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Topic: Please help everything is falling apart?
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Loveher
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posted November 17, 2017 06:07 PM
  
Everything happen suddenly when I try to do something good. im stressed have panick attacks at night cant sleep or function. losing hope and having bad temper. will this pass by will I be something at the the end and get what I want?  IP: Logged |
todd
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posted November 17, 2017 07:42 PM
Hi Loveher
The cause of astrological cause of your torment is because the transiting node is square to the venus/pluto opposition . this opposition s always difficult because it unites selfishness with love,two impulses that are a odds.in the beginning this aspect usually adds to the sexual chemistry. Very often the sexual impulse seems insatiable initially.
But when looking for a sincere relationship, this aspect tends to put to much emphasis on sexuality. Usually sex will make a emotional relationship stronger ,if there is a love between the partners.in the beginning, sexual attraction is often the first sign of interest. But with pluto opposed to venus, the focus is on selfish sexual desire. After the intial period of getting to know each other, sexuality here does not lead to emotionally intimacy because one partner senses that there is only sexual gratification occurring and that sex does not bring a sincere loving relationship.
I have seen marriages with hars venus/pluto aspects and very often sex play less and less in the relationship to the point that the couple become celibate. This is because the selfishness of pluto finally makes the partner realize it is all about sex and not about love. So in your situation, since you describe “Everything happen suddenly when I try to do something good. im stressed have panick attacks at night can’t sleep or function. losing hope and having bad temper. will this pass by will I be something at the the end and get what I want?” this dynamic is playing out. This implies your interest is essentially sexual and her interest was for a love connection.he onus of your problem falls on you.
You are too ego centered and are desirous of sexuality but are not giving of yourself in a emotional manner. This is clear by your own words,”… will this pass by will I be something at the end and get what I want?” your focus is on you, not on the relationship. you are concerned about your own needs and have no idea that she is picking up on this extreme selfishness and realizes a intimate ,sincere loving relationship is not in the cards.
This is happening to you now because the node is square the venus/pluto opposition now.
The composite pluto is at 19scorp 56 and venus is at 18taur18. The transiting node was conjunct to pluto on nov 7th and squared venus on nov 20th, so I don’t think there is any hope for this hookup. todd
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Loveher
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posted November 17, 2017 08:06 PM
Thank you apperciate ur time
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Loveher
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posted November 18, 2017 09:47 PM
Im not hooking up with anyone personal and professional life is falling apart IP: Logged |
LittleWing
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posted November 18, 2017 10:47 PM
could it be the new moon in scorpio exactly conjunct your moon? with death( metaphorically speaking); rebirth!IP: Logged |
Randall
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posted November 24, 2017 10:49 PM
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