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Topic: fishy
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missblyss Knowflake Posts: 1371 From: Registered: May 2016
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posted August 04, 2017 10:08 PM
would you be interested to exchange?IP: Logged |
missblyss Knowflake Posts: 1371 From: Registered: May 2016
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posted August 04, 2017 11:53 PM
what I am concerned with is my partner seems to be having a lot of mental/ emotional blocks with working... lots of frustrations coming up and i'm starting to get concerned whether or not he is gonna pull it together.not sure if i just need to give him some time.. or if i should go out and get a job myself. we are living on credit cards right now and i'm almost 6 months pregnant. today was his first day being able to work in almost 3 weeks and he complained so much.. and he wasn't even working more than a regular full time job. IP: Logged |
intuitivefish Knowflake Posts: 8988 From: Europe Registered: Aug 2014
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posted August 05, 2017 02:37 AM
I feel if you let him be it will get worse. He isnt used to having to provide for someone and I feel he needs to realize this fast. It should take a good talk with him to wake him up. No blame amd pointing fingers talk just something so he sees he has to wake up. I also feel telling him you will get a job at one point too will give him support it is not all on his back.My Q is, why did A make his profile more private and delete some pics. I saw he deleted one with her in "featured" photos. IP: Logged |
missblyss Knowflake Posts: 1371 From: Registered: May 2016
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posted August 05, 2017 11:45 PM
quote: Originally posted by intuitivefish: I feel if you let him be it will get worse. He isnt used to having to provide for someone and I feel he needs to realize this fast. It should take a good talk with him to wake him up. No blame amd pointing fingers talk just something so he sees he has to wake up. I also feel telling him you will get a job at one point too will give him support it is not all on his back.My Q is, why did A make his profile more private and delete some pics. I saw he deleted one with her in "featured" photos.
hey girl sorry for the late response! I posted that late and fell asleep and have been out all day, but as far as why A did that... I am seeing that he did it in anger. I don't feel it super being related to an event, nothing is sticking out in terms of that, but I do feel him deleting thing with an angry energy, wanting them to be gone. I don't feel it to be related to her though (the anger). IP: Logged |
intuitivefish Knowflake Posts: 8988 From: Europe Registered: Aug 2014
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posted August 06, 2017 02:57 AM
Thank you. But how did he not delete her pic in anger if it was done in angerIP: Logged |
intuitivefish Knowflake Posts: 8988 From: Europe Registered: Aug 2014
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posted August 06, 2017 04:34 AM
would you want to do another?I am curious what or who he was angry at or what or where the angry energy came from? Hoping it is not related to me IP: Logged |
intuitivefish Knowflake Posts: 8988 From: Europe Registered: Aug 2014
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posted August 07, 2017 09:58 AM
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missblyss Knowflake Posts: 1371 From: Registered: May 2016
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posted August 07, 2017 04:10 PM
hey so i don't feel the anger as being directed about you.. it isn't even something that i feel connected strongly to one specific event or person. he just feels frustrated, grumpy, and really just angry and that is the energy i see him doing the deleting with. the anger feels more general, he is frustrated with his life. frustrated with his day to day reality. IP: Logged |
intuitivefish Knowflake Posts: 8988 From: Europe Registered: Aug 2014
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posted August 07, 2017 06:29 PM
Thanks mAkes more senseIP: Logged |
missblyss Knowflake Posts: 1371 From: Registered: May 2016
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posted August 07, 2017 07:07 PM
yeah no worries, do you mind if i ask one?IP: Logged |
missblyss Knowflake Posts: 1371 From: Registered: May 2016
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posted August 07, 2017 08:46 PM
I'm just still unsure what to do with my boyfriend...we had a talk and all seems well. But he is very moody (scorpio) and everytime he works he like will complain and rest and lay on the floor for like 10 hours afterwards... It doesn't seem normal to me. I don't know what to do with him. Why is he so tired all the time? Will he ever get the hang of this? I am 6 months pregnant now and honestly wondering if I should just work bc I am sick of dealing with his constant negativity. IP: Logged |
intuitivefish Knowflake Posts: 8988 From: Europe Registered: Aug 2014
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posted August 08, 2017 12:56 PM
Hisorry to say but I feel like he is not used to pulling the weight. I feel like he needs to see that this is what is waiting for him. But I also feel like he is afraid that he is now stuck in this mode of working a lot. I just feel like to him he feels overwhelmed and that he is unsure if this is waiting for him in his life. So I feel like the tired feeling is backed up with fear. He will need a good talking to him to help him understand your plans which is only way he will get a hang of this. IP: Logged |
Orange Knowflake Posts: 6798 From: Georgia Registered: May 2009
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posted August 08, 2017 01:05 PM
quote: Originally posted by missblyss: I'm just still unsure what to do with my boyfriend...we had a talk and all seems well. But he is very moody (scorpio) and everytime he works he like will complain and rest and lay on the floor for like 10 hours afterwards... It doesn't seem normal to me. I don't know what to do with him. Why is he so tired all the time? Will he ever get the hang of this? I am 6 months pregnant now and honestly wondering if I should just work bc I am sick of dealing with his constant negativity.
hey missy, sorry to butt in but wanted to say that i was married to a double Scorpio for long years and thats how they usually are. Constant negativity which was very difficult for my Pisces Rising as I am an empath and soak in other people's energy like a sponge. The good side of it is that because of Scorpios incessant negativity - when things hit a rough spot, like when I got panicked with anxiety because of some issue, he became the coolest person in the world and I could entirely lean on him and unload all the problems on his shoulders, he didnt mind it and he tackled problems easily. It seemed that he thrived under pressure and when things were tough because that was his world. Then I felt blessed that I had him in my life but after the problem was resolved, we would go back to normal where I was the happy go lucky one and he would go back to his depressive levels , and it was like that for years...he also would lay in bed for hours after work and had no energy to do anything else or go out and enjoy life. He hated regular job and always had his own business deals. It doesnt get better, i can tell you this..but then again, maybe yours will...its just that Scorpios are notorious depressants it seems. IP: Logged |
missblyss Knowflake Posts: 1371 From: Registered: May 2016
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posted August 08, 2017 03:40 PM
thanks to the both of you!he is honestly the most unscorpionic scorpio i've ever come across. he's on the cusp of libra, and honestly comes off as more of a pisces... that would 100% be my guess. His moon is in gemini with a leo rising, but **** , i see the scorpio side with work matters. that is honestly the only time I've seen it, otherwise he has been really incredible. i can get moody myself, (my venus is in the 8th) especially with love stuff.. so i get it. but it is so damn hard when we are having a family and i need him to work!! like, i didnt even see this side of him before he started working. IP: Logged |