July 08, 2017 04:16 PM
quote: Originally posted by intuitivefish: Congratulations!!!
Thank you!!!! IP: Logged |
blessed39 Knowflake Posts: 1207 From: Registered: Feb 2012
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posted July 08, 2017 04:21 PM
quote: Originally posted by colorful butterfly: Congratulations!!!!!!I don't use cards but I do have general intuition. Plus, I have been pregnant about 3 times. I would invest in the car, you will want to have something dependable for your baby. Although it may leave you feeling like doing less or having less is taking away from you and what you want to give your baby. The essentials are what I have learned that kids really want and need. Food, love, protection, comfort, spend time with them. All the other stuff will come in time.
As far as your boyfriend or guy, talk to him about it. I am thinking he is going to be proposing soon anyway. Not 100% but I get a feeling he is going to want to be more serious about things with you.
Thank you for this! I am definitely going to be getting a new car at some point, SOON. Lol. I am just a bit conflicted about this specific car because the interest rate is a little higher than I want. BUT overall it's a great car at a great price. It's just a significant added expense. I can handle it, but sesh... He better want to be more serious with me! LOL. I am totally joking. Lol. Seriously, I would never want to get married for the sole reason of me being pregnant. However, I would like to be a family. A happy family. IP: Logged |
EmpressMendez Moderator Posts: 382 From: Registered: Oct 2016
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posted July 08, 2017 04:47 PM
Aww, congrats! ------------------ “So whatever you wish that others would do to you, do also to them, for this is the Law and the Prophets." ------------------ "Anyone who stops learning is old, whether at twenty or eighty. Anyone who keeps learning stays young. The greatest thing in life is to keep your mind young." - Henry Ford Copyright 2003. Do not gossip about me at all whether online, or off. ReadingsbyAzul.com
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blessed39 Knowflake Posts: 1207 From: Registered: Feb 2012
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posted July 08, 2017 04:56 PM
quote: Originally posted by EmpressMendez: Aww, congrats!
Thank you!!! IP: Logged |
blessed39 Knowflake Posts: 1207 From: Registered: Feb 2012
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posted July 08, 2017 06:21 PM
Seeeeesh! The car dealership is really raising my anxiety. Lol. Ugh. I still have not heard back about financing. I thought they are typically knocking down people's doors to get them to buy a car. What in the world!?!?IP: Logged |
missblyss Knowflake Posts: 1306 From: Registered: May 2016
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posted July 08, 2017 08:42 PM
YAY! We are pregnant at the same time! And don't worry about not being married, marriage doesn't mean a whole lot lol!I was married to my ex when my baby girl was born, we are now divorced and he isn't even involved at all.. My LMP was Feb 15th. My anniversary is Feb 14th.. And I am almost 5 months pregnant now!!! Couldn't be happier or more in love. So, from my experience, don't worry too much about the marriage. Anyways, about the car.. I am not getting a good feeling from the current car. I would be a bit more patient. It feels to me this one may cause more stress than it's worth. You will KNOW when you find a car that is a good deal for you, and you will be so sure you won't need to ask. IP: Logged |
blessed39 Knowflake Posts: 1207 From: Registered: Feb 2012
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posted July 08, 2017 08:52 PM
quote: Originally posted by missblyss: YAY! We are pregnant at the same time! And don't worry about not being married, marriage doesn't mean a whole lot lol!I was married to my ex when my baby girl was born, we are now divorced and he isn't even involved at all.. My LMP was Feb 15th. My anniversary is Feb 14th.. And I am almost 5 months pregnant now!!! Couldn't be happier or more in love. So, from my experience, don't worry too much about the marriage. Anyways, about the car.. I am not getting a good feeling from the current car. I would be a bit more patient. It feels to me this one may cause more stress than it's worth. You will KNOW when you find a car that is a good deal for you, and you will be so sure you won't need to ask.
Thank you so so so so MUCH!!!! This really resonated. And congrats on your bundle of LOVE!!! IP: Logged |
mirage29 Knowflake Posts: 7886 From: us Registered: May 2012
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posted July 08, 2017 09:33 PM
Blessed39!! WOW... How Wonderful! Congratulations! Adding to car advice-- It's better when you have a 4-door, than dealing with trying to manage babyseats and boosters in 2-door models. Make good air-conditioning a must. And..... Missblyss!! You're 5 months along??? Wowwww. Congratulations. Will we celebrate an LL Christmas Baby? or Thanksgiving-Gobbler? ... IP: Logged |
blessed39 Knowflake Posts: 1207 From: Registered: Feb 2012
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posted July 08, 2017 09:45 PM
quote: Originally posted by mirage29: Blessed39!! WOW... How Wonderful! Congratulations! Adding to car advice-- It's better when you have a 4-door, than dealing with trying to manage babyseats and boosters in 2-door models. Make good air-conditioning a must. And..... Missblyss!! You're 5 months along??? Wowwww. Congratulations. Will we celebrate an LL Christmas Baby? or Thanksgiving-Gobbler? ...
Thank you!! Yes, you are absolutely right! I am looking at small"ish" SUV's. Lol. Yes, Missblyss will have a Thanksgiving baby!! So exciting! I will have more of a St. Patty's Day baby. Lol. I am still very early in my journey. IP: Logged |
blessed39 Knowflake Posts: 1207 From: Registered: Feb 2012
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posted July 08, 2017 09:47 PM
quote: Originally posted by mirage29: Blessed39!! WOW... How Wonderful! Congratulations! Adding to car advice-- It's better when you have a 4-door, than dealing with trying to manage babyseats and boosters in 2-door models. Make good air-conditioning a must. And..... Missblyss!! You're 5 months along??? Wowwww. Congratulations. Will we celebrate an LL Christmas Baby? or Thanksgiving-Gobbler? ...
Thank you!! Yes, you are absolutely right! I am looking at small"ish" SUV's. Lol. Yes, Missblyss will have a Thanksgiving baby!! So exciting! I will have more of a St. Patty's Day baby. Lol. I am still very early in my journey. IP: Logged |
missblyss Knowflake Posts: 1306 From: Registered: May 2016
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posted July 08, 2017 10:26 PM
quote: Originally posted by blessed39: Thank you!! Yes, you are absolutely right! I am looking at small"ish" SUV's. Lol. Yes, Missblyss will have a Thanksgiving baby!! So exciting! I will have more of a St. Patty's Day baby. Lol. I am still very early in my journey.
aww well congratulations! such an exciting time!
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blessed39 Knowflake Posts: 1207 From: Registered: Feb 2012
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posted July 09, 2017 09:18 AM
quote: Originally posted by missblyss: aww well congratulations! such an exciting time!
It most definitely is! IP: Logged |
blessed39 Knowflake Posts: 1207 From: Registered: Feb 2012
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posted July 10, 2017 09:48 PM
Hmmmm... I'm definitely thinking the car is not meant to be. I'm getting major push back with the financing department. I'm a little disappointed, but this just means there is something better out there for me if this doesn't work out. IP: Logged |