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dustib
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posted July 05, 2018 07:01 AM
  
I know you're right of course...just not what I want to hear. Can I ask one stupid question? Will he ever change and be dependable? Like an ephinany or something? Lol IP: Logged |
LunaIscariot
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posted July 05, 2018 08:00 AM
Wow I got some interesting cards!So I asked if T will ever change or be willing to grow or work on being the man you want him to be; I pulled the hermit, king of pentacles, 6 of cups and then 6 of cups again from another deck lol and the 8 of pents, temperence and throat chakra.
These are actually very reassuring cards! Hermit is about reflection, going inside yourself and it’s a card about wisdom and maturity. King of pentacles is someone reliable, mature, responsible, and very stable loyal and committed (I think this is coming up as the man you want him to be), but then we have the double 6 of cups. 6 of cups can be about conditioning, the past, childhood or learned behaviours etc.
So I feel a lot of his lies, secrets and unfaithful type behaviours do stem from the past, and he may have witnessed or been conditioned to think this is ok. With the 8 of pents beside, this is a card about hard work and dedicated effort. I feel this beside the 6 of cups is saying he would have to work really hard to change. BUT temperence is about harmony and balance and working together. I feel he would be willing to do this for you, he would be willing to try find that balance and harmony with you. Throat chakra says you need to talk to him about all your feelings, and thoughts and wishes in an honest and rational manner. I feel like you need to not be emotional. Like be very matter of fact.It’s like I can picture the convo in my head lol it’s so weird. But it’s like I’m supposed to tell you that he is very defensive, doesn’t take any perceived criticism well so if you just tell him you want him to change or point out his flaws it will not go over well. You need to be very calm, rational but still gentle and loving and use logic and reason when explaining your feelings or the reasoning behind them since he is more head over heart and he will understand and accept what you have to say without being defensive if you present it to him this way.
I feel it you do that, he will be willing to work on things will you and compromise believe it or not  IP: Logged |
dustib
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posted July 05, 2018 08:06 AM
OMG we JUST had a talk like this and you are 100% accurate that he does not take criticism well at all! He told me he is trying to change but he needs certain things from me as well and all reasonable. I do try to take control of the situation and force things and also look at his phone. The big thing is he needs me to trust him and he said he's working really hard to be that man for me. So I guess I wait and see but I have to work on things too. And yes, I'm very emotional so you picked up on that perfect!Thank you so much...you have ALWAYS been so accurate for me and I appreciate you telling me the truth even if I don't want to hear it. Don't let anyone else tell you differently, you know you have a gift and are awesome! IP: Logged |
LunaIscariot
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posted July 05, 2018 08:27 AM
Awesome, yes I do think he is being honest about trying to improve himself with these cards, like I said I see him willing to make the effort so that’s great! Make sure you tell him how much you appreciate that too  it will encourage him to keep at it. And temperence is also about compromise, so that makes sense with him telling you he needs changes from you too, so compromise and clear communication is really the key in this I feel And aweh thank you ❤️ I really appreciate you sticking up for me on that jerks thread lol
I know my readings aren’t always 100 percent accurate (the nature of it makes that almost impossible I feel), but I’m confident in my abilities as long as I’m not sick, sleep deprived or dealing with some personal issues that are distracting me or affecting my energies lol so his ignorant opinions of me I’m not taking to heart. IP: Logged |
dustib
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posted July 05, 2018 08:42 AM
No problem, you are awesome! I've read a lot of his posts and he disagrees with anyone who isn't telling him what he wants to hear....no one likes hearing negative but to sit and say you aren't accurate yet keep asking you questions makes no sense. Now, let's hope things get back to how they were between T and I. He's still distant and I get that but he did spend Tuesday night and half of 4th of July with me and the other half with his kids. That means something. IP: Logged |
dustib
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posted July 06, 2018 07:39 AM
Hey Luna....are you feeling any better? I know you were pretty sick.IP: Logged |
LunaIscariot
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posted July 06, 2018 07:55 AM
Yes I am much better now starting feeling a lot better yesterday and even better this morning 👍
I fell asleep at around 3pm yesterday and slept 13 hours 😂 IP: Logged |
dustib
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posted July 06, 2018 09:28 AM
I'm sure you needed that much sleep though since you had been sick for awhile! Glad you're feeling better. Would you like to exchange? IP: Logged |
LunaIscariot
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posted July 06, 2018 09:54 AM
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dustib
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posted July 06, 2018 10:42 AM
What is going on with T? He is once again being rude after last night. He told me something was going on with his family but hasn't called, just sent a rude text this morning. Will he end up coming over this weekend or will he still be acting like a d*ck and ignore me? I'll brb with yours! IP: Logged |
dustib
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posted July 06, 2018 10:51 AM
Maybe if my husband will be older or younger than me?
