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LunaIscariot Knowflake Posts: 2769 From: Registered: Aug 2014
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posted June 11, 2018 03:16 PM
Of course he is lying, I don’t even need to ask the cards about this anymore. The message was crystal clear, he is lying to you, that’s why those 3 different cards from different decks all came up. You can’t trust him. He wants a fling, that firey energy burns out quickly. He is rebounding, it’s not to say he doesn’t like you, Obviously he does so that’s why he’s with you, but just mainly to pass time and to have fun, he’s not serious or in love with you doesn’t look like. He wouldn’t be lying to you f he did or was. Which makes sense why he won’t tell his kids or her about you, because he’s not serious. You need to cut this guy off ASAP. .
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dustib Knowflake Posts: 3287 From: USA Registered: Feb 2015
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posted June 11, 2018 03:36 PM
quote: Originally posted by LunaIscariot: Yes, that would make sense I’m very sorry! * was obsessed with his ex for a long time when we got together, refused to cut contact with her and would stalk her fb and lie about talking to her etc. He wanted her back but she started dating his best friend. So I definitely know what it’s like to be a “rebound” or dealing with someone with baggage and how frustrating and hurtful it is to feel like the second choice or under appreciated etc. BUT, if you can put your pride to the side and give your relationship and connection time to get stronger and his feelings for you to grow, this might change. She’s not a real threat or this isn’t an actual issue like he’s not cheating etc., as like the cards showed and even he himself said she doesn’t want him, so try keep that perspective in mind when you decide what you’re going to do. They were together a long time and it’s only natural that he still has feelings for her, but that’s not to say he doesn’t like you or that your connection can’t grow stronger and make him totally forget about her eventually. Just something to keep in mind when you make your decision, I know it’s eaiser said than done, but trust your heart ❤️ If you feel it’s worth it and you love him, it’s worth a shot if you can find the compassion and understanding to have patience and not take it personally even though I know how tough it is.
I'm confused on this part then....if you are saying he was only using me. Because it only changed when I said I was paying when we went out, before that you were telling me to hold out....that was my choice because I did want to help him out. I haven't talked to him about why he's helped pay some of her bills and how long he expects this to continue so I don't know. And if it's just a fling, why has he introduced me to him mom, sister, oldest daughter and like 90% of his friends? Things just don't completely add up and it's all so confusing. I do think your readings have made sense and have helped me so I definitely pay attention! I'm hurt and angry by him for sure but the cards so far haven't been like 1000% terrible, just some. LOL But you do see him moving on past her and you did see him introducing me to the kids in a previous reading. Maybe I don't want to believe that the last 3.5 months have all been a lie coming from him because I was developing deep feelings for him. So, can I ask the cards, what is his real issue and does he really want to work on being with me? I see him Wednesday night and I plan on laying everything out for him...so 1 of 2 things will happen BUT I feel like I have to do this! IP: Logged |
dustib Knowflake Posts: 3287 From: USA Registered: Feb 2015
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posted June 11, 2018 03:46 PM
1; why did * unfriend me on fb awhile back? umbrella, cat, giraffe, house, eggs and clarifying card children. The cards are saying he unfriended you to not cause friction with a friend. Looks like this friend thought there was stuff going on and # wanted to preserve that friendship and that was the easiest way to show this person that he wanted to remain friends. Honestly, said friend looks immature to even think FB would end any kind of contact if there was some. 2; Does # hide things from me? And if so, what? tree, arrow and cross
No he really isn't hiding anything from you in terms of what he feels is important or that you need to know.
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LunaIscariot Knowflake Posts: 2769 From: Registered: Aug 2014
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posted June 11, 2018 03:50 PM
Yes I know, I said that before my last reading on how he truly feels towards you and you saying he’s buying her stuff etc. A lot of things have been red flagy but you said things were going well and the cards the other day looked like he was happy etc. But after that last reading it’s very clear. You can do what you want, but I strongly advice you to cut him off ASAP.
