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SunAscendant
Knowflake

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posted November 17, 2018 03:38 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for SunAscendant     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Please help me figure out when I'll finally find love. I've been getting so depressed over it lately because I feel like it'll never happen. I know I'm "only 26 and still have my whole life ahead of me" but I'm sorry, I can't help but worry about this. I desperately want to find love and get married before I'm in my mid 30's. I know some people think that's stupid but that's just what I desire.


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furrybunny
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posted November 17, 2018 04:24 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for furrybunny     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I did tarot and got end of 1 to 2 years for you. You’ll meet someone significant by then. Good luck !

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SunAscendant
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posted November 17, 2018 04:49 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for SunAscendant     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by furrybunny:
I did tarot and got end of 1 to 2 years for you. You’ll meet someone significant by then. Good luck !

So Dec 2019 or 2020? What card(s)? Thanks!

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Springtimeflower
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posted November 17, 2018 08:14 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Springtimeflower     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Hi Sun!


Look at transiting Saturn in Cap that is happening right now. It's getting closer to your 7th house. Once it goes over your natal Uranus in Cap and Neptune in Cap, you should experience some changes in how you view relationships and what you want in a partner. Neptune in Cap can be idealistic and with Saturn transiting your natal Neptune, it will bring you the realities of relationships/partnerships. Expect someone mature or chronologically older than yourself, earthy and possibly sensual.

Best wishes,

Spring

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Springtimeflower
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posted November 17, 2018 08:17 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Springtimeflower     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
December 11, 2019 is when Saturn will start to move away from Neptune in your 7th house. Expect some things to drive you bonkers (relationship wise) a few weeks before that.

Hope this helps!

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SunAscendant
Knowflake

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posted November 17, 2018 10:12 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for SunAscendant     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
quote:
Originally posted by Springtimeflower:
Hi Sun!


Look at transiting Saturn in Cap that is happening right now. It's getting closer to your 7th house. Once it goes over your natal Uranus in Cap and Neptune in Cap, you should experience some changes in how you view relationships and what you want in a partner. Neptune in Cap can be idealistic and with Saturn transiting your natal Neptune, it will bring you the realities of relationships/partnerships. Expect someone mature or chronologically older than yourself, earthy and possibly sensual.

Best wishes,

Spring


Yes Jan 7th is the day I think when it'll be exact. My mom is Cancer rising as well and when she got married 30 years ago, the last time Saturn transited Cap, she had transit Saturn exactly conjunct her DC on her wedding day. I did notice this transit coming up for me and realized Saturn was at the same position on my mom's wedding day, but I'm not sure if anything auspicious will happen to me because I assume that it means solidifying a marriage more so than aiding in you meeting someone long term, but I pray I'm wrong. I hope that this upcoming transit doesn't just "work" for solidifying marriages, I hope it "works" for also bringing a long-term "Capricorn" type stable person to me for a relationship.

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SunAscendant
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posted November 17, 2018 10:14 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for SunAscendant     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
quote:
Originally posted by Springtimeflower:
December 11, 2019 is when Saturn will start to move away from Neptune in your 7th house. Expect some things to drive you bonkers (relationship wise) a few weeks before that.

Hope this helps!


My natal Neptune-Uranus conjunction is at 18 Capricorn and transit Saturn hasn't come close to those degrees just yet

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SunAscendant
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posted November 17, 2018 10:36 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for SunAscendant     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
quote:
Originally posted by Springtimeflower:
Hi Sun!


Look at transiting Saturn in Cap that is happening right now. It's getting closer to your 7th house. Once it goes over your natal Uranus in Cap and Neptune in Cap, you should experience some changes in how you view relationships and what you want in a partner. Neptune in Cap can be idealistic and with Saturn transiting your natal Neptune, it will bring you the realities of relationships/partnerships. Expect someone mature or chronologically older than yourself, earthy and possibly sensual.

Best wishes,

Spring


Also, would this happen when Saturn goes over my DC or Neptune?

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athenaia
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posted November 17, 2018 10:40 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for athenaia     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Gotta say I don't think it's a question of transits but a matter of working on difficult natal aspects.

The biggest hindrances to love that I see are Pluto in H5, Neptune in H7, Saturn in H8 and a tight Venus/Neptune square.

With Pluto in the H5, the lightness of dating might elude you. You might come on too strong, too heavy, too intense too quick. Maybe other people sense this juggernaut of emotions and back away before things get started. Psychologically you may want to analyze any patterns of behavior you've indulged in that have pushed suitors away in the early stages of courtship.