Older: bird, pyramid and anchor
Yes he will be older than you and very grounded and stable
And how I will meet him?
bridge, road, hammer, turtle, spoon and heart
so first of all, it looks like he does not live in the same town as you...you will meet him when you're on a trip somewhere. I don't see him living too far away but it will be somewhere that you drive to and possibly by water and doesn't have to be a big body of water. But looks like with the spoon, you will be eating somewhere and it honestly looks like you will approach him. I almost see it as a dare from someone you are with because it's not normally something you would do. But it will work out! IP: Logged |
LunaIscariot
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posted July 06, 2018 11:21 AM
1; why is T being rude;
I got the 6 of swords twice! So this is the main reasonZ 6 of swords is about healing, moving on and getting over a tough time or situation. But in the context of this question I feel it’s meaning is meant to be read reversed. So he is actually having a tough time moving on and letting go of the past. Basically he is resentful and holding a grudge, not letting something go or not being able to forget or move past something.
I also got the 4 of pents and 9 of swords which again shows him pulling away a bit being distant (4 of pents) and holding back. And also 9 of swords which is overthinking or assuming the worst, dwelling on the past, replying events or conversations etc.
I also pulled the change and failure oracle cards. So I feel he is also worried about the relationship failing or history repeating itself and it’s causing this change in him. 2; what is going on with T’s family;
Wheel of fortune, 10 of pents, 6 is cups, 6 of pents, 2 of pents, 4 of pents
Fool, throat chakra, 9 of wands, judgement, 5 of pents, 4 of swords
Message, letting go, and fragment oracles Wow so interesting cards. I feel he got a message that was very unexpected whatever happened (wheel of fortune) and with all the pentacles I feel it may have been money/work or health related. The fool and 6 of cups seems like one of his kids is involved. With judgement, 5 of pents and 4 of swords idk why I felt suicide. Like a suicide attempt or something similar (really hope I’m wrong!!!) and now they’re having to recover (4 of swords) someone may have found a note or something similar that could be the message oracle too. Letting go/fragment is what is also giving me the suicide vibes or someone running away, leaving or doing something else similarly reckless (fool). 5 of pents usually means someone feeling alone and very insecure/low self worth.
(Please let me know if any of this is right when/if you find out more!) 3; will T come over this weekend? I’m not entirely sure of this one because I keep pulling very vague cards lol like the moon etc. So seems the situation is unknown yet, still undecided and up to fate.
But I’m leaving more towards a yes since I eventually pulled some positive cards like the sun, ace of swords, emperor and queen of cups etc. So that would be a yes. But again I’m not 100 percent I could be wrong. Weird the cards almost didn’t even wanna come out for this question lol it’s like you’re not supposed to know because it will change the outcome idk. IP: Logged |
LunaIscariot
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posted July 06, 2018 11:23 AM
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Originally posted by dustib:
Maybe if my husband will be older or younger than me?
