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posted October 18, 2018 03:18 PM            

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I’m having the worst day with my husband

We basically aren’t talking. I told him that I felt like he wasn’t being nice enough to our daughter and he got all upset, took an hour long shower, then left for an hour and slept in the living room.

I’m upset and neither of us will talk to eachother. This definitely feels like the worst fight we’ve ever had. 😓

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posted October 18, 2018 04:09 PM            

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I ams so sorry you are going through this! I think is good you stood up for your daughter- that is very important. I will keep you in my thoughts ❤️

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posted October 18, 2018 04:36 PM            

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Good for you for standing your ground. Child has no one else than her/his parents to count on. Your hubby is upset of course as no one wants to be scolded about ones parenting and to feel one is not behaving for the best interest of the child: But sometimes people need eyes opening experiences. It will pass. All the best

And tell him not to waste water in the future

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posted October 18, 2018 04:51 PM            

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thanks guys

I will admit I am probably playing into it making it worse/ bc we are both just ignoring each other and it creates such a terrible energy.

im just upset. I feel like he doesnt even care enough to talk to me :/ maybe he thinks the same thing

and the thing is too, hes really an AWESOME dad, he just sometimes struggles with moodiness (scorpio) and he occasionally takes it out on our daughter (who is such a handful, but still only 5).... she's Aries moon with mars on her Leo ascendant.

the energy today is literally painful. im not used to this bc we really never have conflict

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posted October 18, 2018 05:09 PM            

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Have you checked out your tansits to the composite chart? Reason why this energy is manifesting might be found there. But yeah it’s not always easy to be spouse and parent :/

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posted October 18, 2018 06:56 PM            

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Venus R lol
Causing problems for lots of relationships

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posted October 18, 2018 08:51 PM            

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Originally posted by LunaIscariot:
Venus R lol
Causing problems for lots of relationships

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dude I know

I mean I guess I shouldn't complain because this is like the biggest issue we have ever had

and this would have been a good day in my past relationships

no yelling, no rudeness, no drama. basically we both just mope around and ignore each other. we are usually so close though, that it is so painful!

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posted October 24, 2018 04:07 PM            

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Hope things have improved.

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posted October 30, 2018 10:16 PM            

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Bump!

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posted October 30, 2018 10:47 PM            

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yes things are better now

we were able to talk through it and are in a good place again!

im grateful that even when things are "so bad" it is really just like passive aggressive moodiness that feels like a stab in the heart because it hurts so bad whenever there is any negativity between us

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