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LunaIscariot Knowflake Posts: 2769 From: Registered: Aug 2014
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posted June 11, 2018 03:56 PM
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LunaIscariot Knowflake Posts: 2769 From: Registered: Aug 2014
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posted June 11, 2018 03:57 PM
And yes I will answer the questions you asked in your last post brb IP: Logged |
LunaIscariot Knowflake Posts: 2769 From: Registered: Aug 2014
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posted June 11, 2018 04:07 PM
Does T really want to work on things like he said; 9 of cups, 8 of cups, page of pentacles, sun 2 of pents, 2 of cups, 6 of pents and 4 of pents Wow so this is a mixed bag of energy He does, but he doesn’t. He has one foot out the door, but he’s just taking it one day at a time, his feelings are all over the place (2 of pents). It’s hard to say. Like I said, I think he has fun with you and he does like you, but he’s just not as serious as he probably leads you to believe. I don’t think he knows what he really wants yet. IP: Logged |
dustib Knowflake Posts: 3287 From: USA Registered: Feb 2015
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posted June 11, 2018 04:13 PM
Things have been going well. I only know about this because I checked his phone since I don't trust people. Then saw all of that....I do look back at the time it was happening and it was right after the weekend he disappeared(Memorial Weekend) and then the next weekend I wasn't supposed to see him then because it was his oldest son's birthday and he was doing things with him and his other son but he ended up staying Saturday night and all day Sunday with me. And everything was good. Since then, it was just the gas bill today(since he called them, I'm assuming he paid it) but maybe it's in his name still and he's trying to get it out of his name. Could be a number of things.Can you ask if the friend was # or #? Or was it his gf... #: bird, devil, feet #a: compass, tree, spoon Gf: devil, chair and tombstone Ok so it was not the gf. Do #and # know one another? Based on what the cards are telling my, # fed the idea to #e and # was the one to deliver the idea to him. IP: Logged |
dustib Knowflake Posts: 3287 From: USA Registered: Feb 2015
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posted June 11, 2018 04:17 PM
quote: Originally posted by LunaIscariot: Does T really want to work on things like he said; 9 of cups, 8 of cups, page of pentacles, sun 2 of pents, 2 of cups, 6 of pents and 4 of pents Wow so this is a mixed bag of energy He does, but he doesn’t. He has one foot out the door, but he’s just taking it one day at a time, his feelings are all over the place (2 of pents). It’s hard to say. Like I said, I think he has fun with you and he does like you, but he’s just not as serious as he probably leads you to believe. I don’t think he knows what he really wants yet.
This makes sense honestly especially after this weekend. And he basically said, he's taking it one day at a time to see what happens. And no I don't think he's as serious as I am in all of this....this is his first relationship after him and H have split so he's not had to introduce anyone to the kids. And he claims he doesn't think H will be a problem when he tells...if he tells her about me but I know better. Can I ask, if I tell him Wednesday that I think he needs to figure out what he wants in life and that I'm going to give him the space to do just that because I feel like he's not over H and not 100% into me, what will he do? Like will he be like ok, accept it and be done or will it force him into action? IP: Logged |
LunaIscariot Knowflake Posts: 2769 From: Registered: Aug 2014
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posted June 11, 2018 04:28 PM
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LunaIscariot Knowflake Posts: 2769 From: Registered: Aug 2014
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posted June 11, 2018 04:38 PM
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dustib Knowflake Posts: 3287 From: USA Registered: Feb 2015
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posted June 11, 2018 04:43 PM
That is crazy! And normally I would have done the yes and no's separate instead of all together like I did. But it felt right to do it that way! Thank you for the feedback. Why did #/# want him to unfriend me? Like why did they care so much? hands, comet, clouds, rabbit, cat and clarifying card lock well, they don't like you basically. They want you out of his life just because they don't like you. It's not like there is even a real valid reason here....they think you have gotten too lucky in life and that makes them angry. They did come up with a creative reason to tell him....sadly the cards aren't saying what but that they were creative and gave false information that put up a lot of obstacles and made him delete you. I pulled another card and got the flies....which shows how dirty these 2 are in terms of personality. And quite annoying as well IP: Logged |
LunaIscariot Knowflake Posts: 2769 From: Registered: Aug 2014
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posted June 11, 2018 05:11 PM
Okay so for your question; What will the outcome be if you confront T later like you’re planning to? magician, death, 5 of pents, queen of pents and queen of cups Judgment, moon, 3 of swords and letting go oracle So things will definitely be over... magician is showing communication (the confronting lol) and the death is an ending something changing and 5 of pents is about feeling rejected or left out in the cold/insecure. Interesting there are 2 female woman showing up, I’ve seen this queen of cups come up for the ex before. You must be the queen of pents then, fitting as this is what the convo is going to be about! About you and her. Judgment again is a ending or rebirth, or making a final decision or having an awakening or a “wake up call” the moon is showing illusion and deception, trickery, not seeing things clearly, interesting that this is paired beside the judgment card, I feel this is your energy, like after you confront him everything will become clear to you and you will have an awakening. 3 of swords is separation, break up,betrayal and letting go is just that. So you’ll come to your senses and it will hurt but you’ll be able to move on and let go after that.