Older: bird, pyramid and anchor
Yes he will be older than you and very grounded and stable
And how I will meet him?
bridge, road, hammer, turtle, spoon and heart
so first of all, it looks like he does not live in the same town as you...you will meet him when you're on a trip somewhere. I don't see him living too far away but it will be somewhere that you drive to and possibly by water and doesn't have to be a big body of water. But looks like with the spoon, you will be eating somewhere and it honestly looks like you will approach him. I almost see it as a dare from someone you are with because it's not normally something you would do. But it will work out!
Hahaha nice!
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dustib
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posted July 06, 2018 11:44 AM
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Originally posted by LunaIscariot:
1; why is T being rude;
I got the 6 of swords twice! So this is the main reasonZ 6 of swords is about healing, moving on and getting over a tough time or situation. But in the context of this question I feel it’s meaning is meant to be read reversed. So he is actually having a tough time moving on and letting go of the past. Basically he is resentful and holding a grudge, not letting something go or not being able to forget or move past something.
I also got the 4 of pents and 9 of swords which again shows him pulling away a bit being distant (4 of pents) and holding back. And also 9 of swords which is overthinking or assuming the worst, dwelling on the past, replying events or conversations etc.
I also pulled the change and failure oracle cards. So I feel he is also worried about the relationship failing or history repeating itself and it’s causing this change in him. 2; what is going on with T’s family;
Wheel of fortune, 10 of pents, 6 is cups, 6 of pents, 2 of pents, 4 of pents
Fool, throat chakra, 9 of wands, judgement, 5 of pents, 4 of swords
Message, letting go, and fragment oracles Wow so interesting cards. I feel he got a message that was very unexpected whatever happened (wheel of fortune) and with all the pentacles I feel it may have been money/work or health related. The fool and 6 of cups seems like one of his kids is involved. With judgement, 5 of pents and 4 of swords idk why I felt suicide. Like a suicide attempt or something similar (really hope I’m wrong!!!) and now they’re having to recover (4 of swords) someone may have found a note or something similar that could be the message oracle too. Letting go/fragment is what is also giving me the suicide vibes or someone running away, leaving or doing something else similarly reckless (fool). 5 of pents usually means someone feeling alone and very insecure/low self worth.
(Please let me know if any of this is right when/if you find out more!) 3; will T come over this weekend? I’m not entirely sure of this one because I keep pulling very vague cards lol like the moon etc. So seems the situation is unknown yet, still undecided and up to fate.
But I’m leaving more towards a yes since I eventually pulled some positive cards like the sun, ace of swords, emperor and queen of cups etc. So that would be a yes. But again I’m not 100 percent I could be wrong. Weird the cards almost didn’t even wanna come out for this question lol it’s like you’re not supposed to know because it will change the outcome idk.
Supposedly it has to do with his niece...he wasn't very clear and of course has an excuse for everything like why he couldn't send a quick text. But I know he called his ex, H. He wants to claim I'm not happy with anything from him so you are right on the first part. He thinks everything is just going to keep repeating itself so you're right on that too! Right now, this weekend is a no go but if it changes, I'll let you know. I'm not sure anything will be resolved between him and I and maybe your reading was right that it's over because he is holding a grudge and not letting go of me checking his phone. Will he ever let that go? Cause if not, I'm wasting my time. IP: Logged |
LunaIscariot
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posted July 06, 2018 11:54 AM
Oh okay neice is possible, I just assumed his kids because I seen a younger person involved.
But anyone younger person or persons it could be with the 6 of cups and the fool. I asked if T will ever forgive you for going through his phone;
Ugh I’m getting a no.
5 of swords (which is about spite/resentment!), 5 of pents and the devil.
All negative based cards which show a no.
