posted August 24, 2018 07:07 PM            

I really don't know if this is the right move or not

I don't want it to end badly but I wanna speak my truth....

can we do a reading exchange please???

I want to ask my guides if this is the RIGHT thing to do and will have positive results for my daughter

I'll include the letter here if anyone wants to read it to get a feel.... BUT will delete later

I wanted to just write you an entirely honest letter. I feel that you are really damaging your relationship with Devi by forcing these visits. I have ALWAYS been of the mindset that I will support Devi in what she wants and I would never dissuade her from seeing you if that is what she wanted. I would have no limits to the extent that she could pursue that. But the truth is, she doesn’t want to see you right now. She hardly knows you. She doesn’t have memories from her baby-hood and you went almost a year without contacting her.

I would like you to consider how you would feel in her shoes. How would you feel if someone you didn’t want to go around was using their power to force you to be with them? I just don’t believe this is a good foundation for a relationship. Obviously, you have the power to continue and that is your prerogative. Devi’s life is very stable and happy and filled with love and she doesn’t currently have any feeling that she is missing anything. I know that is hard, but I never pushed you out of Devi’s life… You just weren’t there. She got used to that and now, suddenly, you want to force your way in?

I am curious as to why you don’t let it be on Devi’s accord. I just think you are wrong when you think that you can just force her to do this and that this is going to result in a good relationship between the two of you. I will be happy to take videos to show you how much she cries and screams and begs me to tell you she doesn’t wanna go. It takes her many days to even come back to center after a visit, that is how much it affects her.

You are free to do what you want, but I feel like it would be so much more respectful to her to tell her that you are always there for her and want to see her and have a relationship with her and left it up to HER when she wants to pursue that. I will be honest that I don’t think your intention is selfless. I know YOU want to see Devi and I feel like that is where you are coming from. You want to be in her life and you want to be important to her…. But, you are severely shaking up a little girl’s life and sense of normalcy by pursuing this. I just wanted to be honest with you, incase you were unaware… so that if you choose to pursue this moving forward you understand what you are doing. If this was a positive thing for Devi, I would not be saying this, in fact I would be grateful for it and absolutely encouraging it.

I have yet to see a healthy example of a flourishing relationship that began out of force. Consider that. I am not against you. I would support Devi in whatever she wanted. Yes, you are her dad and, no matter what circumstances, I would NEVER be the one to X you out of her life (even if I had the ability). That is not my place.

Devi tells me that the visits are the “worst days of her life”. I know that isn’t how you want her to feel, but I feel that it unfair to her to not care how she feels about it. I feel that you forcing her to be with you after being so absent is really damaging the foundation of your relationship. Obviously, you have the legal right to force it. Would you be inspired to feel close and trust someone you felt truly didn’t care about how you feel? I tell her that you just want to see her, but over and over again she just says, “why doesn’t he care how I feel?”

I am not trying to persuade you either way. I just want you to know how Devi is feeling and the affect this is having in her life. I may be wrong, but my intuition is that you are forcing this because you are scared of being cut out of Devi’s life forever. I want to ensure you, that will never happen. That door will never shut. But, if it were up to me, I would have that be something that Devi can initiate when she is ready. I think that would be the most respectful thing to do.

posted August 24, 2018 07:28 PM            

lmk if this makes sense . I can answer more q if u like

posted August 24, 2018 08:08 PM            

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Originally posted by furrybunny:
so I asked which outcome is best for her and it seems to say to send it. although the father won't like it and will try to meet Devi and confront her in the next visit, he will ultimately back down or decrease amount of visits but that won't be in the near future. I do feel like it'll be difficult interacting with him for a while. he will accuse u of making it up or lying and maybe teaching her to hate him and the likes. I don't think hell back down soon . but I feel like it needs to be said and hell slowly see that it might be true during these visits and reconsider. the visits are some sort of a control / power over u.

lmk if this makes sense . I can answer more q if u like

im just curious if x was indeed on the same floor as me today, did he feel positively about me or negatively when he saw me?

thanks

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posted August 24, 2018 08:12 PM            

Is it going to be a slow moving relationship with x ? Like is it worth my time and energy at this point ?

posted August 24, 2018 08:21 PM            

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Originally posted by furrybunny:
No worries then maybe he wasn’t there today. I thought I saw him by wasn’t sure either .

Is it going to be a slow moving relationship with x ? Like is it worth my time and energy at this point ?

U have any more q for me ?

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honestly I get only good things for X
I do get some slowness, but not in a bad way, just more like a waiting to do things the right way energy.