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dustib Knowflake Posts: 3287 From: USA Registered: Feb 2015
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posted June 11, 2018 05:46 PM
I'm headed home so will pull as soon as I get there. Crazy as it sounds, I don't want things to be over. I just want him to stop doing all this for the ex and to tell her about me. We can't grow and get closer when he's still trying to get back with her. I know you said he will eventually but how long are we talking because I clearly have issues with her and I think that's fair given his situation IP: Logged |
LunaIscariot Knowflake Posts: 2769 From: Registered: Aug 2014
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posted June 11, 2018 06:01 PM
Sounds good 😊I will pull for you soon too just taking a quick break IP: Logged |
LunaIscariot Knowflake Posts: 2769 From: Registered: Aug 2014
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posted June 11, 2018 06:34 PM
quote: Originally posted by dustib: I'm headed home so will pull as soon as I get there. Crazy as it sounds, I don't want things to be over. I just want him to stop doing all this for the ex and to tell her about me. We can't grow and get closer when he's still trying to get back with her. I know you said he will eventually but how long are we talking because I clearly have issues with her and I think that's fair given his situation
Ok back And trust I understand, love blinds you. I’m not judging at all, I completely get it. I just want what’s best for YOU! ❤️ And I’m here to support whatever you decide to do 👍 Timing is hard with tarot, I haven’t figured out a good consistent method yet, so I asked a different way Will T be over his ex in a year? I got a yes. 5 of wands, 10 of cups, queen of cups (her), emperor (him) lol crazy these signifcators coming up! 3 of wands, 6 of swords,chariot, star and 8 of cups So right now he’s fighting his feelings (5 of wands) he wants the happy family back (10 of cups) but eventually he’s going to look out and see there’s more out there and move away (3 of wands/6 of swords) and again chariot, star and 8 of cups is confirming this that he will move forward (chariot) and there will be healing (star) and he will be moved on finally (8 of cups). So this will happen within a year. More towards the middle to end of a year I’m feeling, so like 5-6 months from now he will actually start really fully moving on and not still holding onto her and tying to get back together. IP: Logged |
dustib Knowflake Posts: 3287 From: USA Registered: Feb 2015
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posted June 11, 2018 06:54 PM
Can you ask why they don’t like me more specifically? Road, fountain, anchor, baby, flowers and clarifying card: man. Ah yes most definitely jealous. I feel it has to do with how Chase talked about you sometimes and how they saw you portrayed. I'm getting they thought you were a goody 2 shoes and they think you act better than everyone. They don't like you because you're a good person....these cards are all good cards. So 100% jealous I have to say, I'm so confused on the 2 readings. One said he was using me then another said he is taking it day by day, he does like me but not to the extent I'm at with feelings. So how can it be both? He wouldn't be using me if he liked me and wanted to go slow.....so I'm confused. What can I ask to clarify? IP: Logged |
LunaIscariot Knowflake Posts: 2769 From: Registered: Aug 2014
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posted June 11, 2018 07:32 PM
InterestingAnd yeah it’s like he does like you, but he’s not serious, because he still has feelings for the ex and he doesn’t really know what he wants, he’s keeping his options open kinda thing I feel. So he’s using you in the sense that it’s selfish because he’s thinking about himself and keeping you around as fun or to kill time or maybe because he likes the attention you give him or as a backup plan idk but if the ex wanted him back he would drop you for her. IP: Logged |
LunaIscariot Knowflake Posts: 2769 From: Registered: Aug 2014
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posted June 11, 2018 07:39 PM
He DOES like you, I’m sure he enjoys spending time with you etc. I don’t think he lying about that at all, he would have no reason to. It’s just that he isn’t serious or shares as deep of feelings, and he lies about things, he hasn’t been completely honest with you. He just wants a fling, to have fun right now, he isn’t committed. So that’s what I mean by “using you”. I don’t think he’s pretending to like you or anything like that, maybe just exaggerating a bit to keep you around etc. IP: Logged |
dustib Knowflake Posts: 3287 From: USA Registered: Feb 2015
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posted June 11, 2018 07:50 PM
That's where I get confused....he's the one who wanted the relationship. He's the one who brought it up and he talks about our future....it's almost like he's trying to convince himself that he can get over her. Let me ask this: will either one of them try to approach the other again to work it out? Or are they finally out of tries? And I know I'm driving you nuts but I trust your readings as you have been very on point and accurate. I'm just trying to figure out if I hold out a bit longer but put my guard up, if it will change. I just want her out of the pic or to be told about me. What lies did they tell? Turtle, snake, circle, fountain, baby and clarifying card: flowers. Well first of all, they told him basically that you are a sl*t and will sleep with anyone. I also see they lied and said you have an STD because of that. Looks like most everything they told him was sex related. I also see something about an ended pregnancy(turtle + baby). IP: Logged |
LunaIscariot Knowflake Posts: 2769 From: Registered: Aug 2014
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posted June 11, 2018 08:16 PM
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dustib Knowflake Posts: 3287 From: USA Registered: Feb 2015
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posted June 11, 2018 08:19 PM
Yes I do remember that which makes it crazy. But people will lie without a 2nd thought as we know. Did you see my questions? IP: Logged |
LunaIscariot Knowflake Posts: 2769 From: Registered: Aug 2014
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posted June 11, 2018 08:25 PM
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dustib Knowflake Posts: 3287 From: USA Registered: Feb 2015
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posted June 11, 2018 08:29 PM
Lol yeah I can sometimes get better readings then. IP: Logged |
dustib Knowflake Posts: 3287 From: USA Registered: Feb 2015
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posted June 12, 2018 06:20 AM
He went completely silent last night....and I don't even know why. Back to ignoring me but that's OK, I don't plan on reaching out to him again. If he wants it over this way then that's how it will happen. But WHY did he go silent? IP: Logged |