So it seems he will always sort of resent you for it and never completely let it go. It’s almost like I feel he may bring it up or hold it over your head in the future etc. IP: Logged |
LunaIscariot
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posted July 06, 2018 11:55 AM
Oh and I want to mention I seen that you guys would probably get back together after your last fight, but that things wouldn’t be good or really improve much. I seen conflicts and arguing etc.... IP: Logged |
dustib
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posted July 06, 2018 12:06 PM
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Originally posted by LunaIscariot:
Oh and I want to mention I seen that you guys would probably get back together after your last fight, but that things wouldn’t be good or really improve much. I seen conflicts and arguing etc....
Yes I know BUT you also saw him changing. So I'm confused on which it is....is this just a bump until he works on changing, well we both work on it? IP: Logged |
LunaIscariot
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posted July 06, 2018 12:12 PM
Well I seen him making the effort to change, but that’s doesn’t mean he actually will if that makes sense. Like even if he can or does stick to the changes it doesn’t mean you guys will be happy together or not fight anymore etc.
Sometimes it’s an incompatible issue which I sort of seen for you guys before also when I read your charts. IP: Logged |
dustib
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posted July 06, 2018 12:13 PM
Sorry I suck at timing so haven't really even tried to practice and can't with these cards but I can do the why! And what will be the reason? Like why will he?
rabbit, cross, woman, pyramid, bird and umbrella well....sex will be on his mind for sure when he reaches out to you. He will feel like he made you "suffer" enough without him and thinks you will be more ready to talk and hopefully you've changed back to the person before, remember he thinks you've changed. So he will be fishing to see how you act and if maybe he can get lucky with sex. There are no cards about feelings here other than avoiding feelings(which we know he has done with you). He thinks he can tempt you basically IP: Logged |
LunaIscariot
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posted July 06, 2018 12:25 PM
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dustib
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posted July 09, 2018 07:30 AM
I'm realizing you are 100% accurate sadly. We had a good weekend followed by him ignoring me last night. He finally acknowledged me this morning and of course had something else happen (he found out someone close to him died) but of course he shut me out again. I just feel like this is who he is and it's not going to change....and I'm not ok with being shut out. IP: Logged |
LunaIscariot
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posted July 09, 2018 01:34 PM
Ugh I’m sorry girl  sending you hugs and good wishes I really think you need to make a firm decision on what you want to do, and not leave it up to him. Just decide for yourself if you’re truly happy in this relationship and if it’s worth it.
Know you deserve a relationship where you’re happy 95 percent of the time and you don’t have to wonder, question, worry or be suspicious etc.
Sometimes we have to rise above feelings and do what’s in our best interest. IP: Logged |
dustib
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posted July 09, 2018 02:28 PM
I know! I know I will never be happy 100% of the time with anyone....but I want to be happy more than I am now with him. I feel like I'm investing so much and getting so little back. I do have a friend who is going to set me up on a date with someone else because honestly, I'm tired of the arguing and not feeling like I can trust him. So he ignored me last night because a friend he hadn't talked to in 16 years was killed. I'm sad for him but my 1st thought was....16 years of no communication and you're going to ignore me for that. Is that heartless? IP: Logged |
LunaIscariot
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posted July 09, 2018 02:33 PM
Yes, I understand completely. You honestly deserve better, don’t settle for a mediocre relationship or one where you don’t feel like you’re getting as much as you’re giving or that is causing you pain or anxiety.
I learnt that lesson myself lol 👍 I hope this new date goes well! Keep me updated! And if you do like him, I’ll do your charts for you to see if you’re truly compatible etc. IP: Logged |
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posted July 11, 2018 08:21 AM
Wanted to share with you, in your last reading you asked what was going on with T's family and you saw someone saying they would commit suicide and we found out that night he had something to do with his 15 year old niece needing supervision. Last night, he got a call from H that his 11 year old daughter was saying she was going to kill herself so he rushed over there. It ended up being she was mad at her sister and that was what she was using to "get back at her". So you were right once again! Can I ask, I have been thinking of moving but was going to wait until next spring when I had my financial stuff in a better place. Would it be better to wait until spring or move now? Thanks! IP: Logged |
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