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Topic: It's A SUPER Emergency! I Need a Reading BADLY!
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blessed39
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posted October 05, 2017 07:21 PM
  
Hello. I am desperate! Can someone PLEASE pull a few cards.? There is a horrible confusion between me, my significant other's mother, and possibly his sister-in-law. I know he is REALY mad at me and based off of what he said his mother is also, and his sister-in-law will soon follow suit, if she is not already. I am 17 weeks pregnant and looking forward to building a future with him. I was also building a really strong relationship with his family until now. Please, please, PLEASE can someone pull a few cards to tell me if he is just exaggerating to make a point or if he is telling the truth about how awful things are and if they really are terrible as he says, if any type of reconciliation will take place or amends. I am willing to even pay for reading! IP: Logged |
blessed39
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posted October 05, 2017 09:25 PM
Pleeeeeease I cant find anyone to give me a reading who is trust worthy to save my life!IP: Logged |
Rheanna
Knowflake Posts: 164
From: The Orient
Registered: Mar 2014
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posted October 05, 2017 11:18 PM
Dear Blessed,I am not in the best situation to read for you. But I have lit a pair of candles for you affirming that all will be well in your world and your baby's. Please be calm and positive that all will solve for the best. Take care! IP: Logged |
blessed39
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posted October 05, 2017 11:23 PM
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Originally posted by Rheanna:
Dear Blessed,I am not in the best situation to read for you. But I have lit a pair of candles for you affirming that all will be well in your world and your baby's. Please be calm and positive that all will solve for the best. Take care!
Ohhhhh thank you so much! Your response means so much. I need all the affirming and prayers I can get at this point. Feels like my world is caving in on me. Thank you!
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Rheanna
Knowflake Posts: 164
From: The Orient
Registered: Mar 2014
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posted October 05, 2017 11:29 PM
Please be strong and positive.
There might be problems ahead but you will face it gently and calmly.
All the best! IP: Logged |
blessed39
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posted October 06, 2017 12:05 AM
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Originally posted by Rheanna:
Please be strong and positive.
There might be problems ahead but you will face it gently and calmly.
All the best!
Thank you so much!! IP: Logged |
blessed39
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posted October 06, 2017 03:49 AM
Things are awful. I finally heard from my significant other and I do not think he is making this up. He wants nothing to do with me. Im so crushed. IP: Logged |
blessed39
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posted October 06, 2017 05:38 AM
Another update. This is strange... His mother texted me to see if i made it to my destination safely. Im actually where his family is which is about 8 hours from us for a conference. Me, her, and his sister-in-law were supposed to go to the movies tomorrow. She did not mention that, but its strange she would text me if she is upset with me.I dont know... This is awful. I cant sleep. IP: Logged |
colorful butterfly
Knowflake Posts: 1763
From: USA
Registered: May 2015
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posted October 06, 2017 10:52 PM
I am not sure what is going on as far as what he is telling you, I can however speak from my own personal experiences with others families and friends. If you are pregnant with his child, his mom and others are upset with you on what grounds? what is sooo awful that it could break you two apart?Personally what does his mom and whomever have to do with your two being in relation together? I would really start to ask questions to his mom and others out of general concern but in a respectful , tactful and diplomatic way. Get to the bottom of things. If nothing else it will let others know your not one to be done any kind of way and I am sure this will bring the respect you deserve. IP: Logged |
blessed39
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posted October 07, 2017 12:17 AM
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Originally posted by colorful butterfly:
I am not sure what is going on as far as what he is telling you, I can however speak from my own personal experiences with others families and friends. If you are pregnant with his child, his mom and others are upset with you on what grounds? what is sooo awful that it could break you two apart?Personally what does his mom and whomever have to do with your two being in relation together? I would really start to ask questions to his mom and others out of general concern but in a respectful , tactful and diplomatic way. Get to the bottom of things. If nothing else it will let others know your not one to be done any kind of way and I am sure this will bring the respect you deserve.
To make a long story bearable, the issue is not that we are together. I actually believe that his family likes me. The issue is that his immediate family is having a meeting to discuss investments on Saturday evening. His mother made it a "family only" meeting. Which excluded me, as he and I are not married. I could tell I was being excluded and confirmed with his sister-in-law who I speak to somewhat regularly. I became upset because he and I have plans to get engaged/marry and we are planning a future together. So, I felt I should have be at the meeting also. I spoke with my SO about everything and explained to him that I was hurt and he should have stood up for me. He claimed to not know about this family rule and then said he confronted his mother and from there things got crazy and hairy. I think she left the conversation thinking something that was not correct with regard to what I said. I actually saw both his mother and his sister-in-law tonight. We went to the movies. So, I have confirmed that they are not too mad at me. His mother is VERY straight forward. I believe if she had a major issue with me, she would say it. He was mad because he felt like I was not being transparent about why I thought it was a family only meeting. I did not want to say that his sister-in-law told me. His family actually live 8 hours away from us and I am here visiting for a conference for work. He is supposed to be driving down tonight. So, between him being at work today and me being at the conference, we really have not had a chance to fully discuss whatever REALLY happened with his supposed conversation with his mother.
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Ladylibra
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posted October 09, 2017 03:01 PM
Blessed,Just talk to your fiance about it. It really doesn't sound as if there's any reason to panic. Someone who is angry with you beyond repair wouldn't go to the movies with you. Pregnancy causes such intense emotions and hormonal changes within us that sometimes we become hyper sensitive. I speak from experience. Talking it over with your fiance is best. A reading really won't help here. You just need to clear the air. It will be okay. Wishing you all the best and a healthy pregnancy!! xo IP: Logged |
blessed39
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posted October 10, 2017 11:11 AM
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Originally posted by Ladylibra:
Blessed,Just talk to your fiance about it. It really doesn't sound as if there's any reason to panic. Someone who is angry with you beyond repair wouldn't go to the movies with you. Pregnancy causes such intense emotions and hormonal changes within us that sometimes we become hyper sensitive. I speak from experience. Talking it over with your fiance is best. A reading really won't help here. You just need to clear the air. It will be okay. Wishing you all the best and a healthy pregnancy!! xo
Thank you! We are getting better. Things are getting better... I am trying to apply the secret/LOA to my situation. Lol. IP: Logged |
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