posted July 19, 2017 03:44 AM            

So 3 of cups/6 of wands/Magician/Wheel

Cards show that he has a very good feeling for you, but maybe he doesn't yet project a real commitment with you at the moment. He could be like wanting to enjoy with pleasure your presence in a pleasant and light but without involvement (fwb?). But it seems that the energy will go up and that he will really feel in him that he really likes to be with you. He may think you are truly an amazing, exciting person for him.
I wonder if he is represented in this reading by the Magician..If ​​you think yes, he may leave you skeptical because he can present himself as a person who has selfish and somewhat immature behavior. If not, I think that the feeling he has for you at this moment could evolve into something more romantic because you can create in him a motivating energetic spark. You can make him feel like being interesting and you are a positive force in his life. Wheel may indicate a kind of karmic feeling. Magician and Wheel may indicate that you may believe that you will be able to find what you want from this situation with him. Take the time to discover, stay yourself what you are, as you are when your worries are far away ..

posted July 19, 2017 10:49 AM            

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Originally posted by aquavelvet:
Hi Harmonic,
I see some detachments and avoidance. It could be something that didn't meet the expectations. It's likely that his desire didn't fulfilled as it was expected. I see something beyond your control / influence that can cause to some change. Keep yourself cool, remain calm if i may say. I still see you'll get out of it strong.

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posted July 19, 2017 02:59 PM            

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Originally posted by harmonicvibes:

What do you mean his desire isnt fullfilled as expected? Like he saw me is around me and physically he usnt satisfied or something? I will get out of what strong? Like out if here like leave Ohio?

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posted July 19, 2017 10:57 PM            

So Harmonic, If i need to be blunt then i'm sorry to say that yes i see there's something regarding his preferences in how he sees women that didn't quite matched his expectations. But i don't really want to dig much deeper on that part, because as i mentioned above it's only something superficial, shallow even silly. Not worth you focus. I'd just let him mind that business alone. I hope that now you safe your energy, emotions and focus onto what's coming next rather than thinking too much about this part.

But that's not the only case that i see. And this one is probably worth to consider more. I see that he's overwhelmed. By thoughts and emotions, which then made him feels like he needs to retreat. But again, now the question is : Do you think it is cool for him doing that, leaving you confused by his strange behaviour & detachment after all your effort to come there and all?

Harmonic, your guts telling you reasonable thing. Even way before you came to Ohio. I felt it from the very first time we talked about him.

Yes the attraction is still there despite his failed expectations, yes he has some feelings for you. But he still needs to sort and figure out things himself first to really make this interaction with you better.
And again, dear, it's beyond your control.

Sometimes things just didn't go as how we expected to. It's your choice to stay and still there with that kind of situation or move on and leave, there are better things for you out there i see.

Also i see that this confusing phase will pass quickly, but if you do still choose to stick with him, i still see some more challenges ahead in the near future. Either way you will still be ok, and even personally stronger than before.

posted July 19, 2017 11:02 PM            

We had been done intimacy before, I think I've always looked the same 😕😕 unless I got more unattractive or something...I guess I just shouldn't have came here I'm so stupid.

posted July 20, 2017 12:13 AM            

But I'm super confused sad lonely not sure what to do

posted July 20, 2017 12:34 AM            

Does he see me as just a friend who can help him and he can help me vice versa nothing else??

posted July 20, 2017 01:58 AM            

But if you still want to stay, that's possible too. But there will be more challenge there. I'm sure you can get through it and handle it tho. But i just see more stresses between you both for some reasons.