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posted July 23, 2017 01:04 PM            

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you there girl? id love to exchange if you could

soooo I am having all these nerves. We just got up to our new place. I basically chose it and really pushed to move here.. (we had never visited). We've just been here less than a day, but I am nervous that we will all like it.

just having lots of anxiety that everyone will hate it here and that now we're trapped into a lease. i even had to move my boyfriends job, so we don't have the option to move for a year!

i think that my partner REALLY liked the city we were in before here. (it was in central oregon). I am just unsure if we're gonna end up loving it.

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posted July 23, 2017 01:42 PM            

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Hi

You will not love it instantly so this feeling you have might go on for a little while. Not too long though.
The transition to me feels like an easing into, so to me it doesnt feel like quick changes but your partner will be there for you, he wont give up and he knows he will get used to it faster than you so he will be there as support.
Here I feel like within 2-3 months, you will feel more at home and will see that your life can be there, the apartment will be good, you will need to bring all the details to it the way you like to make it more homey.
I feel it will be fine, so the worries are natural especially with your state but it will get better.

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posted July 23, 2017 01:44 PM            

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My Q is

Do you see A still living abroad and staying there or do you see him move back ?

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posted July 23, 2017 06:26 PM            

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I see him wanting to go abroad, but not being able to make it happen for quite some time. it definitely doesn't feel like anytime soon to me that he'd be able to make it happen.

wanna do any more?

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posted July 23, 2017 06:51 PM            

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he LIVES abroad. so this is totally off and not even what I asked.

I asked if he will STAY living abroad or come back here where I live.

no thanks, now , no effort was even given to read my question properly while I gave effort to write a paragraph for you

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posted July 23, 2017 06:53 PM            

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Originally posted by intuitivefish:
he LIVES abroad. so this is totally off and not even what I asked.

I asked if he will STAY living abroad or come back here where I live.

no thanks, now , no effort was even given to read my question properly while I gave effort to write a paragraph for you

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i definitely did give effort, i'm sorry i just mixed up the words. what i felt was him NOT moving, being stuck where he is for some bit, so it is the same but just backwards. i didn't intend to read it wrong, i just flipped some words on accident.

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posted July 23, 2017 07:02 PM            

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ok
i am still not up for more exchanges now

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