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Topic: Dreamcatcher
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MrShawn
Knowflake Posts: 53
From: Solar System
Registered: Sep 2018
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posted November 14, 2018 04:51 AM
  
Hi Dream
Had a follow up on the reading you did for me. Just to remind you, It was about my ex who is now engaged. You’d said something on the lines of her not being happy with the situation and I should try and reach out to her and tell her how I feel. I’ve tried really hard to do that in the past and been shot down brutally. It in fact annoyed her. Her attitude towards me changed really fast and I have withdrawn after numerous attempts to win her back. Haven’t spoken to her at all for month and a half. Thought that it’ll be better to let her be given that she’s now engaged. I gotta call from her yesterday but I was too nervous to answer Coz I thought she’ll just break the news of her engagement to me (i got to know about her engagement from common friends) and I wasn’t sure how to respond. I’ll be calling her back in a few hours. Would you be able to tell me what this call will be about? Any suggestion on how i should act Coz I really am clueless on this  IP: Logged |
DreamCatcher
Knowflake Posts: 2030
From: United States
Registered: Feb 2015
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posted November 14, 2018 07:22 PM
Hi Mr,Did you speak with her yet? Still want me to read this? IP: Logged |
MrShawn
Knowflake Posts: 53
From: Solar System
Registered: Sep 2018
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posted November 14, 2018 09:00 PM
Hi Dream
Thanks for your response.
So I spoke to her. I kept a very strong front. She tried to be strong but her voice was very shaky and I could make out that she wanted to cry. For like 8 months I left no stone unturned in asking her to hang on to the relationship but she was adamant to leave. Every time she refused, it killed my spirit. That’s why I presented a bold front. Now that she’s gotten herself into this engagement, she’s not happy about it....atleast for now. So you were right about that. I’m just not sure how being honest with my feelings will help the situation. Can you tell me how she felt after the call? Is she expecting me to call? IP: Logged |
MrShawn
Knowflake Posts: 53
From: Solar System
Registered: Sep 2018
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posted November 15, 2018 09:16 AM
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MrShawn
Knowflake Posts: 53
From: Solar System
Registered: Sep 2018
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posted November 15, 2018 10:46 PM
Bumping for DreamIP: Logged |
DreamCatcher
Knowflake Posts: 2030
From: United States
Registered: Feb 2015
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posted November 16, 2018 07:59 AM
Hi Shawn,This girl is really confused and depressed. She sees you as a good friend right now, also someone who is stable. She's unsure of her current life direction and path at the moment. If I were you, I would approach this as a friendship and let her know that you are there for her without mentioning anything else at the moment. Allow conversations to flow naturally, and she will come around and open up to you... As for how she feels about you...
I see here that she currently feels like you are trying to have a relationship with her, and she is seeing you as 'oressure' for her,even though she does see you as a good friend. There is potentail for more here, but she would have to feel like it is her idea, and on her terms. It's like I said above, keep your heart option, but keep your options open also. Be a good friend to her, and let her come to you.....I hope this helps a little. IP: Logged |
MrShawn
Knowflake Posts: 53
From: Solar System
Registered: Sep 2018
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posted November 16, 2018 08:11 AM
It does help Dream. Thank you so much  . I’m refraining from calling her. You recon I should just wait for her to call?IP: Logged |
DreamCatcher
Knowflake Posts: 2030
From: United States
Registered: Feb 2015
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posted November 16, 2018 08:37 AM
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Originally posted by MrShawn:
It does help Dream. Thank you so much . I’m refraining from calling her. You recon I should just wait for her to call?
You can call her, but be non-chalant IP: Logged |
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