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MinceyMouse
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posted January 11, 2018 07:58 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for MinceyMouse     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Closed..

Free for a few hours-

Leave your questions!

I need to limit sitters; so first come first serve.

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Heartsong11
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posted January 11, 2018 08:38 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Heartsong11     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Hi there,

I can if you want?

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MinceyMouse
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posted January 11, 2018 08:41 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for MinceyMouse     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Sure- leave your question.

Mine is- what causes R's bad behaviour towards me (work related)?

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Heartsong11
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posted January 11, 2018 08:44 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Heartsong11     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Ok I'll do yours now.

Mine: How will SK respond if I text?

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MinceyMouse
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posted January 11, 2018 08:49 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for MinceyMouse     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Knight of cups - ace of swords - ace of coins

Looks like he'll respond in a nice and mild manner- and the response should be fairly swift (so within an hour of the text). Ace of coins says that he'll be busy too, so it'll be up to you to keep the conversation flowing- i.e. you talk about needing some advice etc; and making him curious about you.

Does this sound right?

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Heartsong11
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posted January 11, 2018 08:53 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Heartsong11     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Ace of Wands, Two of Wands and Two of Pentacles

I think R was sure of their success or promotion before. Something happened that made their path uncertain. Are you in similar positions where you are now the competition?
It just seems like there is lots of uncertainty because of your potential. Seems like R was sure of their role and path but you shook that up somehow. R is reevaluatiing everything to do with their work now. Like what worked before for them now doesn't.
Maybe your way of doing things is better and now they have to keep up.

Let me know if it resonates.

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Heartsong11
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posted January 11, 2018 08:55 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Heartsong11     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by MinceyMouse:
Knight of cups - ace of swords - ace of coins

Looks like he'll respond in a nice and mild manner- and the response should be fairly swift (so within an hour of the text). Ace of coins says that he'll be busy too, so it'll be up to you to keep the conversation flowing- i.e. you talk about needing some advice etc; and making him curious about you.

Does this sound right?


Yes it does. He seems to be responding well and swiftly...well the few times I initiated. And he also made it clear those times that he was busy but also let me know he wanted to talk.


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MinceyMouse
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posted January 11, 2018 08:56 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for MinceyMouse     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I'm very junior, and he has a lot of experience under his belt. I have a nagging feeling it's because of me getting some credit for some work which I've been doing.

So, yes, it resonates.

Want to continue exchanging?

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Heartsong11
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posted January 11, 2018 09:01 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Heartsong11     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Yes I do!

Why has SK cut himself off from the world?

What's yours?

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MinceyMouse
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posted January 11, 2018 09:03 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for MinceyMouse     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I have 2- might as well post them here- please don't quote.

Will anything happen between S and me? (romantic q; he's not in the same country).

What will my next place of work be like for me? I intend to start searching in 5.5 months.

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posted January 11, 2018 09:07 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for MinceyMouse     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
queen of coins - the chariot - 6 of swords

I think sometimes he needs a break from the people who leach off his energy; or the people he usually has around who are not healthy for his mental well being. For example, the queen of wands is someone he should be running from, but he can't see to do so, as she's always going to be around (can be a parent; can be an ex lover with his kid.. basically bonds which are usually hard to break). He takes time to recharge to be able to face all the obstacles life throws at him; and sometimes it's easier for him to make decisions and choices when he's not around other people who try to make the decision for him.

what's your next q?

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Heartsong11
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posted January 11, 2018 09:29 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Heartsong11     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Ten of Pentacles, Ace of Pentacles and Two of Pentacles

So money seems to be a major thing in keeping up apart. I think there is some real potential here once that problem is solved. Good sokid progression. Also one of you is being very closed off and playing it cool. Keeping everything close to their chest. That needs to change. Once it does I see a very strong bond forming between you two.

Five of Pentacles, Five of Wands and The World

So your new work place will take some compromising and negotiating to get into. You may not get the money you hoped for but I think it's a better position and in a different country. It will open doors for you. So definitely a step upwards. Just make sure to look far and wide...so don't limit yourself to one place if that makes sense.

I have a follow up: when SK comes out of this phase will he give us another chance?

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posted January 11, 2018 09:36 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for MinceyMouse     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
4 of swords - 7 of cups - 9 of swords

Unfortunately, I think that is a very far off period of time; I can see his emotions now and in the next 6 months; and during the period, he'll still be very confused as to what he wants with you. You will be confused as well. It'll keep you up at night on some nights. I can't give you a yes/no answer because he doesn't know what he wants.

Anymore questions?

Mine is (if you're up for it)- will things work out between S and me? how?

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Heartsong11
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posted January 11, 2018 09:43 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Heartsong11     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Ok can you ask why he is so confused about me? Like what caused it?

Doing yours now.

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MinceyMouse
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posted January 11, 2018 09:51 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for MinceyMouse     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
ace of cups - king of swords - death

He knows he's not in a good emotional state, and he doesn't like bringing people down with him. He has something of a lone martyr quality to him. Even though he likes to pride himself in thinking logically, he knows his emotional side is too unstable. He looks at you as a source of support during these times. Death says that change to his metal state will happen, but it's something which will happen very gradually. It's not you; it's him.

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Heartsong11
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posted January 11, 2018 09:56 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Heartsong11     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Thanks. Sounds like him.

Eight of Pentacles, The World and Ten of Pentacles

Both of you seem like grounded, logical people. Both into your work and study? It's common interests that connect you two and they will be the way to make things work.

Obviously travel will be necessary lol. Is it possible for one you to relocate because of study? I think once you have both accomplished your goals in regardd to work and money you could have a relationship.

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MinceyMouse
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posted January 11, 2018 09:59 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for MinceyMouse     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I will relocate at some point this year- but I don't know where I'll be. My goals change and are ever evolving tbh. Idk where I'll be in a few years, but work is my priority.

Thanks Heartsong- I hope it'll be able to work out. Distance is obviously an issue here.

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Heartsong11
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posted January 11, 2018 10:01 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Heartsong11     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Yes, all those Pentacles keep coming up. Its a physical issue. The feelings aren't the problem it seems.

Thank you too.

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harmonicvibes
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posted January 11, 2018 12:16 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for harmonicvibes     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
hi mincey

I got your message but phone died so ill get to your qs later

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MinceyMouse
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posted January 12, 2018 09:00 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for MinceyMouse     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
HV- well received!

All- thread is still open; post your qs.

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