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Topic: Been MIA for some time, anyone wanna exch?
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intuitivefish Knowflake Posts: 9084 From: Europe Registered: Aug 2014
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posted September 26, 2017 09:43 AM
So if anyone wants to exchange with me, let me know your questionsIP: Logged |
Jazabel Knowflake Posts: 668 From: Registered: Apr 2013
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posted September 26, 2017 10:58 AM
Hey, youI can exchange a question if you want IP: Logged |
intuitivefish Knowflake Posts: 9084 From: Europe Registered: Aug 2014
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posted September 26, 2017 11:03 AM
Hi Jaz longtime.. and and this time around, I am believe it or not, asking about a new guy *shock*His initial is D a confusing slow moving guy so I need some assistance to figure things out. We were supposed to meet but he said he got sick.. so basically it has been communication for a long time.. I really wanna know, what this guy thinks of me.. if he has any romantic interest towards me.. Whatever you get of him towards me. Thanks! Brb IP: Logged |
Jazabel Knowflake Posts: 668 From: Registered: Apr 2013
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posted September 26, 2017 11:05 AM
Oh good I'm onto him BrbIP: Logged |
Jazabel Knowflake Posts: 668 From: Registered: Apr 2013
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posted September 26, 2017 11:07 AM
About my question IP: Logged |
intuitivefish Knowflake Posts: 9084 From: Europe Registered: Aug 2014
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posted September 26, 2017 11:13 AM
quote: Originally posted by Jazabel: Hey, youI can exchange a question if you want So me and M. again... We recently started talking again, he reached out after a few months of silence. But I wonder what's on his mind regarding us. He is reserved and I am cautious. So my question is what are his feelings and thoughts about us. Is he still hurt
I guess we are going through similar feelings.. For you, he did really miss you, I feel like he wanted to make things better as in he had a sort of mission to make things better with you as he felt that you were missing from his life. I dont feel he is angry with you, I feel a lot of reminiscing emotions, a lot of looking back and wanting the connection with you to work. So I feel like he does have intentions to make things work with you, to me it feels like he thinks it needs to work out this time around or that there wont be other tries. So there is a want in him to make an effort and I there is also regret in him. BUt this time around I feel determination in him also, more than before. IP: Logged |
Jazabel Knowflake Posts: 668 From: Registered: Apr 2013
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posted September 26, 2017 11:31 AM
Thank you. This is how I perceive M. too but i was wondering if I was mistaken in my perception. Thanks for confirming. It sounds wonderful about D. I see that he really wanted to meet you but there is an obstacle on the way (Bouquet + Mountain). Whether if it was a sickness or another reason behind the obstacle , I don't know but I decided to pull another card to clarify the mountain and it was the Anchor. So something got him anchored and unable to proceed . This could be the sickness he told you about or in some cases - the Anchor means he is taken, not single. Anchor in general means anything that might prevent one from moving. What I'm saying is that his cancelation is not based on feelings , it's not that he doesn't like you or anything like that. The communication with him will also become unclear, like you will question his motives a lot. I see a Stork in the middle which is a change for him. I see different types of women around him, I wonder if he tends to flirt. I see the Fox and the snake around him but the Stork in the middle shows that you feel different to him, it's like a completely different type to him. IP: Logged |
intuitivefish Knowflake Posts: 9084 From: Europe Registered: Aug 2014
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posted September 26, 2017 11:34 AM
Thanks.He is definitley single. He told me he got out of a long relationship. Yes Im sure he flirts he said he wants the freedom to do so now as he is not attached. He also meets a Loooot of young people through his work. I was more asking on his thoughts about me not why he did not meet me but its okay. You wanna do more? IP: Logged |
Jazabel Knowflake Posts: 668 From: Registered: Apr 2013
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posted September 26, 2017 05:40 PM
Yes one moreWhen will I see him, do you see a meeting soon or none IP: Logged |
intuitivefish Knowflake Posts: 9084 From: Europe Registered: Aug 2014
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posted September 26, 2017 05:43 PM
Mine is Why doesnt he initiate contact more ?Brb IP: Logged |
intuitivefish Knowflake Posts: 9084 From: Europe Registered: Aug 2014
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posted September 26, 2017 05:47 PM
quote: Originally posted by Jazabel: Yes one moreWhen will I see him, do you see a meeting soon or none
Within 2 weeks yes. For some time it wont be mentioned from either side. I feel 1 side fears rejection too much. But then later there will be talk of meeting up and then I feel like meet up might happen a little spontanious like Lets do it sort of thing not too much in advance. So yes I do feel you will be seeing him soon possibly very early Oct. IP: Logged |
missblyss Knowflake Posts: 1456 From: Registered: May 2016
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posted September 26, 2017 05:51 PM
hey fishy! was wondering where you'd gone! I can exchange IP: Logged |
intuitivefish Knowflake Posts: 9084 From: Europe Registered: Aug 2014
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posted September 26, 2017 05:52 PM
quote: Originally posted by missblyss: hey fishy! was wondering where you'd gone! I can exchange
Hi blyss Let me know your Q Mine is what does D (guy) think about me? IP: Logged |
Jazabel Knowflake Posts: 668 From: Registered: Apr 2013
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posted September 26, 2017 05:59 PM
Yes, sounds very very plausible, thank you, girl. Do you have a question for me ?IP: Logged |
missblyss Knowflake Posts: 1456 From: Registered: May 2016
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posted September 26, 2017 05:59 PM
quote: Originally posted by intuitivefish: Hi blyssLet me know your Q Mine is what does D (guy) think about me?
