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sunkissedqt
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posted April 15, 2018 02:09 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for sunkissedqt     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Thank you for taking the time to read this post.
I have been dating Mike and we are going through a a difficult hiccup and I wanted to know if there is enough good in our future to work through it or if it best for us to move onto our separate paths. Any feedback/insight/reading is appreciated I would love to offer an exchange but I am more of a tarot enthusiast and not quite at that level to perform readings yet. I will send you good vibes and manifest anything you would like to the universe on your behalf 😊✨✨
Thank you very much!

Me-Taurus sun, Virgo moon, Leo Ascendant. (May 15th)

Him-Taurus sun, Pisces moon, Gemini Ascendant. (May 13th)

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Rosalind
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posted April 15, 2018 02:22 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Rosalind     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
If you want astrology insight you will have to post the synastry chart from astro.com

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sunkissedqt
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posted April 15, 2018 02:33 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for sunkissedqt     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
https://www.astro.com/cgi/chart.cgi?gm=a1&nhor=2&nho2=8&btyp=66&mth=gw&sday=15&smon=4&syr=2018&rs=0

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sunkissedqt
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posted April 15, 2018 02:47 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for sunkissedqt     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
https://www.astro.com/cgi/chart.cgi?gm=a1&nhor=2&nho2=8&btyp=66&mth=gw&sday=15&smon=4&syr=2018&rs=0

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posted April 15, 2018 03:03 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for furrybunny     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
haa that sounds exactly like my scenario. and we are both Aquarius... girl wish u the best.

if u need some readings for insight lmk! I don't know whats your question

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sunkissedqt
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posted April 15, 2018 03:28 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for sunkissedqt     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Thank you for sharing 😊 yes, two fixed signs can be tough 😉 I guess I’m just curious if you see us/or anyone reading us sees us moving forward to a deeper commitment or is it it/over after our recent fight?

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posted April 15, 2018 03:34 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for furrybunny     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
so actually do see him reaching out to you but it'll be tense for bit between you and I don't see anything moving along for a bit. possible little more with before things start changing. but I do see u guys getting into a deeper stage in the future but for now you have to go through the rough patch. I do think you'll be defensive for a bit and that can really stop progress.

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sunkissedqt
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posted April 15, 2018 04:17 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for sunkissedqt     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Thank you for taking the time to weigh in on my situation. We are still in contact post-fight but like you said it’s a bit tense and short. I do tend to criticize him (I blame my Virgo moon 😉 but it’s more about me wanting to solidify our future. I try to be more laidback but I can only do that to a certain extent or else I feel like I am betraying my true nature of wanting to get my ducks in a row. He is a good man, but I just wish he would make me more of a priority and Express his feelings for me more. If he could do that I think I could say wholeheartedly he is the one I want to be life partners with but if not there is still a part of me that wonders if there is another who I will be more compatible with...

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posted April 15, 2018 04:31 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for furrybunny     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by sunkissedqt:
Thank you for taking the time to weigh in on my situation. We are still in contact post-fight but like you said it’s a bit tense and short. I do tend to criticize him (I blame my Virgo moon 😉 but it’s more about me wanting to solidify our future. I try to be more laidback but I can only do that to a certain extent or else I feel like I am betraying my true nature of wanting to get my ducks in a row. He is a good man, but I just wish he would make me more of a priority and Express his feelings for me more. If he could do that I think I could say wholeheartedly he is the one I want to be life partners with but if not there is still a part of me that wonders if there is another who I will be more compatible with...


thats really strange because that was exactly what I going through right now.. it seems theres something planetary energy going on.. honestly my situation is word for words same as yours... i felt my guy was being lazy too and didn't care enough..

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posted April 15, 2018 04:48 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for sunkissedqt     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I’m just hoping that once the sun enters Taurus it will be more auspicious for the two of us. Are things horrible? no. Am I miserable? No. But, am I head over heels happy? I could be if he would just put forth the energy and be more expressive rather than being conservation with his love, I/we could be blissfully happy. Like you said, “lazy” and that’s what gets me frustrated. But I still don’t want to be with anyone else. Not just bc I have deep feelings for him but more importantly I have a deep respect for him, he’s a good person. I just wish he would give me the attention and affection I would like. Just feeling like I’m in a relationship limbo. If he were a bad guy or did something unforgivable it would be easy to just call it quits but that’s not our situation. I guess we shall see...

