posted October 12, 2018 06:52 PM            

So... I am feeling some anxiety.

I'm in a weird situation because my dad has somewhat become involved in my business.... which my husband and I made by ourselves!

Now, he is pressuring us to grow things... work with investors... basically he wants us to make this some big s***. My husband and I are basically OVER this idea. We just wanna move to Kauai and run our little business and stop trying to 'push' it into being something big. We wanna just let it grow naturally.

I'm nervous bc I am scared my dad will get upset with me.... or be disappointed. I just don't wanna stay here and be with all these business folks. I wanna move to Hawaii in March with my family and start our life there! I believe our business can grow naturally. I don't feel like I wanna take investors money...

I don't have a specific question, but I need guidance! Will you guys look into any part of this situation?

posted October 12, 2018 07:18 PM            

OK Missy, so this situation is a big deal for you, not just taxing on you emotionally and financially, but it's actually a situation given to you by the universe that's going to propel you into the next level of your consciousness, regardless of whatever choice you pick. The fact that I pulled 7 cards and 5 of them are major arcana just says it all.

I believe that you will decide to cut and run from the big-wig-business guys and do your own thing. Running off to Hawaii would make you feel light, free, and be a huge boost to the most basic part of your ego that wants instant gratification (Fool/6 of Wands). But I think making a drastic decision would not be wise, as (God forbid) if anything goes haywire, you won't have your dad and his business friends as a financial backup anymore. Burning that bridge could have dire consequences (Tower/4 of Cups).

So, while philosophically it does not resonate with you at ALL, I believe that a compromise between your absolute freedom and the douchey business men would be within your best interest, as well as the best interest of the financial security of your family. Having to reconcile your beliefs with your distaste for capitalism/greed is necessary in order to better your life (Hermit/Devil). Remember, you are in control! No matter what they say, you are the figurehead behind the company. Let your dad know that if you're to go into business truly with these folks, you will maintain creative and executive control. See if he can write this within a legal framework. Compromise with him, everyone wins, and you'll have a more sturdy financial safety net AND you won't feel so psychically oppressed by this situation (High Priestess)

posted October 12, 2018 08:13 PM            

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Originally posted by athenaia:
Fool, Tower, Hermit (Devil), Four of Cups (High Priestess), 6 of Wands

OK Missy, so this situation is a big deal for you, not just taxing on you emotionally and financially, but it's actually a situation given to you by the universe that's going to propel you into the next level of your consciousness, regardless of whatever choice you pick. The fact that I pulled 7 cards and 5 of them are major arcana just says it all.

I believe that you will decide to cut and run from the big-wig-business guys and do your own thing. Running off to Hawaii would make you feel light, free, and be a huge boost to the most basic part of your ego that wants instant gratification (Fool/6 of Wands). But I think making a drastic decision would not be wise, as (God forbid) if anything goes haywire, you won't have your dad and his business friends as a financial backup anymore. Burning that bridge could have dire consequences (Tower/4 of Cups).

So, while philosophically it does not resonate with you at ALL, I believe that a compromise between your absolute freedom and the douchey business men would be within your best interest, as well as the best interest of the financial security of your family. Having to reconcile your beliefs with your distaste for capitalism/greed is necessary in order to better your life (Hermit/Devil). Remember, you are in control! No matter what they say, you are the figurehead behind the company. Let your dad know that if you're to go into business truly with these folks, you will maintain creative and executive control. See if he can write this within a legal framework. Compromise with him, everyone wins, and you'll have a more sturdy financial safety net AND you won't feel so psychically oppressed by this situation (High Priestess)

So, my question.. I'm dating this guy, EL. Things were going great but I'm noticing a distance from him lately. Do you think it's possible to pick up on why this is from him?

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okay so for your question;

it seems that he is in a bad place. a very bad place. he is still processing a lot of pain from a past relationship and is dealing with a lot of pain that is raw and really surfacing right now. he did like you and feel a good energy, but because of what is surfacing he sort of feels like it is just not going to be able to happen right now, so he is withdrawing and focusing on himself. def some venus retrograde type of ****

posted October 12, 2018 08:36 PM            

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Originally posted by Caprika:
I can pull some cards for you about it.
I will ask if you should take on the investors and see where the cards will lead with this idea.

can I ask to see the energy of M. tonight. I cant shake off the thought of him in my mind but not sure what he is feeling or thinking

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I really don't want to take on the investors... like at all. I more want to know if I will be supported by the universe should I choose to do this on my own and move to kauai

posted October 12, 2018 08:45 PM            

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Originally posted by Caprika:
I just uploaded a picture of the cards for you to have a visual. They show an emotional loss if you take on the investors. Not a financial loss but an emotional one. You might regret it, just like you feel it will happen. It shows a burden as well as intense struggle to keep afloat mostly because your heart is not in it. I see your father as the King of Cups, in the middle of all, he does mean well and he comes from a place of love. But he is a King and he doesn't consider your feelings, he wants you to do as he says because he "knows better". The final card is Judgment which shows that you will be judged and weighted at the end , measured by how you handled the business endeavor, you will be expected to do certain things. I don't think, based on the cards, that you will be happy with this decision. Follow your heart and intuition, it never fails.

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posted October 12, 2018 08:51 PM            

I had already started pulling cards when I posted.
I can pull again for the other option, if you will be supported by the universe.

posted October 12, 2018 09:13 PM            

First card is all what we want - a blissful family life, kids, husband and you being happy. I see that you will be very peaceful there, away from all toxicity, you will feel free and unhinged (devil reversed). I don't see you expanding your business there, you will not have the energy to strike it big, you will be satisfied with little and make just enough money to go by and this will make you happy actually. There will not be push from your side for anything big, it will be just the medium that you can afford, but with a peace of mind.

I hope those two spreads can easy your mind a bit.

posted October 12, 2018 09:20 PM            

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Originally posted by Caprika:
so i just pulled for the other option - you moving to Hawaii and have it on your own.

First card is all what we want - a blissful family life, kids, husband and you being happy. I see that you will be very peaceful there, away from all toxicity, you will feel free and unhinged (devil reversed). I don't see you expanding your business there, you will not have the energy to strike it big, you will be satisfied with little and make just enough money to go by and this will make you happy actually. There will not be push from your side for anything big, it will be just the medium that you can afford, but with a peace of mind.

I hope those two spreads can easy your mind a bit.

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aw that is sweet of you to pull again, you didn't have to do that! I do appreciate it though!

posted October 12, 2018 09:46 PM            

so, if this is what you want - you know where to find it. Anything else would be forced against your nature and ideology, and a slow decline.

posted October 12, 2018 11:45 PM            

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Originally posted by Caprika:
yes, this second spread shows exactly that.

so, if this is what you want - you know where to find it. Anything else would be forced against your nature and ideology, and a slow decline.

btw, If you get anything else on my luv M., like - is he chasing after other females or is he wanting us back, id be interested to hear. But what you said before is good enough to me as well.

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posted October 13, 2018 01:41 AM            

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Originally posted by Caprika:
i hope these are my pics he is looking at!!! as i sent him a few from my office the other day and from my run, at his request lol

but yeah, it could be pics of others too. Which is not good, ugh, cheater

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