I feel that he has good intentions for you and does genuinely like you.

I pulled some cards too and it looks all good

posted August 24, 2018 08:42 PM            

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Originally posted by furrybunny:
Ahh that’s sweet. I’ll just let things happen instead of being weird

Your daughters name is super cute though and I hope everything works out for both of you! 💕

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thanks girl

it means goddess in Sanskrit. I was in school for Ayurvedic med when I was pregnant

posted August 24, 2018 09:01 PM            

Strength - 4 of pentacles - 8 of swords - 6 of swords - The Chariot

posted August 24, 2018 09:14 PM            

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Originally posted by Orange:
I pulled for your question and the cards suggest that initially O. will resist your request, the letter will not have an immediate result, he will be holding his place for a while. He will not get angry or anything like that but I see him holding up his cards close to his chest. However, the letter will be a step towards a later success so I think you should send it, because after the first three cards showing resistance, I see the 6 of Swords and the Chariot. It shows him moving away, initially slowly up and then he just rides away alone. Will take some time but it is worth the effort.

Strength - 4 of pentacles - 8 of swords - 6 of swords - The Chariot

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posted August 24, 2018 09:16 PM            

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Originally posted by Orange:
If you can answer a question for me , that would be great. I wonder about the thoughts and emotions of MR tonight in regard to me, now.

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all good things. and I actually get the feeling that MR is actually actively thinking about your right now. like, you are tuned into each other, its a mutual thinking of eachtoher going on right now.
im also getting the impression that they are thinking of reaching out, but that they are trying to better themselves a bit. like you know when you are trying to get super hot for your wedding or whatever? that kind of energy with them haha

posted August 24, 2018 09:49 PM            

Well the cards cannot be any clearer than that.. yes, you should send it. It will be in the benefit of everyone - you'll feel less stressed, your daughter will be less traumatized, and maybe you ex will breathe a sigh of relief, like he doesn't have to overcompensate for being a deadbeat, he can just chill and revert back to his natural personality.

He's obviously going to get emotional over this letter, but in due time he will understand your point.

Now cards aside.. I highly recommend sending this letter after Monday. Why? Because Mars is currently retrograde and has been since late June. You don't want to send anything resembling legal-ese at this present moment, it's just going to backfire.

So I say wait a few days, maybe review the letter every day with fresh eyes, trim the fat (unnecessary detail where you see fit), then go ahead and send it.

posted August 24, 2018 10:31 PM            

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Originally posted by athenaia:
World, Lovers, King of Cups, Chariot, Sun

Well the cards cannot be any clearer than that.. yes, you should send it. It will be in the benefit of everyone - you'll feel less stressed, your daughter will be less traumatized, and maybe you ex will breathe a sigh of relief, like he doesn't have to overcompensate for being a deadbeat, he can just chill and revert back to his natural personality.

He's obviously going to get emotional over this letter, but in due time he will understand your point.

Now cards aside.. I highly recommend sending this letter after Monday. Why? Because Mars is currently retrograde and has been since late June. You don't want to send anything resembling legal-ese at this present moment, it's just going to backfire.

So I say wait a few days, maybe review the letter every day with fresh eyes, trim the fat (unnecessary detail where you see fit), then go ahead and send it.

Also, if I recall correctly, you're a Pisces Sun/Virgo Moon?? Well this Sunday is a Full Moon in Pisces, which is why you might feel the urgency mounting to send this, but I personally believe that it's best to just wait a little

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posted August 25, 2018 03:39 PM            

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Originally posted by poochycat:
Hi Missy
I’ll exchange if you like. Do you see J agreeing to go out for drinks with myself (S) and M in the future.

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posted August 25, 2018 03:41 PM            

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Originally posted by poochycat:
Hi Missy
I’ll exchange if you like. Do you see J agreeing to go out for drinks with myself (S) and M in the future.

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posted August 25, 2018 04:05 PM            

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Originally posted by poochycat:
Thanks. Anything for you?🙂

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posted August 25, 2018 04:51 PM            

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Originally posted by poochycat:
Judgement, death, sun
No. I remember doing a reading on this previously. As
I remember the cards were showing financial gain. There was the ten of pentacles! So I feel this will be like a “stepping stone” if you will. Your move to Hawaii will happen but not as quickly as you hoped. I pulled the judgement card for you and it is saying there are still issues to deal with. The death card is showing endings, something final. I also pulled the sun as your final card. Hawaii, litteraly. 😉😎

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