Thank you again, and my intuition tells me that you will have a dream in the near future that will help you better make sense of your situation ✨

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posted April 15, 2018 06:09 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for furrybunny     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by sunkissedqt:
I’m just hoping that once the sun enters Taurus it will be more auspicious for the two of us. Are things horrible? no. Am I miserable? No. But, am I head over heels happy? I could be if he would just put forth the energy and be more expressive rather than being conservation with his love, I/we could be blissfully happy. Like you said, “lazy” and that’s what gets me frustrated. But I still don’t want to be with anyone else. Not just bc I have deep feelings for him but more importantly I have a deep respect for him, he’s a good person. I just wish he would give me the attention and affection I would like. Just feeling like I’m in a relationship limbo. If he were a bad guy or did something unforgivable it would be easy to just call it quits but that’s not our situation. I guess we shall see...

Thank you again, and my intuition tells me that you will have a dream in the near future that will help you better make sense of your situation ✨



aww thank you. honestly im to surprise about the dream because I did ask for my spirit communication / intuition to get better just last night. so im expecting it. thank you! I hope you and I figure this out and it works to our favor.

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posted April 19, 2018 11:30 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Randall     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Aries23Degrees
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posted April 20, 2018 02:08 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Aries23Degrees     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I was with a Taurus Sun. Actually been with 3 Taurus Suns. Not at the same time ofcourse

What I do notice is that once the Taurus has gotten you to be their boyfriend/ girlfriend, things tend to slow down considerably.

All 3 of the above sat on their laurels and "expected" things to work out. I was young and so I think I needed much more. So I got restless and left all 3.

When two Taurus Suns are together this can increase exponentially I think. Primarily because both of you tend to be the steady, slow types.

Are your Venus signs compatible?

Moon in Pisces tend to be idealistic and romantic. And their Jupiter ruling the DSC suggests that they tend to be drawn to someone who expands their world or piques their curiosity.

Your Moon in Virgo makes you extremely cautious and careful in love. The Aqua descendant puts Uranus as the ruler and suggests that you are drawn to partnerships that have a high level of platonic involvement i.e friends hanging out together, having friends over or going out to functions together with a group of people.

Also Aquarius likes to involve their partner with their friends.

The last Taurus I dated had Taurus Moon, Asc Gem with Sun/Moon in 11th. And he was all about friendships and including me in his friendship circle.

His DSC in Sag was Jupiter ruled. He liked being everywhere and doing everything. You couldn't keep him in one place.

I think through him I discovered just how deeply outside the textbook "Sag" I was. Lol

Talk to him about your feelings. Tell him what you would like to see happen between you two

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sunkissedqt
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posted April 23, 2018 10:47 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for sunkissedqt     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Thank you for replying to my post. This past weekend went really well. We connected in a way that makes me optimistic about our future. I think we still have much more to explore. He definitely enjoys being social, whereas I’m more of a loner who does not let people into my inner circle as easily (perhaps having to do with Chiron in my 11th house) I definitely enjoy being out and about on a weekend, but my mundane reality is pretty much centered around my work and close friends/family.

My venus in Gemini conjuncts his mars in Gemini. And my mars in Cancer squares his venus Aries. Perhaps the latter is why I feel some friction from time to time 😉

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posted April 29, 2018 01:51 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Randall     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Still good?

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sunkissedqt
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posted April 30, 2018 09:14 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for sunkissedqt     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
So far so good, but our relationship is semi long distance because of work and living distance. Seeing him this weekend and on my birthday May 15th when Uranus enters Taurus. Curious to see how that plays into everything...

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posted May 08, 2018 11:08 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Randall     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by sunkissedqt:
So far so good, but our relationship is semi long distance because of work and living distance. Seeing him this weekend and on my birthday May 15th when Uranus enters Taurus. Curious to see how that plays into everything...

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posted June 10, 2018 09:26 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for sunkissedqt     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I’m really struggling with my relationship. I think we’re headed for a breakup. He wants to talk about it this week. He told me he thinks the world of me but he just doesn’t think he can be the guy for me/is the right man for me. I told him I’m willing to work through the hiccups and he didn’t point blank say no he’s fine but that he doesn’t know if he can take the next step in our relationship. Do you see us ending it for good? Amy insight is appreciated. Thank you so much

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posted June 16, 2018 06:15 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Randall     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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