posted August 01, 2017 02:35 PM            

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Originally posted by intuitivefish:
What are your Qs?

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hey girl

just about to leave here in the next few min, but what I am wondering is about my daughter's biological dad. he reached out and is trying to come up here to do therapy with her. if he does end up coming, do you feel he will do this consistently or should I expect him to drop away like he usually does? it's hard to imagine him being able to put in the effort to actually get visits with her.

posted August 01, 2017 03:24 PM            

On daughter's dad,
he will try at the beginning, he will want to and I feel like there is a will in him wanting to be good, so there is want in him to do good. I feel like he does see he is not a good dad at all. But I feel like this want in him, kind of stays only want. He will again get distracted and I feel like he just does not follow through and then he gets fed up of failing and not doing right and gives up. So sorry but I dont feel him keeping this a constant but going back to old ways of not being present.

His intentions,
Like I wrote above, he wants to do good, but he has a huge problem in turning what he wants to do into real action. He misses the will power in him and I feel like the more time passes the harder it is on him to do the right thing. So even though I do feel right intentions in him I feel a lack of doing them and then just feeling stuck thinking whatever he will do will not be enough.

My Qs,

- yesterday was A's bday, and after nearly 2 months of no contact I decided to send him a bday text.
Even though on FB messenger it shows as not delivered, because we are not friends on fb, he could have read in on preview or something. But I cannot be sure he saw it.
anyway, my question is, why did he not reply to me?

posted August 01, 2017 06:21 PM            

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Originally posted by intuitivefish:
Hope your appointment goes well.
I've been awfully depressed. ugh.

On daughter's dad,
he will try at the beginning, he will want to and I feel like there is a will in him wanting to be good, so there is want in him to do good. I feel like he does see he is not a good dad at all. But I feel like this want in him, kind of stays only want. He will again get distracted and I feel like he just does not follow through and then he gets fed up of failing and not doing right and gives up. So sorry but I dont feel him keeping this a constant but going back to old ways of not being present.

His intentions,
Like I wrote above, he wants to do good, but he has a huge problem in turning what he wants to do into real action. He misses the will power in him and I feel like the more time passes the harder it is on him to do the right thing. So even though I do feel right intentions in him I feel a lack of doing them and then just feeling stuck thinking whatever he will do will not be enough.

My Qs,

- yesterday was A's bday, and after nearly 2 months of no contact I decided to send him a bday text.
Even though on FB messenger it shows as not delivered, because we are not friends on fb, he could have read in on preview or something. But I cannot be sure he saw it.
anyway, my question is, why did he not reply to me?

- my other question is, will he reply to it, at any time soon, like within a week or so?

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I am getting that the reason he didn't answer is because he is busy, it feels he's really busy and actually feeling slightly overwhelmed with it all. I do think he saw it though, but I don't feel him not responding was bc of anything to do with you personally but more with not dealing with responding to a message right now. I don't feel that he is ignoring you or anything.

posted August 01, 2017 08:32 PM            

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Originally posted by intuitivefish:
Thank you

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posted August 02, 2017 12:02 AM            

My question is: what is going on between IC and YM? Is there anything romantic?

posted August 02, 2017 03:14 AM            

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Originally posted by missblyss:
did that resonate for you? do you have any more questions for me?

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