posted June 11, 2018 03:36 PM            

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Originally posted by LunaIscariot:
Yes, that would make sense I’m very sorry!
* was obsessed with his ex for a long time when we got together, refused to cut contact with her and would stalk her fb and lie about talking to her etc. He wanted her back but she started dating his best friend.
So I definitely know what it’s like to be a “rebound” or dealing with someone with baggage and how frustrating and hurtful it is to feel like the second choice or under appreciated etc.
BUT, if you can put your pride to the side and give your relationship and connection time to get stronger and his feelings for you to grow, this might change. She’s not a real threat or this isn’t an actual issue like he’s not cheating etc., as like the cards showed and even he himself said she doesn’t want him, so try keep that perspective in mind when you decide what you’re going to do. They were together a long time and it’s only natural that he still has feelings for her, but that’s not to say he doesn’t like you or that your connection can’t grow stronger and make him totally forget about her eventually.
Just something to keep in mind when you make your decision, I know it’s eaiser said than done, but trust your heart ❤️ If you feel it’s worth it and you love him, it’s worth a shot if you can find the compassion and understanding to have patience and not take it personally even though I know how tough it is.

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I'm confused on this part then....if you are saying he was only using me. Because it only changed when I said I was paying when we went out, before that you were telling me to hold out....that was my choice because I did want to help him out. I haven't talked to him about why he's helped pay some of her bills and how long he expects this to continue so I don't know. And if it's just a fling, why has he introduced me to him mom, sister, oldest daughter and like 90% of his friends? Things just don't completely add up and it's all so confusing. I do think your readings have made sense and have helped me so I definitely pay attention! I'm hurt and angry by him for sure but the cards so far haven't been like 1000% terrible, just some. LOL But you do see him moving on past her and you did see him introducing me to the kids in a previous reading. Maybe I don't want to believe that the last 3.5 months have all been a lie coming from him because I was developing deep feelings for him.

posted June 11, 2018 03:46 PM            

2; Does # hide things from me? And if so, what?
tree, arrow and cross

posted June 11, 2018 04:13 PM            

Can you ask if the friend was # or #? Or was it his gf...

#: bird, devil, feet

#a: compass, tree, spoon

Gf: devil, chair and tombstone

posted June 11, 2018 04:17 PM            

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Originally posted by LunaIscariot:
Does T really want to work on things like he said;
9 of cups, 8 of cups, page of pentacles, sun
2 of pents, 2 of cups, 6 of pents and 4 of pents
Wow so this is a mixed bag of energy
He does, but he doesn’t. He has one foot out the door, but he’s just taking it one day at a time, his feelings are all over the place (2 of pents).
It’s hard to say. Like I said, I think he has fun with you and he does like you, but he’s just not as serious as he probably leads you to believe. I don’t think he knows what he really wants yet.

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This makes sense honestly especially after this weekend. And he basically said, he's taking it one day at a time to see what happens. And no I don't think he's as serious as I am in all of this....this is his first relationship after him and H have split so he's not had to introduce anyone to the kids. And he claims he doesn't think H will be a problem when he tells...if he tells her about me but I know better.

posted June 11, 2018 04:43 PM            

Why did #/# want him to unfriend me? Like why did they care so much?

hands, comet, clouds, rabbit, cat and clarifying card lock

posted June 11, 2018 05:11 PM            

Okay so for your question;
What will the outcome be if you confront T later like you’re planning to?
magician, death, 5 of pents, queen of pents and queen of cups
Judgment, moon, 3 of swords and letting go oracle

So things will definitely be over...
magician is showing communication (the confronting lol) and the death is an ending something changing and 5 of pents is about feeling rejected or left out in the cold/insecure. Interesting there are 2 female woman showing up, I’ve seen this queen of cups come up for the ex before. You must be the queen of pents then, fitting as this is what the convo is going to be about! About you and her.
Judgment again is a ending or rebirth, or making a final decision or having an awakening or a “wake up call” the moon is showing illusion and deception, trickery, not seeing things clearly, interesting that this is paired beside the judgment card, I feel this is your energy, like after you confront him everything will become clear to you and you will have an awakening. 3 of swords is separation, break up,betrayal and letting go is just that.
So you’ll come to your senses and it will hurt but you’ll be able to move on and let go after that.

posted June 11, 2018 06:34 PM            

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Originally posted by dustib:
I'm headed home so will pull as soon as I get there.

Crazy as it sounds, I don't want things to be over. I just want him to stop doing all this for the ex and to tell her about me. We can't grow and get closer when he's still trying to get back with her. I know you said he will eventually but how long are we talking because I clearly have issues with her and I think that's fair given his situation

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Ok back
And trust I understand, love blinds you. I’m not judging at all, I completely get it. I just want what’s best for YOU! ❤️ And I’m here to support whatever you decide to do 👍

Timing is hard with tarot, I haven’t figured out a good consistent method yet, so I asked a different way

Will T be over his ex in a year?
I got a yes.
5 of wands, 10 of cups, queen of cups (her), emperor (him) lol crazy these signifcators coming up! 3 of wands, 6 of swords,chariot, star and 8 of cups

So right now he’s fighting his feelings (5 of wands) he wants the happy family back (10 of cups) but eventually he’s going to look out and see there’s more out there and move away (3 of wands/6 of swords) and again chariot, star and 8 of cups is confirming this that he will move forward (chariot) and there will be healing (star) and he will be moved on finally (8 of cups).
So this will happen within a year. More towards the middle to end of a year I’m feeling, so like 5-6 months from now he will actually start really fully moving on and not still holding onto her and tying to get back together.

posted June 11, 2018 06:54 PM            

Road, fountain, anchor, baby, flowers and clarifying card: man.

Ah yes most definitely jealous. I feel it has to do with how Chase talked about you sometimes and how they saw you portrayed. I'm getting they thought you were a goody 2 shoes and they think you act better than everyone. They don't like you because you're a good person....these cards are all good cards. So 100% jealous

I have to say, I'm so confused on the 2 readings. One said he was using me then another said he is taking it day by day, he does like me but not to the extent I'm at with feelings. So how can it be both? He wouldn't be using me if he liked me and wanted to go slow.....so I'm confused.

posted June 11, 2018 07:32 PM            

And yeah it’s like he does like you, but he’s not serious, because he still has feelings for the ex and he doesn’t really know what he wants, he’s keeping his options open kinda thing I feel.
So he’s using you in the sense that it’s selfish because he’s thinking about himself and keeping you around as fun or to kill time or maybe because he likes the attention you give him or as a backup plan idk but if the ex wanted him back he would drop you for her.

posted June 11, 2018 07:50 PM            

Let me ask this: will either one of them try to approach the other again to work it out? Or are they finally out of tries? And I know I'm driving you nuts but I trust your readings as you have been very on point and accurate. I'm just trying to figure out if I hold out a bit longer but put my guard up, if it will change. I just want her out of the pic or to be told about me.

What lies did they tell?
Turtle, snake, circle, fountain, baby and clarifying card: flowers.