posted September 03, 2017 02:47 AM            

I wanted to know about my love life, if I'm going to meet someone, mostly what I want to know is if there is a chance of having a serious romantic relationship between this year and next one? I know is a very specific question and I don't know how is this kind of things but I'm very curious. Right now, since January I have nothing in that 'area'. I liked a guy, D, but I think he is not interested in me in the same way as I do. Now I know about a new guy, T, but I don't know if I should make the first move or not.

Well, I hope someone can help me but if nobody wants to do it, it's ok. I will not get mad or anything. Just trying to get any help without wanting something in return.

I've been daydreaming about having a real relationship since 2015 and nothing happened yet. I've only dated guys and nothing was serious, and I don't like that because I want commitment.

posted September 04, 2017 02:27 PM            

Even if there's a stellium in a house, one must also consider the "state" of the house ruler in aspect to, say, Venus and/or Mars. For example,the rulers of the 7th house, on which let's say Aquarius is on the cusp, are Saturn & Uranus. Then you find that in terms of aspect, Venus is conjuncting Saturn while Mercury is squaring Uranus. The first aspect hints at emotional constriction and perhaps an inability to "get up close," while the second aspect may suggest friction through words spoken in haste. Those are just examples. I wish I could see your chart so I could comment further.

Two things are for sure, though: 1. Just because the 5th and/or 7th houses are tenanted does not automatically mean that a romance is on the way. Like I said, we must use house rulerships as well. 2.Corollary to this, just because some houses are empty does not mean that "nothing" is happening in that life area.

posted September 04, 2017 05:15 PM            

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Originally posted by colorful butterfly:
On an intuitive grasp and I can be hit or miss with this, yes I think that there will be someone coming into your life during this yr or next. The first feeling I got was shortly so I would think early part of next yr but it won't seem as serious as you are looking for. This one I do get a sense that it will come with time the type of relation you are looking for. Be honest upfront as to what you are looking for is a must and allow room for growth.

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posted September 04, 2017 05:18 PM            

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Originally posted by Blessings&Light:
Hi,

Even if there's a stellium in a house, one must also consider the "state" of the house ruler in aspect to, say, Venus and/or Mars. For example,the rulers of the 7th house, on which let's say Aquarius is on the cusp, are Saturn & Uranus. Then you find that in terms of aspect, Venus is conjuncting Saturn while Mercury is squaring Uranus. The first aspect hints at emotional constriction and perhaps an inability to "get up close," while the second aspect may suggest friction through words spoken in haste. Those are just examples. I wish I could see your chart so I could comment further.

Two things are for sure, though: 1. Just because the 5th and/or 7th houses are tenanted does not automatically mean that a romance is on the way. Like I said, we must use house rulerships as well. 2.Corollary to this, just because some houses are empty does not mean that "nothing" is happening in that life area.

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Thank you!!

[img]https://i.imgur.com/dSZiF4U.gif[/img]

I'm not sure why the chart doesn't show up., here is: https://imgur.com/dSZiF4U . Hope you can see it.

posted September 04, 2017 10:47 PM            

I was able to view your chart somehow. As far as I can tell, SR Mars is sextile natal Venus and SR Venus is trine natal Mars on the IC. These aspects generally bode well for matters of the heart: both active passion and passive attraction are in store for you.

Now in terms of house rulership, it appears that Scorpio is the sign on your 7th house. So let's look at the condition of its co-rulers, Mars and Pluto. Basically one of your natal aspects is Venus opposition Mars, indicating some doubts about how you come across to others. This in turn may affect how confident you feel about relationships. The bigger piece is that your natal Mars trines natal Jupiter, so once you spring into positive action, unusually good luck follows you.

Your natal Pluto forms harmonious aspects with several planets, so these are the potentials you're already born with.

In the context of relationships vis-a-vis your solar return chart, the planetary emphasis is on your solar 11th house. I'm getting the hint that this person is someone already known to you as a good friend. The timing? Watch your own chart (by transit, SR, etc.), especially when a planet hits a sensitive point like your ASC or DSC, and especially if it makes an aspect with a natal planet.

For example, your SR Mars conjoins your ASC in approx 6 months. It will then be squaring your natal Venus, not that a square aspect is always "difficult." It may simply mean "challenges," and life would be boring without them, wouldn't it?

May you find what you seek for your highest good. Others do say that love is what happens to you when you least expect it. So fill your heart with love for yourself and for the sea of humanity in general. (Pisces natives do this best.) The love in your heart will be like a beacon of light calling the attention of the one who will eventually claim you for his own. Let your lovelight shine and watch the miracle happen soon.Heartfelt blessings and light to you!

posted September 17, 2017 09:35 AM            

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Originally posted by Blessings&Light:
Hi MilaBirkin,

I was able to view your chart somehow. As far as I can tell, SR Mars is sextile natal Venus and SR Venus is trine natal Mars on the IC. These aspects generally bode well for matters of the heart: both active passion and passive attraction are in store for you.

Now in terms of house rulership, it appears that Scorpio is the sign on your 7th house. So let's look at the condition of its co-rulers, Mars and Pluto. Basically one of your natal aspects is Venus opposition Mars, indicating some doubts about how you come across to others. This in turn may affect how confident you feel about relationships. The bigger piece is that your natal Mars trines natal Jupiter, so once you spring into positive action, unusually good luck follows you.

Your natal Pluto forms harmonious aspects with several planets, so these are the potentials you're already born with.

In the context of relationships vis-a-vis your solar return chart, the planetary emphasis is on your solar 11th house. I'm getting the hint that this person is someone already known to you as a good friend. The timing? Watch your own chart (by transit, SR, etc.), especially when a planet hits a sensitive point like your ASC or DSC, and especially if it makes an aspect with a natal planet.

For example, your SR Mars conjoins your ASC in approx 6 months. It will then be squaring your natal Venus, not that a square aspect is always "difficult." It may simply mean "challenges," and life would be boring without them, wouldn't it?

May you find what you seek for your highest good. Others do say that love is what happens to you when you least expect it. So fill your heart with love for yourself and for the sea of humanity in general. (Pisces natives do this best.) The love in your heart will be like a beacon of light calling the attention of the one who will eventually claim you for his own. Let your lovelight shine and watch the miracle happen soon.Heartfelt blessings and light to you!

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