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Topic: Never gonna find Love @ 21
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Leo-goddess96
Newflake Posts: 6
From: Brooklyn,NY
Registered: Jan 2018
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posted January 31, 2018 07:49 PM
  
I dont know what is wrong with me but sometimes i dont feel like my life is in rut and not gonna get better. I think my independent,i dont give a **** nature (sun opposition uranus has pretty much left me single and sometimes lonely. I love it but hate. Can someone tell what I should look for in relationship? and give me a more in depth reading than what i been finding?[IMG]http://i1383.photobucket.com/albums/ah304/tynysha1996/astro_2gw_tyny sha.2973.22021_zpsetvtk7mg.png[/IMG] IP: Logged |
KarkaQueen
Knowflake Posts: 6852
From: LURKING
Registered: May 2011
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posted January 31, 2018 09:04 PM
I don't see anything wrong with your chart. I have Uranus square Moon which gives the same (if not worse) character as you and I don't have male troubles... to say the least.
If anything you lack confidence and hide it underneath a bold, flamboyant exterior is what I'm assuming. Boys and men can sniff that a mile away.
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Leo-goddess96
Newflake Posts: 6
From: Brooklyn,NY
Registered: Jan 2018
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posted January 31, 2018 09:11 PM
Yeah I been working on my self confidence a lot lately I been getting better but it’s hard. Is there else you can tell about my chart?!
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KarkaQueen
Knowflake Posts: 6852
From: LURKING
Registered: May 2011
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posted February 01, 2018 12:08 AM
I see there's a YOD forming between Mars, Pluto, and Uranus. Very interesting.
Mars is also square Saturn...
That being said.. you're more than just a chart.
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furrybunny
Knowflake Posts: 3031
From: NY
Registered: Dec 2014
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posted February 01, 2018 05:30 PM
Omg you’re only 21 ... half your life isn’t even the over. Everyone’s guaranteed to have one relationship in this life .... just focus on yourself and let it happen. I didn’t find my first meaningful relationship until 23 . Just relax and like above poster said, you’re more than just your chart IP: Logged |
Empty Spaces
Knowflake Posts: 1911
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Registered: Jun 2015
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posted February 02, 2018 03:11 PM
My advice is to take the most of your chart.Focus on solutions,not in the problems.
It's okay to feel sad about it but it's easier to take the reigns.I have sun-uranus (conjunction) too and I put a barrier within me.I don't let them in easily.For fear or whatever but that wasn't on the surface.It took a long time to realize.
Do you are like that by any chance?Try to see what you can do to make it (the situation) better.Your chart will give clues about what you can change and what is stopping you. Please don't quote IP: Logged |
Empty Spaces
Knowflake Posts: 1911
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Registered: Jun 2015
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posted February 02, 2018 03:42 PM
I would love to have a fire sun or fire moon or at least one of them.Sun in 5th house!  Great chart!I don't know why but I found out that Leos for some reason tend to have low self-steem.Do you care too much about what others think of you? NN/chiron in 7th house.If something is making a little difficult to you on the relationship departament it must be that.Don't let yourself drown on negativity about chiron though.You have sag moon.You know how to take the most of something.It's within you. There are articles everywhere about NN in 7th house and they are great.I also recommend you to read Jane Spiller book Astrology for the Soul (just your part).I don't know if she talks about the house (I don't remember) but in case she doesn't you can read about north node in libra. IP: Logged |
Leo-goddess96
Newflake Posts: 6
From: Brooklyn,NY
Registered: Jan 2018
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posted February 02, 2018 05:56 PM
I use to try to please people try to blend into a crowd to fit in and realized i never quite fit in and/ or felt comfortable or happy. Since then i have settled with that feeling and remained a outsider and isolate myself. Which most times it good, but then it those other times when i FEEL soo lonely, longing for some type of intimacy. I found that with a guy who is a Leo as well but he is very distant and confusing (which i should go to interpersonal sec. to talk about that craziness) I know im only 21 and maybe im being dramatic but I just see everyone around me with some significant other and i just wish i had that. Someone to really accept me. i love who i am but i want to share that. PLUS im feeling so confused in my life on what i want to do and be in life. That what it is I just feel stuck and want to get out.IP: Logged |
Empty Spaces
Knowflake Posts: 1911
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Registered: Jun 2015
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posted February 02, 2018 10:47 PM
Out that is totally uranus.Same for me here!!100% what you have said.First and foremost I think you should try to embrace yourself.This is just a crazy feeling we have that we are "different".Well maybe we are really different but it doesn't matter. No I don't think you are dramatic.I know exactly how that type of longing feels like.We tend to feel disconnected from everyone,not just to a boyfriend so the longing feels bigger right? and it's good to vent with someone else.Are you very secretive about your life/emotions in real life?That's another problem that noticed with uranus-sun. You said you are confused.That's a great time to think more profundly about who you are.I think that will help you in your life overall.Relationships and all.It's what my therapist said! 😉 It is crazy but after I started to focus on myself the longing dropped a lot.I'm super romantic I never thought that would happen EVER!!! Hahaha IP: Logged |
Leo-goddess96
Newflake Posts: 6
From: Brooklyn,NY
Registered: Jan 2018
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posted February 03, 2018 12:16 AM
omg yes this is so true. When i started going to therapy I was working through depression and anxiety and my therapist literally for a second thought i needed to be on anti-depressants. But im glad someone else understand that feeling of keeping all your secrets inside but the only bad part is you can end up being resentful and angry. Sometimes i have dreams that im droowning metaphorically in my feeling like I might can get out of it. but i always do, climb out somehowIP: Logged |
Empty Spaces
Knowflake Posts: 1911
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Registered: Jun 2015
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posted February 03, 2018 02:00 AM
Uranus is super secretive!I think much more than Pluto will ever be.I know scorpios and they are very open with me and others! I once opened a thread to ask about that.I had no idea that uranus were the responsible for my behaviour!!Maybe it's a little bit of pisces influence too.Sorry to hear that.Did you recovered from depression?I'm also depressed it sucks but I'm hopeful. Yes that's true and it is so difficult to be like that. That is a scary dream. If we don't watch out we really drown on our emotions hehe IP: Logged |
Leo-goddess96
Newflake Posts: 6
From: Brooklyn,NY
Registered: Jan 2018
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posted February 03, 2018 10:52 PM
I dont really get depressed as much i use too. Im actually glad therapy help sort through a lot of it especially with my father. It just open my eyes to what has been bothering me. Things I didnt realize I was feeling and build some of my confidence.
Hang in there it will get better for you too, I promise.IP: Logged |
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