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Topic: Urgent: pls guide me
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ScarlettO'Hara Knowflake Posts: 340 From: Registered: Dec 2013
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posted September 21, 2017 03:20 AM
Hi plz help me, guide me with the situation I am dealing with A! Plz I am tired of all confusion and emotional and mental torture... IP: Logged |
furrybunny Knowflake Posts: 2451 From: NY Registered: Dec 2014
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posted September 21, 2017 09:54 AM
do you have a specific question in mind?IP: Logged |
ScarlettO'Hara Knowflake Posts: 340 From: Registered: Dec 2013
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posted September 21, 2017 02:02 PM
What is happening between us actually?And advice on what my actions should be? IP: Logged |
furrybunny Knowflake Posts: 2451 From: NY Registered: Dec 2014
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posted September 22, 2017 09:48 AM
So just saw this today . I'm sorry you have to go through this. But I know you'll get through it! 💕 I believe a is actually trying to move on from you and is going through serveral changes. Is he 40-50 years old? If so I actually get the feeling he might be going through a midlife crisis. If not he's just really wanting / needing a change. Hes careless and inconsiderate when he interacts with you and I feel like he doesn't care if it hurts your feelings . He doesn't really even see you at times . You're just something to take his anger out on. I felt like this started after something fell apart in his life. Maybe a loss of job,large sum of money , person or a house?
Lmk if this is accurate / resonates. I don't want to go to into it if it's completely off.
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ScarlettO'Hara Knowflake Posts: 340 From: Registered: Dec 2013
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posted September 22, 2017 01:29 PM
Hi furrybunny... Yes it resonates. He isn't 40-50 years old, my age only. But everything else is right about the situation.How can I improve our situation? I mean make things better from my side for us? Plz advice. IP: Logged |
furrybunny Knowflake Posts: 2451 From: NY Registered: Dec 2014
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posted September 22, 2017 01:48 PM
So do u know what was the situation that set him off ? Loss of family money etc?IP: Logged |
ScarlettO'Hara Knowflake Posts: 340 From: Registered: Dec 2013
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posted September 22, 2017 01:53 PM
I don't know exactly... But he is emotionally detached and something happened in his family. He doesn't share on that. He doesn't like to talk about it... His past. But some tragedy in family.IP: Logged |