Neptune in H7 - Idealization. Not seeing people for who they are. Perhaps chasing people with specific qualities that are not compatible with your personality/lifestyle and going for them time and time again in spite of that? Not seeing romance clearly, not backing away when red flags are obvious?

Uranus in H7 - Maybe wanting things to happen at a rapid rate, the courtship phase is cut down, things become too serious too fast and this may lead to strange dissatisfaction in spite of wanting it earlier. This might also be a symptom of Venus in Aries.

Saturn in H8 - Karmic lessons when it comes to sex. Might need to be analyzed further by the native.

Venus square Neptune - I have this exact aspect in these exact signs and it's a b*tch, but it can be worked against. You just have to be HIGHLY rational and being double earth, this shouldn't be too difficult a task for you.

I'm surprised nothing happened this time last year for you romantically? Transitting Jupiter in Scorpio would have formed a kite with your grand trine involving your Sun/NN/Jupiter. If you didn't have a single successful love affair while Jupiter was transitting your 5th, you definitely need to reconcile more with your natal chart and try to make it work for you.

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SunAscendant
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posted November 17, 2018 11:08 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for SunAscendant     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
quote:
Originally posted by athenaia:

I'm surprised nothing happened this time last year for you romantically? Transitting Jupiter in Scorpio would have formed a kite with your grand trine involving your Sun/NN/Jupiter. If you didn't have a single successful love affair while Jupiter was transitting your 5th, you definitely need to reconcile more with your natal chart and try to make it work for you. [/B]


I'm currently having transit Pluto square my Venus so this absolutely awful transit plus progressed Venus in eact opposition to progressed Pluto right now too negated any of those Jupiterian benefits I was expecting. Sure I mean I dated guys but nothing that became a relationship. Transit Jupiter is now in my progressed 5th house so idk if that could do anything But yeah I have a terrible chart and feel sorry for myself. Like I seriously should have had a relationship. It's the least the universe could give me after giving me such a terrible chart with planets in detriment and sh*t venus square nep-uranus in exact aspect. When transit Saturn squares Venus next year I really don't know if I can handle any of the negative things that god awful transit might bring

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SunAscendant
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posted November 18, 2018 12:02 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for SunAscendant     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
quote:
Originally posted by athenaia:
Gotta say I don't think it's a question of transits but a matter of working on difficult natal aspects.

The biggest hindrances to love that I see are Pluto in H5, Neptune in H7, Saturn in H8 and a tight Venus/Neptune square.

With Pluto in the H5, the lightness of dating might elude you. You might come on too strong, too heavy, too intense too quick. Maybe other people sense this juggernaut of emotions and back away before things get started. Psychologically you may want to analyze any patterns of behavior you've indulged in that have pushed suitors away in the early stages of courtship.

Neptune in H7 - Idealization. Not seeing people for who they are. Perhaps chasing people with specific qualities that are not compatible with your personality/lifestyle and going for them time and time again in spite of that? Not seeing romance clearly, not backing away when red flags are obvious?

Uranus in H7 - Maybe wanting things to happen at a rapid rate, the courtship phase is cut down, things become too serious too fast and this may lead to strange dissatisfaction in spite of wanting it earlier. This might also be a symptom of Venus in Aries.

Saturn in H8 - Karmic lessons when it comes to sex. Might need to be analyzed further by the native.

Venus square Neptune - I have this exact aspect in these exact signs and it's a b*tch, but it can be worked against. You just have to be HIGHLY rational and being double earth, this shouldn't be too difficult a task for you.

I'm surprised nothing happened this time last year for you romantically? Transitting Jupiter in Scorpio would have formed a kite with your grand trine involving your Sun/NN/Jupiter. If you didn't have a single successful love affair while Jupiter was transitting your 5th, you definitely need to reconcile more with your natal chart and try to make it work for you.


And yes I am my chart. Everything about Venus square Neptune and Venus square Uranus is me. The definition of those aspects is how I 100% am in a relationship. I'm too idealistic, too forgiving, too nice, too suspicious, too quick to jump to conclusions, my intuition never fails me though, but sometimes I feel like I shouldn't listen to my intuition and just let the relationship progress further to see if things might change. I've had a terrible time with the Uranus-Neptune conjunction since I began dating years ago. Venus in Aries has also been difficult because I'm the classic Venus in Aries woman who will chase the guy and have no issue being a little aggressive if I'm upset with him or if I feel he's being shady. I'm too fast in wanting love. I don't jump into sex fast though, so I do thank Saturn in my 8th for making me not so slutty.

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