posted August 09, 2017 07:04 PM            

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Originally posted by lilypad18:
I can

will I have some kind of contact with my ex this month?

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posted August 09, 2017 07:12 PM            

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Originally posted by lilypad18:
sure! He is HAC and I'm CS

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posted August 09, 2017 07:14 PM            

i think you may know that my daughter's dad is a hot-head and kinda psycho. he is supposed to come to a therapist appointment in my city just a few days prior to the eclipse. he thinks that we are going to be there, but we aren't. the therapist advised us it isn't appropriate to meet him face to face yet, but he is just ill-informed and bc of my protective order i am not going to be the one to tell him.

i am wondering, do you see some big explosion coming from him?

posted August 09, 2017 08:55 PM            

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Originally posted by Orange:
i wanna

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let's do it girl!

posted August 09, 2017 10:35 PM            

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Originally posted by Orange:
ok, let me see

for me - I am supposedly soon moving into a new apartment and I feel itchy about the changes in my life. I generally don't react well on changes at the beginning. How do you see me feeling in the next month or two, am I going to like the new place?

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Hey girl, so what I am seeing is that you are really actually going to love the new place. It feels more suited to what you need and who you are now. I do feel this hesitant energy at first bc it's a big move and there is some pressure that it will work out and that pressure breeds stress, but really that has nothing to do with you actually enjoying the new place and is actually more to just do with you wanting to know you've made the right choice and being nervous if you haven't.

I think you can sort of make the transition smoother by processing through and intentionally releasing those feelings prior to the move. Let the doubts leave you and know that you have made an appropriate next step and that it is in your highest interest. This way, if any small issues pop up they won't trigger your doubts that it may have been a bad choice!

As far as my question, it's pretty confusing. So my daughter and I haven't seen her dad in over a year, since he tried to kidnap her. He has to do therapy before he gets supervised visits. Eventually she will join the therapy, but the first couple visits will just be him. He is always ill informed, so based on what he's told me I think he believes that he is going to get to see our daughter. (Basically he asked me if that date would work for us and if we had time to go that day.) I called the therapist and she told me the appointment was just for him. So yes he is flying up here and spending all the money and he won't be seeing our daughter. However, it's not my duty to tell him bc we aren't even supposed to talk (protective order) and he can figure it out himself. But knowing him, I feel like he may lose his **** when he gets here and realizes he can't see her!

posted August 10, 2017 12:05 AM            

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Originally posted by Orange:
about your question...I am surprised that I do not see anger in the cards . I see worries in the beginning, fears...but then i dont see anger. I am starting to wonder if he will show up at all, if he will ocome for this therapy session, because i do not see any tension in the spread. I actually see you happy and content at the end. hhmmm. Or maybe the therapy will work miraculously and will calm him down during the process...

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thanks girl! I will be sure to update there is a chance he doesn't make it, i suppose.. wouldn't be too surprising!