I feel his sight on you, he definitely notices you and is drawn to you. That being said, I feel this element of him telling himself "no". I get the feeling that he feels that you aren't interested in him. I think mostly there is some intimidation on his end that he doesn't outwardly show, but instead he takes that intimidation and lets it slightly shut him down. But the most strong thing I get when I connect in with him is this deep feeling of him tuning into you, watching you. You definitely draw him in. Does that resonate for you? IP: Logged |
intuitivefish Knowflake Posts: 9084 From: Europe Registered: Aug 2014
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posted September 26, 2017 06:01 PM
quote: Originally posted by Jazabel: Yes, sounds very very plausible, thank you, girl. Do you have a question for me ?
Posted it up for you IP: Logged |
missblyss Knowflake Posts: 1456 From: Registered: May 2016
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posted September 26, 2017 06:03 PM
My question is one I've asked before, but just wanted to check in with you and see if you felt the energies were the same.My daughter's dad is continuing to move forward with getting visits with her. I am wondering if his drive to be in her life is going to last or if he is going to fade away. Slightly frustrated about it, as I feel his only motivation is bc he is jealous that my daughter actually has a wonderful father figure now! IP: Logged |
intuitivefish Knowflake Posts: 9084 From: Europe Registered: Aug 2014
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posted September 26, 2017 06:03 PM
quote: Originally posted by missblyss: I feel his sight on you, he definitely notices you and is drawn to you. That being said, I feel this element of him telling himself "no". I get the feeling that he feels that you aren't interested in him. I think mostly there is some intimidation on his end that he doesn't outwardly show, but instead he takes that intimidation and lets it slightly shut him down. But the most strong thing I get when I connect in with him is this deep feeling of him tuning into you, watching you. You definitely draw him in. Does that resonate for you?
Most of it yes. But I told him I like him and I initiate contact and idk.. so I cant see why he would think I am not interested. That is the feeling he gives me not me him IP: Logged |
missblyss Knowflake Posts: 1456 From: Registered: May 2016
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posted September 26, 2017 06:06 PM
quote: Originally posted by intuitivefish: Most of it yes. But I told him I like him and I initiate contact and idk.. so I cant see why he would think I am not interested. That is the feeling he gives me not me him
I wasn't getting any feelings that you actually did anything to make him think that, more just that if he is giving you feelings of distance, it is out of his own mental insecurities around you. Not bc he is actually disinterested. He is not as totally confident around you as he may try to seem. Also, he is quite drawn to you despite how much of that he lets you see. IP: Logged |
intuitivefish Knowflake Posts: 9084 From: Europe Registered: Aug 2014
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posted September 26, 2017 06:09 PM
quote: Originally posted by missblyss: My question is one I've asked before, but just wanted to check in with you and see if you felt the energies were the same.My daughter's dad is continuing to move forward with getting visits with her. I am wondering if his drive to be in her life is going to last or if he is going to fade away. Slightly frustrated about it, as I feel his only motivation is bc he is jealous that my daughter actually has a wonderful father figure now!
For the most part he will. I feel like he will try to make himself look better than he is and that you know him to be but it doesnt feel as genuine as he should be. I do still get him going back to his old ways But It does feel like his good behaviour will last a few months posdibly, 2-3 I would say as I do feel some bumps in the road again with your ex and him not being constant. IP: Logged |
intuitivefish Knowflake Posts: 9084 From: Europe Registered: Aug 2014
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posted September 26, 2017 06:10 PM
quote: Originally posted by missblyss: I wasn't getting any feelings that you actually did anything to make him think that, more just that if he is giving you feelings of distance, it is out of his own mental insecurities around you. Not bc he is actually disinterested. He is not as totally confident around you as he may try to seem. Also, he is quite drawn to you despite how much of that he lets you see.
Oh okay thanks. Would make sense IP: Logged |
Valmu83 Knowflake Posts: 1080 From: Europe Registered: Dec 2014
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posted September 26, 2017 06:14 PM
Want to exchange with me? I can't be back here right away but I leave my q here if you are interested if not that's okay too q: Do you see me advancing in my career in near future?IP: Logged |
Jazabel Knowflake Posts: 668 From: Registered: Apr 2013
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posted September 26, 2017 06:15 PM
quote: Originally posted by intuitivefish: Mine is Why doesnt he initiate contact more ?Brb
looks like he is mistrusting women right now for some reason and I drew Man as the central card so he is working on himself at this point, being a little selfish so to speak, he wonders if a relationship will impede his goals. He wants long term relationships and he is careful who he gets entangled with. He is being careful and taking everything slow. Tree - Fox - Man - Whip - Lily IP: Logged |
intuitivefish Knowflake Posts: 9084 From: Europe Registered: Aug 2014
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posted September 26, 2017 06:23 PM
Thank you Jaz Makes sense.IP: Logged |
intuitivefish Knowflake Posts: 9084 From: Europe Registered: Aug 2014
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posted September 26, 2017 06:24 PM
quote: Originally posted by Valmu83: Want to exchange with me? I can't be back here right away but I leave my q here if you are interested if not that's okay too q: Do you see me advancing in my career in near future?
Sure No prob. Mine is, What might develop with me and D in soon time? Will do yours brb IP: Logged |