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posted February 21, 2018 12:42 AM            

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Wanna exch?

My q is... even though he probably saw on fb that it was my bday (yesterday) why did D not send anything?
Will he still?

What is yours?

I got lost with so many people in a thread.

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posted February 21, 2018 05:19 AM            

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he feels to me that he is sort of upset
like his feelings are hurt for some reason
i am getting the feeling that you need to know that he is the more sensitive one of the two of you
he has the feeling now of being insecure and out of that insecurity doing a sort of intentional ignoring type of thing

he's a really sensitive guy and over judges every little move you make and will take things you do to get all in his head thinking that you are uninterested

my question is; did my ex's mom tell him what i said about him?

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posted February 21, 2018 05:28 AM            

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actually i'll ask a different question, i decided i don't care haha

how do you think the meetings that i have mid march will go with the investors?

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posted February 21, 2018 08:05 AM            

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Originally posted by missblyss:
actually i'll ask a different question, i decided i don't care haha

how do you think the meetings that i have mid march will go with the investors?

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D did wish happy bday, but today.. I still feel some weird energy on him.

yours,

It will go better than you expect, I feel like something will be offered to you that you may not even expect yet, as in better than you think. I do feel something being put on the table which you may decide also sooner than you think.
But I feel like there will be a big change after your meeting like you will make some choices which will push the business along a lot. So I do feel like this meeting will change things big for you

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posted February 21, 2018 04:38 PM            

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Originally posted by intuitivefish:
D did wish happy bday, but today.. I still feel some weird energy on him.

yours,

It will go better than you expect, I feel like something will be offered to you that you may not even expect yet, as in better than you think. I do feel something being put on the table which you may decide also sooner than you think.
But I feel like there will be a big change after your meeting like you will make some choices which will push the business along a lot. So I do feel like this meeting will change things big for you

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the weird energy you're feeling is definitely real, you're dealing with a man who gets caught up in his feelings and plays games bc of his insecurities and feelings that maybe you don't really like him. try not to let it make you feel like HE doesn't like you

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posted February 22, 2018 12:14 AM            

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Thank you.

If you wanna ask more go ahead I will do them as I can.

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posted February 22, 2018 02:16 AM            

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Originally posted by intuitivefish:
Thank you.

If you wanna ask more go ahead I will do them as I can.

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hey love yes i'd love to

i actually have two

i'll do however many you need also?

but i know i've asked you this ten times but are the energies still feeling the same around us potentially moving? i feel like i've opened up to the idea more. not sure what you see

also, do you think my ex's mom told him what i said to her. i told her basically that he was a psycho

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posted February 22, 2018 08:20 AM            

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On the mom - yes I do feel something was told to him however I feel like he did not take it well. It feels more as a mention not deep conversation. But I feel like yes something has been told to him.

The move-
I feel similar still and that you will have a bit more of a conversation about that. I still dont feel a full jump into things but I feel this on the fence feeling especially when you go there as you will like some things and not like some things so I still dont feel you definitely moving there but possibly giving it more thought than before. Still more a No on move from me.

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posted February 22, 2018 08:21 AM            

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Mine :

1. How does D view what is going on with us, like what is according to him happening between us?

2. How can I improve things to have a better flow and less pausing.

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posted February 22, 2018 03:49 PM            

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Originally posted by intuitivefish:
Mine :

1. How does D view what is going on with us, like what is according to him happening between us?

2. How can I improve things to have a better flow and less pausing.

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so his insecurities are making him view things in a skewed way

he views you as being on and off interested.. he thinks at times you don't care and gets awkward during interactions because he goes between letting things flow when he forgets about his weird judgements and things become natural and comfortable.. then he gets up in his head thinking maybe he is getting played and that is when things get weird

i think the best thing you can do is be extra compassionate with him. don't forget how sensitive he is despite how much he tries to make his image come accross that he isn't. if you see him pull away energetically it is bc he is nervous and insecure that you will hurt him not bc he doesnt like you

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posted February 22, 2018 06:45 PM            

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Thank you.
Wasnt really what I asked but its ok.
Was more asking to see what he views to be happening with us as in how he views the dynamics between us
Not so much what he thinks of me.

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posted February 22, 2018 10:19 PM            

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Oh okay sorry I misinterpreted the question

I feel he thinks you guys have a casual thing going on, is there anyhing else you wanna know?

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posted February 22, 2018 10:22 PM            

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As far as the dynamics though he also sees that there is a push and pull at least in his experience

He feels like sometimes you're warm sometimes your not as warm and it makes him feel like maybe you don't want anything serious. That is sort of the thinking he reverts to when he feels insecure , he'll start to kinda be like "oh ya it's just causal that's all she wants, nothing serious"

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posted February 22, 2018 11:41 PM            

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Originally posted by missblyss:
As far as the dynamics though he also sees that there is a push and pull at least in his experience

He feels like sometimes you're warm sometimes your not as warm and it makes him feel like maybe you don't want anything serious. That is sort of the thinking he reverts to when he feels insecure , he'll start to kinda be like "oh ya it's just causal that's all she wants, nothing serious"

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can i ask you a question fishy?

so i messaged my ex's mom telling her that i knew he was a killer and all this stuff (that is true BTW and yes I have told the police too)

i am wondering if her telling him this stuff will make him back away

the reason i ask is bc my friend had a dream last night where she saw my ex and he was crying and saying that he was gonna leave us alone now.... stop trying to see my daughter bc he was accpeting that he didnt wanna deal with me anymore and that it was the best for her

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posted February 23, 2018 03:29 AM            

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thanks on the reading.

I dont really know how to be with D, I also feel like he is not into me or wants only casual, so I dont know how to be with him. Some times I text or sth and then there is a long wait for reply, so I dont know if I am being cligy, I think I am not as its days before I text so its not like its all the time, then I try giving him the chance to make the moves ..

So when I try to show I like him.. so I just dont know how much to show or how much to each out.. its not easy.
When I see him, I am very warm and show interest in his life and everything

So not sure there any more what to do or how to be...

Sorry on the rant.

Your reading,

At this point I actually see manipulation come from him, I feel like he may go back to some bad sides of his. So I dont see a backing off right away, I feel like he may try to fight for what he considers to be his right and what he considers to be his. I feel like he may even get a little bad at one point and might act weird. So now I feel like he wont back off but will be around and his mood will be more up and down than before.

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posted February 24, 2018 03:57 AM            

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bump so you see

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posted February 24, 2018 04:41 PM            

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bump so you see

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thanks fishy!

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