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ProxyxBlue
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posted August 10, 2017 04:24 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for ProxyxBlue     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I didn't want to respond back with this in her thread, so i made a new one. I wanted to update you with my progress with keeping my distance towards my ex. I sorta broke that rule today and all because of a baby raccoon, lol. Sounds weird, haha, but near my job there is a lost baby raccoon roaming the same area. Today I saw it and recorded it and went to go show my ex. He got really excited about it and came with me to go see it, lol. That broke the silence I had been trying to keep and I spoke a little bit more, but kept things straight and didn't smile as much and kept my voice normal (I normally have a higher pitch when talking to him). I even asked about if he would still want to hang out next week and he said yeah and that it will have to be sometime in the middle of the week. I don't plan on bringing it up again though to see if he will, so I'll see and report back lol.

Anyways that's all I wanted to say to you (and to anyone else reading that knows a bit of my story lol)

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areesquivel
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posted August 10, 2017 04:39 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for areesquivel     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Aaaaw! seriously that sounds like me, I too have a higher pitch when talking to my guy, that's good don't you think? I think its nice that you broke that rule because if you want things to move forward you shouldn't be doing something you don't want, you want to be closer to him and talk to him, so no rules.
I was thinking about yesterday cause I spoke to a friend about my guy and the first thing he said was "DON'T CALL HIM" in my head I was thinking why?! I want to know about him.

Yes we wen't crazy over the Full Moon and said things not anticipating their response and ignore they have issues on their own. I broke the silence too, I decided to call him and see how he was doing, asked him about it bluntly and his response was that he's been stressing over money because his son is about to enter a private school and just work issues, then I realized maybe I'm going crazy over nothing, maybe things are moving forward in a pretty slow way but moving! that's what I want for now.

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posted August 10, 2017 06:43 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for ProxyxBlue     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by areesquivel:
Aaaaw! seriously that sounds like me, I too have a higher pitch when talking to my guy, that's good don't you think? I think its nice that you broke that rule because if you want things to move forward you shouldn't be doing something you don't want, you want to be closer to him and talk to him, so no rules.
I was thinking about yesterday cause I spoke to a friend about my guy and the first thing he said was "DON'T CALL HIM" in my head I was thinking why?! I want to know about him.

Yes we wen't crazy over the Full Moon and said things not anticipating their response and ignore they have issues on their own. I broke the silence too, I decided to call him and see how he was doing, asked him about it bluntly and his response was that he's been stressing over money because his son is about to enter a private school and just work issues, then I realized maybe I'm going crazy over nothing, maybe things are moving forward in a pretty slow way but moving! that's what I want for now.



Yeah, I've read somewhere that a girl's voice can become slightly higher pitched when talking to the guy they like. I remember once I was trying to use my natural speaking voice with him and he gave me a weird look and said, "Why are you talking like that? Are you okay?" and I told him that it's my normal voice and he was like, "No it isn't" lol, when I told him it was and explained to him why my voice is higher to him, he told me that he preferred the higher pitch more, haha. For my ex, I do have to create some type of distance so I won't overwhelm him with my clingy behavior, lol. Just so he can have the space that he needs and it would allow him to initiate with me on his own, which he did do today but it was about work lol. I was the one that just broke it to talk about personal stuff.

When a guy says "don't call him" to their female friends, it's probably best to take it into consideration since they would know best from the male perspective. Of course, all men are different lol and I can understand not wanting to follow that advice and do what you think is best (which may turn out to be the better choice)

At least things are moving forward and he explained to you what was bothering him lately. Stress over money seems to be an issue for a lot of people lately (including myself, which is extremely irksome). You'll get what you want for sure, just try not too focus on it too much. By focusing on it, you may be putting it out into the universe that you don't have want you want which would cause you to continue feeling as if you don't have it. By letting go and focusing your thoughts elsewhere, you'll soon discover things will move faster. That's something I need to do myself because I have been focusing so much on my ex and not enough on myself. I need more self-love if I want to move forward with anything, lol. I believe if my ex notices a change then things would change between us (as he stated this to me earlier this week).

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areesquivel
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posted August 10, 2017 07:40 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for areesquivel     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Lol, I guess they do prefer the higher pitch voice cause they know we only do that with them. I understand and you know what I have to do that too, create some space just to let him breath, my situation of course is different because we live in different cities but can't be all clingy over the phone when I know he has some issues.

I thought about that too lol, but that particular friend is the one who doesn't like relationships and only date girls for sex and never call back, that kind of friend I always say that I would never date him, though I do appreciate the male point of view that's why I asked.

You just gave me the greatest advice.

"Just try not too focus on it too much. By focusing on it, you may be putting it out into the universe that you don't have want you want which would cause you to continue feeling as if you don't have it. By letting go and focusing your thoughts elsewhere, you'll soon discover things will move faster".

Thank you for this, you're totally right, I should be focussing on myself too, I need to go back to my Yoga classes and run in the mornings, I discover since my natal chart is mostly water I need to ground myself with "earth" things to do, which for me is exercise. THANK YOU!

Same goes to you! you'll get wat you want, the fact that you know you should work on yourself and first of all realizing you need to love yourself more, is the greatest and a huge step, I know it by theory and now I need to put effort on it. I'm firm believer that we attract what we vibe, and if we vibe that low energy we are attracting exactly that, if we want healthy relationships we need to be healthy ourselves.

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areesquivel
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posted August 11, 2017 01:00 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for areesquivel     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I really really need to give this guy some space, I swear each time I call him I can feel him being so frustrated and I know his frustration is with things happening with him and last thing he needs is me being needy.

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