posted April 07, 2018 12:25 PM            

Wanted to update you both,

We DID get the house. There was some weird mercury retrograde delay where they took like 9 days to give us a definitive answer. In the end, it seemed they were just slacking on making it happen bc they knew we weren’t moving immediately.
Also, the homeowner was worried because there are loft spaces and wanted to make sure we were gonna make the space child-proof, so I think that was what showed up in both of your readings!

posted April 07, 2018 01:12 PM            

Yes I am up for exchanges. I have a question if you can look into now.
Me and M.H. talked last night but he infuriated me somehow for a small thing but I got worked up nevertheless. I even thought of cutting the contact with him but probably I will let this go. I did not tell him anything neither responded. So, I wonder what he thinks of me today. And do you see us going separate ways or having something happening to bring us closer..what do you see?

posted April 07, 2018 01:31 PM            

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Originally posted by Caprika:
Good to hear that and I'm glad you got it!

Yes I am up for exchanges. I have a question if you can look into now.
Me and M.H. talked last night but he infuriated me somehow for a small thing but I got worked up nevertheless. I even thought of cutting the contact with him but probably I will let this go. I did not tell him anything neither responded. So, I wonder what he thinks of me today. And do you see us going separate ways or having something happening to bring us closer..what do you see?

And how can I help you ?

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OK so what I see is that he actually knew what he was saying was going to trigger you and he sort of did it intentionally, although he didn’t really expect you to react to the extent that you did.

So he is just kinda like “uhhh” because on one hand he feels to blame, but also he is like “**** , i’ve really ****** them off now”... on another level there is a slight aspect of defensiveness, so there is a mix of feelings in him.

But ultimately, it does seem to me to be something that does pass. I feel like it would most likely just be something where there is more of a break in communication for a time at most, but not an end.

Let me know if you have any more...

SO my question is;

I have probably asked you about this before. But my daughter’s bio dad is a POS who was never there for her until I got a new boyfriend last year (when she was 3 years old)... Now he is forcing her to do these visits with him at a supervised visit center (he tried to kidnap her once so it has to be supervised)...

posted April 07, 2018 01:41 PM            

quote:

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Originally posted by Caprika:
Good to hear that and I'm glad you got it!

Yes I am up for exchanges. I have a question if you can look into now.
Me and M.H. talked last night but he infuriated me somehow for a small thing but I got worked up nevertheless. I even thought of cutting the contact with him but probably I will let this go. I did not tell him anything neither responded. So, I wonder what he thinks of me today. And do you see us going separate ways or having something happening to bring us closer..what do you see?

And how can I help you ?

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OK so what I see is that he actually knew what he was saying was going to trigger you and he sort of did it intentionally, although he didn’t really expect you to react to the extent that you did.

So he is just kinda like “uhhh” because on one hand he feels to blame, but also he is like “**** , i’ve really ****** them off now”... on another level there is a slight aspect of defensiveness, so there is a mix of feelings in him.

But ultimately, it does seem to me to be something that does pass. I feel like it would most likely just be something where there is more of a break in communication for a time at most, but not an end.

Let me know if you have any more...

SO my question is;

I have probably asked you about this before. But my daughter’s bio dad is a POS who was never there for her until I got a new boyfriend last year (when she was 3 years old)... Now he is forcing her to do these visits with him at a supervised visit center (he tried to kidnap her once so it has to be supervised)...

posted April 07, 2018 04:01 PM            

This helps me because at least I know he knows how this might have made me feel. I didn't respond with anything or said anything so I wasn't sure he picked on my upset. Good to know he did.

About your question, I pulled some cards and it shows him looking at the big picture and trying to come up with a plan. He does feel angry that you are not under his control anymore or that he does not have a hold on you. The Wheel of Fortune shows up as the focus card which tells me that a cycle will be closed and the wheels Will turn up in your favor. The following cards are 3 of Swords showing him defeated and hurt and then the Hierophant which shows him doing the right thing , possibly obeying an order. The Hierophant might indicate him getting married to someone else and abandoning his plans to interfere in your life

posted April 07, 2018 04:11 PM            

As far as what he wants, i don’t think what he wants is super clear to him. He knows that you provoke these feelings in him and he likes it, but it also makes him feel uncomfortable because he unconsciously knows that bc he feels those feelings, that it gives you a bit of power over him. It makes him feel vulnerable and he doesn’t like it.

He seems to be someone that hold onto a lot of past negative experiences with women and wishes that he was the type of guy who just didn’t give a f***, which he tries sometimes to come off as... but it is a fascade.

On one hand, he wants to see how things could go with you, but it’s almost like he wouldn’t be able to even express this or act on it unless he could let go of ALL of the insecurity that is sitting on top of his heart, telling him if he opens up he could get hurt.