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SunAscendant
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posted May 16, 2018 07:30 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for SunAscendant     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I know my Aries and Capricorn dominance can make me come off as ruthless and mean sometimes, but I don't actively try to be rude or mean. Only my family seems to think I'm cold and rude sometimes and my exes have said I can be aggressive in getting my point across or in pursuing them (my Venus in Aries would obviously show this... no shocker there lol). What else can make me come off as a little "tough" or "aggressive" as a few might say?


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Randall
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posted May 17, 2018 11:45 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Randall     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Randall
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posted May 25, 2018 10:25 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Randall     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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mirage29
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posted May 25, 2018 02:16 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for mirage29     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
These are some random general observations.

Look at how strong the Earth elements are in your chart. Also the natural energies available behind your water trine-- Pluto, Mars, Ascendant.


Your Moon just under the Descendant and opp the Ascendant would add to you needing to have people like and approve of you.


It's GOOD to care about what people say.
They are our mirrors.
It's good to want to improve oneself, and to take their suggestions 'as if' or as though it were true.
But YOU are the ultimate core person who 'knows' what's going on inside your mind, your feelings.

Do the best you can to self-examine, and take in suggestions....
Apply forgiveness extend grace to them.

Sometimes *they* are going through rough things too, and they can be projecting some of their unconscious "frustration/angers/discomfort" on yourself.

Try (as much as you are able) to let things slide for them-- while!, you {GENTLY} inquire of your own self, whether or 'how' it might/could be true in some way?

(HUMOR) IF you ARE being a meanie???
Then, 'behave' yourself.!!!
They are trying to tell you something important about socially getting along.

If it's not true... Give them some grace, space, and time.

Go within. Love yourself. Accept yourself.


So, with transits for you right now?? In Aquarius, Mars and the Southnode will be holding space with your BML in Aquarius, 8th house.

*humorously, and kindly*
That could put your energies on a unaware-level of feeling a subconscious beatch-type of raw rant-on... okay?
Sometimes, it's good to feel that, and own and master that feeling inside. It will give you a sense of Power you need to be in-touch with for success.
In the mean time, 'they' may be picking up that sense of ability/power you have, and they might be subconsciously 'reacting' to it?
Just let it 'inform' you... You have a natural energy-generator to Harness and that's REALLY Good.

And you ~might NOT be totally aware of the inferno-level of energies being stirred inside.

Actually?, sometimes, that's quite 'therapeutic' for some folks that tend to hold everything sensitively on the inside of them.

You've got tPluto Capricorn in your 7th.
Drawing in people who want to do Power-Plays?
Go ahead? "Pick your battles" *grin*

I see you have Chiron in your 2nd house...
Lovingly, Take good care and be self-observant of your levels of Self-esteem.
*Don't let the Turkeys get you down???*

You have tSaturn transit (again) to your Moon.
That can leave you feeling like your stripped bare, and like an 'outsider'?
Might be that you would approach them from the level of a them-versus-me kind of emotional energy??

Gently, you might be extra-aware, and what they say might not even BE about 'you' …

Things might be feeling 'extra-hard' right now for you.

Stay Aware.
Self-care … and put some Comfort-shields around you.

Try not to let them affect you...
Find outlets for any building-up frustrations inside.
Make it work FOR you. *Heart*

Sending you *hugs*

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Randall
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posted May 30, 2018 10:28 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Randall     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Thanks, mirage!

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mirage29
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posted May 30, 2018 02:01 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for mirage29     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
thank you Randall

Here's an Astrodienst category list for her to research if she is interested----

- http://www.astro.com/astro-databank/Category:Traits_:_Personality_:_Aggressive/_brash

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Lalafortunaea
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posted June 04, 2018 04:09 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Lalafortunaea     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Saturn in 8th, probably.

People who have Saturn conjunct Pluto, or Saturn in Scorpio are often known as seeming mean and aggressive.

Saturn also has to do with the unconscious, what we don't know, our fears etc. There could be something buried deep inside you you're unaware of that makes you come off as such.

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LunaIscariot
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posted June 05, 2018 03:49 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for LunaIscariot     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Well “aggressive and mean” is Aries/mars energy. And sure enough, you have Aries intercepted on your 10th house of reputation and also mars there conjunct the cusp lol. You also have venus and mercury in Aries natally, so how you socialize and communicate is a bit blunt, rough or abrasive, I don’t think tact/harmony is your strong suit.

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